Shabbat – O – Gram

 

October 28, 2005 and, Tishrei 25, 5766

 

Rabbi Joshua Hammerman, Temple Beth El, Stamford, Connecticut

 

 

TBE TO DO LIST FOR THIS WEEK:

 

n   Come to services!

n   Fill out an “All About My Pet” for next week’s “Blessing of the Animals” (http://www.tbe.org/site/sog/blessingofanimals.htm)

n   Attend adult ed classes and sisterhood paid up brunch.

n   Send my little singer to the first Junior Choir rehearsal on Sunday

n   Check the Website for photos and discussion topics (this week: “Should Jews celebrate Halloween?”)

 

Last Sunday things were hopping here, with the planting of our new Holocaust Memorial Garden and the Hebrew School grades visiting the TBE Sukkah (and the 7th grade visiting the Hammerman Sukkah next door).  Here is a sampling.

 Lots more photos can be found at our website, www.tbe.org.

(Photos taken by Dan Young and Mitch Pomerance)

 

 

  

 

  

 

  

 

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Contents of the Shabbat O Gram: (click to scroll down)

 

Just the Facts (service schedule)

The Rabid Rabbi

Mitzvah/Tzedakkah Opportunities

Ask the Rabbi

Spiritual Journey on the Web

Required Reading and Action Items (links to key articles on Israel and Jewish life)

 Announcements (goings on in and around TBE)

Joke for the Week

 

 

 

 

 

 

Quote for the Week

 

 

" When I was a congregational rabbi, at the close of Yom Kippur I would look out at the approximately 1,300 people before me and ask myself, “What would it take to keep the walls down all year and have a crowd that swelled the sanctuary?...

First, stop blaming “them” for not joining “us.” Those who only visit the synagogue a couple of times a year are not the problem…

Second, we must understand that diversity is a blessing and not a threat…

Third, we shouldn’t try and prescribe a “one size fits all” definition of being Jewish…

Fourth, use the talents within our communities…

Finally, remember that the goal of encouraging membership in a synagogue is not just to increase dues but to increase Jewish involvement.”  

 

-- fromFive Steps Toward Revitalizing Synagogues” by Rabbi Hayyim Herring

See the full article in the Jewish Week, http://www.thejewishweek.com/top/editletcontent.php3?artid=4575

 

 

JUST THE FACTS

 

 

REMEMBER TO “FALL BACK” TO E.S.T. THIS WEEKEND

Friday Evening

Candle lighting for Stamford, CT: Candle lighting: 5:38pm on Friday, 28 October 2005.

For candle lighting times, other Jewish calendar information, and to download a Jewish calendar to your PDA, click on http://www.hebcal.com/.  To see the festivals of other faiths as well, go to http://www.interfaithcalendar.org/

 

Kabbalat Shabbat: 6:30 PM – in the LOBBY

 

Tot Shabbat this week: 6:45 PM – in the CHAPEL

 

Shabbat Morning: 9:30 AM  -  MAZAL TOV TO Jeffrey Jablon, WHO BECOMES BAR MITZVAH THIS SHABBAT MORNING!

Children’s services: 10:30 AM, including Jr. Congregation for grades 3-6 and Tot Shabbat Morning for the younger kids. 

Torah Portion: Beresheet Genesis 1:1 - 6:8

1: 2:4-9
2: 2:10-19
3: 2:20-25
4: 3:1-21
5: 3:22-24
6: 4:1-18
7: 4:19-26
maf: 4:23-26

Haftarah – Isaiah 42:5 - 43:11

See a weekly commentary from the UJC Rabbinic Cabinet, at www.ujc.org/mekorchaim.  Read the Masorti commentary at http://www.masorti.org/mason/torah/index.asp.  University of Judaism,  JTS commentary is at: http://learn.jtsa.edu/topics/parashah/. USCJ Torah Sparks can be found at http://uscj.org/item20_467.html. UAHC Shabbat Table Talk discussions are at http://uahc.org/torah/exodus.shtml. Other divrei Torah via the Torahnet home page: http://uahcweb.org/torahnet/. Test your Parasha I.Q.: http://www.ou.org/jewishiq/parsha/default.htm. CLAL’s Torah commentary archive: http://click.topica.com/maaaiRtaaRvQhbV2AtLb/.  World Zionist Organization Education page, including Nehama Liebowitz archives of parsha commentaries: http://www.moreshet.net/web/index.asp?f=1 For a more Kabbalistic/Zionist/Orthodox perspective from Rav Kook, first Chief Rabbi of Israel, go to http://www.geocities.com/m_yericho/ravkook/index.html. For some probing questions and meditations on key verses of the portion, with a liberal kabbalistic bent, go to http://www.jewishealing.com/learning.html or, for Kabbalistic commentaries from the Zohar itself, go to http://www.kabbalah.com/k/index.php/p=zohar/weekly/intro. To see the weekly commentary from Hillel, geared to college students and others, go to  http://www.hillel.org/hillel/NewHille.nsf/FCB8259CA861AE57852567D30043BA26/DF7D129F15B3DF0885256AB80058E9C3?OpenDocument. For a Jewish Renewal and feminist approach go to http://rabbishefagold.hypermart.net/Torah1.html .  For a comprehensive Orthodox viewpoint from the Israeli rabbi, Yaakov Fogelman, go to the Torah Outreach Program at http://israelvisit.co.il/top/previous.shtml.  Guided meditations for each portion by Judith Abrams at http://www.maqom.com/kavannah.pdfFor online Parsha quizzes from Pardes in Israel, go to  http://www.pardes.org.il/online_learning/parsha_quizzes/ Torah for Kids: http://www.torah4kids.net/  Weekly Lesson of Popular Israeli Rabbi Mordechai Elon: http://www.elon.org/archives/archives.htm - and his parsha sheets: http://www.mibereshit.org/special/download_eng_pdf.htm

Former Knesset Speaker Avraham Burg offers Torah-based commentary on current affairs  (Y-net)

THE ENTIRE HEBREW BIBLE (AS WELL AS OTHER JEWISH SOURCES) CAN BE FOUND WITH SIDE-BY-SIDE TRANSLATION AT

http://www.mechon-mamre.org/

 

Morning Minyan: Sundays at 8:30 AM (note new time!!!),

Weekdays at 7:30 AM – IN THE CHAPEL

 

 Minyan Mastery

 

Now you can become more comfortable with the prayers of our morning service by heading to…

http://www.tbe.org/site/sog/minyanmastery.htm

 

The Rabid Rabbi

 

Mazal tov to Sue and Art Greenwald, our Hattan and Kallat Torah and  Olga Goldstein, our Kallat Breisheet, who were honored on Simhat Torah morning with the special aliyahs for their tireless volunteer efforts on behalf of the congregation!  Here is what they said upon being honored this week.

 

 

 

Sensitivity to human suffering can be overwhelming.  Contributing to the reduction or amelioration of suffering is not only a mitzvah, it helps to empower and console those who do the work of making the world a better place.  Social action, performed with humility, is a uniquely gratifying activity.  It adds depth, purpose and understanding to our lives. 

 

Our involvement with Beth El Cares was a natural outgrowth of our commitment to tikkun olam and being a positive role model for our children.  Jan Gaines, Joan Weisman and Fred Weisman were our first Beth El Cares role models.  Their fervent commitment to social action inspired us to work with, and learn from, them.  Eventually Rabbi Hammerman connected us with our predecessors, Tracy and Nahum Daniels, and we assumed Beth El Cares leadership roles.

 

 We agreed to lead, like those before us, to help facilitate opportunities for Temple Beth El members to do mitzvoth together- to ease the burden of those in need while having an opportunity to work with, and get to know, other members. It has been particularly gratifying to see congregants who perform mitzvoth frequently-and quietly-without any expectation of recognition or reward.  They are willing to inconvenience themselves to comfort, feed and serve others who need their support.  We can be proud of the impact these individuals make in our community and in Israel.

 

Over the past year, we became mentors for Cheryl Wolff who, along with Cathy Satz, now chairs Beth El Cares.  It has been our pleasure to work with Temple Beth El staff and members.  We hope that Beth El Cares will grow and thrive for as it does, together we will make the world a better place and more volunteers will come to know the unique fulfillment that comes with giving.

 

We appreciate everyone’s kindness and the Kallat Torah and Hattan Torah honors you have given us.

 

 

                                                                                                                   Sue and Art Greenwald

 

 

 

                            

 

My journey as a volunteer at Temple Beth-El started one afternoon nine years ago when my oldest daughter Carrie was Bat-Mitzvahed by Hazzan Rabinowitz.

 

Shortly there after, I went to see Hazzan Rabinowitz to thank him for everything he did for my daughter Carrie.  As I sat in his office, he was having a phone conversation about the teen service, I heard all the effort that was required to make this event a success, and realized how important it was to continue the involvement of our teens in the Temple and Judaism after their Bar/Bat Mitzvah.

 

Finally after half an hour, Hazzan Rabinowitz finished his phone conversation.  Hazzan looked at me and said with a soft tone of voice, hi Olga how are you. I am fine, but I could see through his semblance something was worrying Hazzan.  He did not have to say anything.  Instead it just came out of my mouth.  Hazzan the reason I am in your office today is because I have free time and I would like to help you with the Teen Service this year.

Also I would like my daughter to participate.

 

He smiled at me and said, thank you for coming to my office today.  I left his office with smile.  I became responsible for the Teen Service for the next five years.

 

I wanted to give, in a genuine, authentic and caring way to The House Of G-d and this was the beginning of my journey at Temple Beth-El.

 

I continue helping whenever I have the time to spare.  I dedicated time helping in the kitchen, I organized Cantor Jacobson's office and started organizing Roberta Aronovitch's office, I couldn't finished what I started, but I know I will find the time to finish.

 

Volunteering at Beth-El makes me feel whole as a person and makes me happy to be around all the wonderful people that we all know, work very hard to make our temple STAND TALL.

 

Olga Goldstein

 

 

 

Kosher in Stamford – an Update

The many email requests the Kosher Activists Committee has received from all of you has now paid off - Over the past 8 months  the Stamford Kosher Activists Committee has been working diligently to honor and secure many, many food items that have been hard to come by locally, here in Stamford, CT. We have dedicated ourselves to building a long lasting relationship with both the Stop & Shop  and Shop Rite Supermarkets Corporate and Regional Management. The results have, to date, produced the following: STOP & SHOP - Stamford - Ridgeway Center - Summer St. Current & Ongoing Reorganization / Expansion of Kosher Depts. Includes expanded ( 30 Feet ) of kosher grocery (Bloom's line of pareve cookies, candies, Biutoni Tomato Sauce line, Osem (Israeli products), Tradition - ready meals, etc) . (Includes 6 feet in Aisle # 3 ). Kosher Dairy - Besides the current Miller's cheese line, the store will now carry some Cholov Yisroel products. The current kosher bakery now features a table of a full line of Beigel's brand - pareve cakes & cookies. Kosher Meat section will now display glatt kosher processed deli meats, above an expanded line of pre-packaged - fresh meats / poultry. Frozen Kosher will now feature an expanded 5 doors of a newly revamped / reorganized / expanded sections with new product lines, such as Ratner's,  Old City Cafe, Kineret,  A&B Gefilte Fish, etc.

 

For the time being - discussions relating to the store location offering a glatt kosher deli and glatt kosher fresh meat dept., at the request of management has been placed " on the back burner ", due to space constraints.  However  - discussions are continuing with the kosher committee.

 

NEW    *         NEW        *           NEW         *        NEW     *     NEW   *      NEW      *        NEW    *       NEW    *

 

 

BEGINNING THURSDAY -    OCTOBER 27TH

 

 

The Kosher Committee is pleased to make the community aware of the GRAND OPENING  of the NEW ( 80,000 sq. ft.),

 

SHOP RITE -  off Post Road (Route 1) Stamford / Greenwich Line. ( 1/2 mile off Exit 6 ( Harvard Ave. ) Going Southbound - I-95 

                       exit 6 - Right turn at Stop sign. First left onto  Commerce St., till end of street.

 

                     Going  I-95 North / East - Take Exit 6, at end of ramp, make left, go under highway. Make left  

                      onto Commerce St. till end

 

Enter thru left side store entrance - proceed to Aisle # 1 -

 

Grocery - 36 feet of grocery - featuring Pareve Cakes, Savion Croutons, Bloom's cookie & candy section, bread crumbs, rice cakes, chips, snacks, canned soups, grape juice, crackers, Osem line of products,  Assorted Teas, etc.

 

Frozen Kosher - 9 doors of well stocked, items - Tabatchnick & Ratner's soups, pizza varieties, Blinztes, Pirogen, Yoni's brand of pasta favorites, Meal Mart of favorite entrees, chopped liver, Kinnert potatoes & onion rings, etc.

 

Kosher Meats -  8 feet of processed glatt kosher deli and prepackaged fresh glatt meats & poultry, pickels, etc.

 

New Sally Sherman (small resealable size) Pareve salads - including - Cole Slaw, Macaroni, Tuna &  Egg.

Ideal for family functions, Temple Kiddush & Shalot Seudot Party Planning.

 

Dairy  Section - (far side of store)  Includes - Herring (Cream Sauce), Horseradish, Mehadrin - Cholov Yisroel - brand yogurts, 

                                                     New Square - Cholov Yisroel - brand products (on order).