Shabbat – O – Gram

 

November 11, 2005 and, Heshvan 9, 5766

 

Rabbi Joshua Hammerman, Temple Beth El, Stamford, Connecticut

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We recall the sacrifices of so many today and this coming week:

 

n   victims of Krystallnacht in 1938

n   victims of terror in Jordan and Iraq this week

n   the assassination of Yitzhak Rabin 10 years ago (by the Hebrew calendar)

n   and veterans who have served this country through all-too-many wars

 

Also, congratulations to all the winners of this week’s elections, including Mayor Dan Malloy, and special condolences to Shimon Peres, who never misses an opportunity to miss an opportunity to be elected when he is leading in the polls… See Political storm as Peretz takes Labor leadership from today’s Ha’aretz.  A Sharon-Peres third party is becoming more and more possible by the hour. See also: Analysis / A new era - Labor Party is back in the game and Analysis / If he forms a new party, does Sharon need Peres?

 

 

Contents of the Shabbat O Gram: (click to scroll down)

 

Just the Facts (service schedule)

The Rabid Rabbi

Mitzvah/Tzedakkah Opportunities

Ask the Rabbi

Spiritual Journey on the Web

Required Reading and Action Items (links to key articles on Israel and Jewish life)

 Announcements (goings on in and around TBE)

Joke for the Week

 

 

KEY REMINDERS!!!

Thursday evening @ 7:30 – Medical Ethics Panel

Friday at 7:30 – Shabbat Unplugged! Followed by a TERRIFIC Oneg and lecture on Jerusalem archeology by Dan Bahat

(a young children’s program with Nurit will also be held upstairs in the chapel)

Sunday at 10 AM at UConn – The Secrets of the Tunnels of Ancient Jerusalem

See below for more details in the “Annoucements” section

 

 

Quote for the Week

 

 

On this week’s French riots:

 

 “In the immediate aftermath of the September 11 attacks, the US media became preoccupied with a key question: ‘Why do they hate us so much?’… Among the many reasons proffered, one that appeared frequently…was that it was all due to US support for Israel… The events in Paris over the last 12 days have confirmed the vacuity of this argument.

 

Since the mid-1960s, France has consistently been among the most pro-Arab countries in western Europe… Nevertheless, its Muslim youth are rioting in the banlieues of Paris. Though it is too early to dissect this ongoing French revolution, one thing that can already be said is that these rioters hate France… And this hatred of France has nothing to do with Israel... 

 

For too long much of the West, with France at the vanguard, has tried to paper over its real conflict with radical Islam with the argument that if only a solution to the Israeli-Arab conflict could be found, then all would be well with the world and Islamic enmity would disappear. Not so. The French would be wise to pay attention to the fact that these flames of alienation are being fanned and leveraged for their own use by Islamic radicals who—as the homegrown London bombers proved in July—are thriving on the streets of Europe.”

—Editorial. (Jer. Post, Nov. 7)

 

JUST THE FACTS

 

 

Friday Evening

Candle lighting for Stamford, CT: Candle lighting: 4:22 pm (Oy) on Friday, 11 November 2005.

For candle lighting times, other Jewish calendar information, and to download a Jewish calendar to your PDA, click on http://www.hebcal.com/.  To see the festivals of other faiths as well, go to http://www.interfaithcalendar.org/

 

SHABBAT UNPLUGGED – this week!

7:30 PM – in the SANCTUARY

 

Children’s program with Nurit: 7:30 PM – in the chapel

 

Shabbat Morning: 9:30 AM -  MAZAL TOV TO Austin Dowdle, WHO BECOMES BAR MITZVAH THIS SHABBAT MORNING! 

Children’s services: 10:30 AM, including Jr. Congregation for grades 3-6 and Tot Shabbat Morning for the younger kids. 

Torah Portion: Lech Lecha - Genesis 12:1 - 17:27

1: 14:1-9
2: 14:10-16
3: 14:17-20
4: 14:21-24
5: 15:1-6
6: 15:7-16
7: 15:17-21
maf: 15:17-21

Haftarah – Isaiah 40:27 - 41:16

Shabbat Afternoon/Havdalah: 4:00 PM - MAZAL TOV TO Michael Rosenfeld WHO BECOMES BAR MITZVAH THIS SHABBAT AFTERNOON!

See a weekly commentary from the UJC Rabbinic Cabinet, at www.ujc.org/mekorchaim.  Read the Masorti commentary at http://www.masorti.org/mason/torah/index.asp.  University of Judaism,  JTS commentary is at: http://learn.jtsa.edu/topics/parashah/. USCJ Torah Sparks can be found at http://uscj.org/item20_467.html. UAHC Shabbat Table Talk discussions are at http://uahc.org/torah/exodus.shtml. Other divrei Torah via the Torahnet home page: http://uahcweb.org/torahnet/. Test your Parasha I.Q.: http://www.ou.org/jewishiq/parsha/default.htm. CLAL’s Torah commentary archive: http://click.topica.com/maaaiRtaaRvQhbV2AtLb/.  World Zionist Organization Education page, including Nehama Liebowitz archives of parsha commentaries: http://www.moreshet.net/web/index.asp?f=1 For a more Kabbalistic/Zionist/Orthodox perspective from Rav Kook, first Chief Rabbi of Israel, go to http://www.geocities.com/m_yericho/ravkook/index.html. For some probing questions and meditations on key verses of the portion, with a liberal kabbalistic bent, go to http://www.jewishealing.com/learning.html or, for Kabbalistic commentaries from the Zohar itself, go to http://www.kabbalah.com/k/index.php/p=zohar/weekly/intro. To see the weekly commentary from Hillel, geared to college students and others, go to  http://www.hillel.org/hillel/NewHille.nsf/FCB8259CA861AE57852567D30043BA26/DF7D129F15B3DF0885256AB80058E9C3?OpenDocument. For a Jewish Renewal and feminist approach go to http://rabbishefagold.hypermart.net/Torah1.html .  For a comprehensive Orthodox viewpoint from the Israeli rabbi, Yaakov Fogelman, go to the Torah Outreach Program at http://israelvisit.co.il/top/previous.shtml.  Guided meditations for each portion by Judith Abrams at http://www.maqom.com/kavannah.pdfFor online Parsha quizzes from Pardes in Israel, go to  http://www.pardes.org.il/online_learning/parsha_quizzes/ Torah for Kids: http://www.torah4kids.net/  Weekly Lesson of Popular Israeli Rabbi Mordechai Elon: http://www.elon.org/archives/archives.htm - and his parsha sheets: http://www.mibereshit.org/special/download_eng_pdf.htm

Former Knesset Speaker Avraham Burg offers Torah-based commentary on current affairs  (Y-net)

THE ENTIRE HEBREW BIBLE (AS WELL AS OTHER JEWISH SOURCES) CAN BE FOUND WITH SIDE-BY-SIDE TRANSLATION AT

http://www.mechon-mamre.org/

 

Morning Minyan: Sundays at 8:30 AM (note new time!!!),

Weekdays at 7:30 AM – IN THE CHAPEL

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 Minyan Mastery

 

Now you can become more comfortable with the prayers of our morning service by heading to…

http://www.tbe.org/site/sog/minyanmastery.htm

 

The Rabid Rabbi

 

My letter to the Advocate (printed today) regarding the recent swastika incidents… http://www.stamfordadvocate.com/news/opinion/letters/

 

To the editor:

I am very grateful for the speedy and professional manner in which the recent swastika vandalism has been handled, both by Stamford school officials and the police (Advocate news story, Nov. 5).

I especially want to commend Joshua Starr, our new schools superintendent, and Camille Figluizzi, principal of Westhill High School, for their strong statements to students and to the public condemning these hateful acts and recognizing how such deeds can rip apart the fabric of our diverse community. Language is a very powerful tool, and symbols like swastikas and graffiti extolling Hitler have no place in civilized society. I am also grateful at the way they have maintained an open dialogue with Jewish leaders during this recent string of incidents.

It is disturbing to me, therefore, that the police have shown reluctance to label these as bias or hate crimes. There may be extenuating circumstances that I am missing, and I am always ready to give authorities the benefit of the doubt. Our police and mayor have done a stellar job in addressing such issues in the past, and our community is a shining model that diversity can work.

But the mere appearance of tolerating hate, even if justified given extenuating circumstances, sets a very dangerous precedent and places us on a slippery slope. If nothing else, these very public incidents cry out for a sustained educational program addressing the roots of racism and anti-Semitism. In this case, opportunity was missed by the police, at least in the early announcements on results of their investigation.

It's not too late to address that error. If the perpetrator did not realize the implications of his act, it is our collective responsibility to make sure he -- and everyone else -- learns from it.

Joshua Hammerman

 

Stamford

The writer is rabbi at Temple Beth El.

 

This message is especially relevant in light of this being the anniversary Krystallnacht…

 

Kristallnacht Must Never Be Forgotten

Rabbi Dr. Bernhard H. Rosenberg

Congregation Beth El, Edison, New Jersey

 

    Imagine one morning you and your family are awakened by shout and screams.  Then, suddenly, the police break into your house.  They start breaking the china, destroying the furniture, and shattering windows while showing great satisfaction in their destruction.  Then you and your family are told to get dressed and are taken to the police station for no apparent reason.  On the way, you see your synagogue in flames, and your neighbors throwing rocks at it.

 

   This happened on the early morning of November 9, 1938, to Miriam Cohn,  Jewish social worker who lived in Essen, Germany.  In addition to Ms. Cohn, other similar incidents occurred to other Jews wholived in Germany and Austria during that night and the following day. 

 

  During that night in 1938, mobs burned synagogues, destroyed Jewish homes and businesses, vandalized Jewish hostpitals, orphanages and cemeteries, and dragged thousands of Jewish men, women and children into the streets, where they were beaten and humiliated.  The germans later named this night "Kristallnacht" , The Night of Broken Glass, because of the tons of shattered glass that scattered German cities following this event.  The Jews began to call that date the beginning of the Holocaust because of the tremendous amount of violence which began that night and escalated as the days progressed.

 

    On November 7, 1938, the Third Secretary of the German embassy in Paris, Ernst Vom Rath, was murdered by Herschel Grynzpan, a 17 year old German-Jewish refugee.  Herschel wanted to avenge his parents' expulsion, together with 15,000 other Polish Jews from Germany to Zbonszym.  The Nazis used the murder as an excuse to start the riots that ushered in the "final solution," the extermination of the entire Jewish population.

 

    The German government attempted to disguise the violence of those initial days as a spontaneous protest on the part of the "Aryan" population.  In reality, Kristallnacht was organized by the Nazis with technical skill and precision.  The Nazi chiefs commanded the Gestapo and the storm troopers to incite mob riots throughout Austria and Germany.

 

    Kristallnacht marked the beginning of the plan to rob the Jewis of their possessions for the benefit of the Reich and finally eradicate all traces of them.  Thereafter, the Jews had not place in the German economy.  In addition, no Jewish life was possible with the dismissal of Jewish cultural and communal bodies and the Jewish press. The Jewish Telegraphic Agency's Berling reporter called that night "the worst outbreak of anti-Jewish violence in modern Jewish history."

 

    During Kristallnacht over 1,100 synagogues were destroyed, as well as 7,500 Jewish businesses and homes.  Several hundred Jews were killed and 30,000 were arrested and sent to concentration camps at Sachsenhausen, Buchenwald and Dachau.

 

    Ronald Lauder, a former U.S. Ambassador to Austria and head of the foundation that has spearheaded Kristallnacht commemorations around the country said, " There is no date in the whole Holocaust like November 9, 1938.  It showed for the first time the horror of what the Nazis were planning."

 

    Today, many historians can trace a pattern of event, occurring before that night, that would suggest that such an atrocity was imminent.  In 1933, when the Nazis took power, German anti-Semitism adopted quasi-legal forms. One of the new anti-Jewish actions, which began with the Nuremberg Laws of 1935, included the separation of the Jews from the daily structure of German life.  They were systematically deprived of their civil rights; isolated from the general populace through humiliating identification measures. The Nazis boycotted the Jewish shops and took away their jobs.  The made the Jews declare the value of their possessions.  The Civil Service and police often arrested Jews and forced them to sell their property for little value.

 

    One may ask how the entire world stood by and allowed this to occur.  the Fascist and authoritative regimes in Italy, Rumania, Hungary and Poland approved of this pogrom against the Jews and wanted to use it to strengthen their own anti-Semitic state policies.  The three great Western nations, Great Britain, France, and the United States, said the appropritate words but did nothing constructive to help the Jewish populations.  Hitler, in the late 1930's, told the world to take the Jews but there was no one to take him up on his offer.  President Roosevelt and his administratin expressed their shock over the terrible events occurring in Germany and Austria, but when it came time to accept refugees into the United States, the government stated they had not intention of allowing more immigrants to enter this country.

 

    Looking back at Jewish history, every Jew should be cautious and aware of what is occurring today.  In a powerful speech before members of the New York Jewish Civil Service organization, Ronald Lauder warned that the ignorance and fear that bred anti-Semitism in Hitler's Third Reich is being encouraged once again. "Today in America, we hear...those same charges," he comments.  "There are those who tell us that Jews control the banks and the press.  There are those that would tell us Jews control congress and the government.  Kristallnacht teaches us many things.  Among them that we must remain vigilant and not permit event the smallest seed of anti-Semitism to take root.  We cannot afford to be complacent in the face of anti-Semitic distortions.  Quiet little lies grow to be big loud lies."

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Something About Mary

 

Something interesting happened at this past Tuesday’s “Learning and Latte” interfaith dialogue at Borders.  We had our ususal nice turnout of about 15-20 sitting and sipping in the café, including several unaffiliated Jews who have no connection to a synagogue but were intrigued by the topic.  What was interesting is that the ratio of Christians to Jews was much greater than usual (there typically is a solid majority of Jews present).  Why the sudden shift?  Was it the title (“Mary and the two Hannahs”) that scared some Jews away?  Was it something about Mary?   Whatever the cause, it’s too bad, because I learned much about Judaism by learning about the figure of Mary in the New Testament, and the comparisons between Mary and the Hannah of the Bible, as well as the Hannah of the Hanukkah story, are uncanny.  Interfaith discussions such as these have great value.  Plan on joining us at next month’s on Dec. 6, as we welcome Bruce Feiler, author of “Walking the Bible” and the just-published “WHERE GOD WAS BORN.”

 

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This next article came as result of a sting operation revealed on NBC’s Dateline last week.  What’s most disturbing is that the rabbi/internet predator has been involved closely with an otherwise reputable Jewish teen program.  Although his actions indicate that he has a serious illness, still they are a disgrace to his profession and a hillul ha-shem (profanation of God’s name).

 

http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2005/11/03/AR2005110302297_pf.html

 

Rabbi, Teacher Lose Jobs After Taping
'Dateline NBC' Used Hidden Camera in Internet Sex Story

By Allan Lengel
Washington Post Staff Writer
Friday, November 4, 2005; B02

A rabbi for a national youth group based in Rockville and a Prince George's County special education teacher have lost their jobs after they were allegedly videotaped by a hidden camera as part of a forthcoming "Dateline NBC" story about men who try to solicit sex from minors online, officials said yesterday.

Rabbi David A. Kaye, 55, vice president of programs for PANIM: the Institute for Jewish Leaders and Values, resigned this week after disclosing that he might be featured on a national television news program, according to a statement released by the organization's president, Rabbi Sidney Schwarz.

Schwarz said Kaye, who lives in Potomac, "informed me of certain personal conduct that took place outside our organization that may soon be aired as part of a larger news story on national television.   We currently are undertaking an internal inquiry to be certain there has been no similar misconduct at PANIM in any way." The organization conducts nationwide programs for high school students.

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AND FINALLY, THE LAST INSTALLMENTS OF GARY GELLER’S NOTES FROM THE UJF WOMAN’S DIVISION MISSION TO BUCHAREST AND ISRAEL

Hey,

It is an amazing trip.  Everyone arrived in Bucharest within 15 minutes of each other.  Whew, what a relief. The women will have solme tales to tell about the flight to Zurich.  I was in a different cabin (still economy) so I missed most of it. There were many Hasidim on the flight...

We spent an hour with the Ambassador, learning about Romanian fore1ign policy and things like that. She a warm lady whose priorities include educating the country's children about the holocaust. Zvi then gave us a history of the JDC in Romania.  He's been ivolved here over 20 years. Then we a presentation by the youth choir, including printed programs, followed by dinner with the leadership, all men wearing suits and ties.  Listening to the President talk made me think about what it must have been like at politboro meetings.  He went on and on.  If you go on the JDC website you will see a program called "Project Vision".  It was started by a physician from Atlanta.  It just so happens he is in Bucharest this week and he was there as well. More about him later.

We got back to the hotel at 10pm and we all collapsed.  Hotel accomodations are very good. The shows are hot with high water pressure.  What more could you ask for?

Today we visited 3 synagogues, all within walking distance of each other and each more beautiful. At the Temple Chorale (main synagogue) they had left their Sukkah up. On the inside it was decorated with Torah covers from Romanian synagogues that no longer exist. Then we were off to the Lauder School, where we saw some of the teachers who had performed the night before.  It is a very small Jewish world over here. Our box lunch was not only delicious, but was more food than we could eat.  yes, they are taking good care of us.

I forgot to mention that we visited the Jewish Medical Center and presented the vitamins and Tylenol and saw Dr Kuttner from Atlanat again (he is joining us for dinner again tonight). We then made 2 home visits. Not nearly the same story as Tblisi, but still compelling.

Our final visit was to the Youth Department.  I am bringing their power point presentation back with me.  This group is amazing. Not only is JDC helping the survivors and helping to made the last days of the elderly better, but now they are helping to build better Jews. In 6 years this department has grown to where they have over 400 individual young Jews, under the age of 35, attending at least one of their programs each year.  NOt bad for a community of maybe 10,000, of which 5,000 live outside of Bucharest.  To put it into perspective, they have identified 1,600 younf Jews (up from 1,100 3 years ago) living in over 50 different communities in the country. For many of these young people, these are the only Jewish programs they have ever attended. As Zvi was hoping, this is a program for us to consider.  A little money can go along long way.

More later.

Gary

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The group made Havdallah about 30 minutes ago and I have time for one last missive from Jerusalem, as we leaver bright and early tomorrow.

 

After lighting candles last night we were off to Shir HaChadasha, an Orthodox congregation where the community is staying within Orthodox Halacha, but stretching the amount of women's participation. Prior to Kabbalat Shabbat the group met with Tova Hartmann, one of the founders and a PhD who teaches at Hebrew University. She spoke of the community's desire to increase women's participation (moving toward egalitarianism) but staying within an Orthodox framework.  I wanted to ask her "Why not the Masorati Movement?" which is egalitarian but also a traditional service. When she mentioned the community as seeing itself as Orthodox I understood the answer.  They are struggling with the issue, but I witnessed the strong sense of community in the room. Probably close to 500 (1/2 men & 1/2 women) come for Friday Night services. A women leads Kabbalat Shabbat and a man lead mincha and maariv, but the women's voices are loud and strong. On a personal note, it reminded me of my years at JTS. There we too had hundreds of people singing loud and clear and the room fills with the Shabbat experience. The differences are few. At JTS the men and women sat separately but the aisle served as the mechitzah. Last night there was a curtain as a mechitzah, but as I said, a woman led Kabbalat Shabbat. Then when it was time for announcements, the curtain is pulled aside. After announcements it's put back in place for Adon Olam. Gavri, our security man, called this service "experimental".  It was very new for him. I think the entire group enjoyed it immensely.

 

We walked back to the hotel for dinner where we were joined by Ruth Ginsberg, Stamford's OTZMA fellow. Ruth is spending 10 months in Israel, 3 months on Ulpan in Beersheva, 3 months in a Partnership 2000 community (Ruth will be with the Detroit community because she is the lone person from our area on the program) and the final 4 months doing community service. It was wonderful having Ruth with us last night as she told the group all about it. She also caught up a little about some of her old friends from Stamford. Not unexpectedly, she knew the children of 3 mission participants from her days in BBYO.

 

This morning I woke up early and went to the Sephardic synagogue in Yamin Moshe. It turns out I had gone to the Ashkenazi minyan years ago. It was a wonderful service. 30 or so men sitting in a large square around the reader. During Psukei D'Zimra, the reader would chant (in a Sephardic melody) 2 lines and a member of the group would answer back 2 lines. It was mesmerizing. I had to pay attention because the pauses and the reader's lines were not always what and where I expected. The devar was in Hebrew but I was able to pick up a few words here and there. This week being Parshat Noah and the flood, the speaker was making references to the fact that we now pray for rain and not just dew. They brought out 2 scrolls, a Torah and a Haftorah, both Sephardi and in cases. I had not seen a haftorah scroll since my bar mitzvah. As a newcomer I was offered the opportunity for an Aliyah and I said yes. It was a wonderful feeling when they announced my Hebrew name. During the Torah reading there was quiet, but once the Haphtarah was read, no one paid attention. Kiddush was good too. hard boiled eggs, vegetables, cookies and cheese b'raichas. I thought it was better than the hotel breakfast.

 

Next we had a walking tour of David's Citadel, a little more history of Old City of Jerusalem from 1st Temple through modernity. After 3 days, it's all beginning to come together. I feel I've learned more in 3 days about the history of Jerusalem than I did during my year here long ago. After Seudah Shlishi the group took a tour o