Shabbat-O-Gram

 

 

December 9, 2005  -  Kislev 8, 5766

 

 

Rabbi Joshua Hammerman, Temple Beth El, Stamford, Connecticut

 

 

 

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Contents of the Shabbat O Gram: (click to scroll down)

 

Just the Facts (service schedule)

The Rabid Rabbi

Mitzvah/Tzedakkah Opportunities

Ask the Rabbi

Spiritual Journey on the Web

Required Reading and Action Items (links to key articles on Israel and Jewish life)

 Announcements (goings on in and around TBE)

Joke for the Week

 

 

THIS WEEKEND’S TO-DO LIST (aside from regularly scheduled events)…

 

n          Comedy Night on Sat night at 7:30

n          Youth Service for and by teens at 11 on Shabbat

n          Bar/Bat Mitzvah class lunch n’ learn after services on Shabbat

n          Hot-Button Halacha on Sunday at 11 (church-state issues)

n          TBE Israel Adventure informational meeting – Sunday at noon

n          Hanukkah-shop in our gift shop on Sunday morning

n          Shovel snow…

 

 

This week, I voted in the World Zionist Congress elections.  Have you???  Rolling registration is continuing through 1/15, even as voting is now taking place.  Register online HERE

 

THIS WEEK ONLY – The acclaimed Israeli film "Ushpizin" is playing at the Avon theater. 

 

Our deepest sympathies to Rabbi Emily Korzenik on the passing of her husband, Sidney.  May his memory be for a blessing.  Memorial donations may be made to the New Israel Fund, the Reading Reform Foundation of New York or the UJA-Federation of New York.

 

 

 

 

Quotes for the Week

 

“It's a great shame that the Security Council couldn't speak to this terrorist attack in Netanya,

but if the Council won't speak, the United States will.”

 

U.S. Ambassador John Bolton, blaming Algeria for quashing the statement condemning the suicide bombing in Netanya. The statement would have “unequivocally” condemned the blast, and urged Syria to shut down Islamic Jihad offices in Damascus. Palestinian Islamic Jihad claimed responsibility for Monday’s attack.  (Voice of America, Ha’aretz, Dec. 7)

 

 

 

 

JUST THE FACTS

 Winter Weather Advisory

Note that in the case of bad weather, weekday minyan does not take place when Stamford public schools are cancelled OR postponed.  On Sunday, minyan is cancelled if our Religious School sessions are cancelled. Friday evening and Shabbat morning’s main service is never officially cancelled, but do use your best judgment in deciding whether to come.  We will endeavor to get proper notification to WSTC radio regarding cancellations, but that may not always be possible for children’s services held on Shabbat.

 

THIS SHABBAT MORNING – A TBE FIRST!!

A Shabbat morning service and lunch by teens and for teens!!!! In the youth lounge at 11 (you even get to sleep late!)

 

Minyan on Sunday mornings now begins at 9:30 AM.

 

Our ritual committee decided to abandon the 8:30 experiment.  On the bright side, the Guaranteed Minyan experiment has worked wonderfully, using the Rosner Minyan Maker at www.tbe.org.  If you want a Guaranteed Minyan on a day when you have yahrzeit, simply go to the site, click on the day and fill in your name, indicating that it is a Yahrzeit, then e-mail me at rabbi@tbe.org so I can alert the congregation.  The last time we did it, we had 24 people turn out.

 

 

As things “quiet down” (only a little) in our Bar/Bat Mitzvah schedule, we will be having a couple of congregational lunches over the coming weeks, including December 24 and Feb 4.  The one in Feb. will be a special JTS Shabbat when we will be welcoming a student from the Jewish Theological Seminary who will be speaking at services and joining us for the weekend.  The one on Dec. 24 is, well, on Dec. 24 (Hanukkah Eve), and that’s always a nice time to relax over lunch.  We are looking for SPONSORS for those lunches.  For more information, contact the temple office.

Friday Evening

Candle lighting for Stamford, CT: Candle lighting: 4:08pm on Friday, 09 December 2005.  For candle lighting times, other Jewish calendar information, and to download a Jewish calendar to your PDA, click on http://www.hebcal.com/.  To see the festivals of other faiths as well, go to http://www.interfaithcalendar.org/

 

Family Friday Kabbalat Shabbat: 7:30 PM – in the sanctuary

Join us as we begin our preparations for Hanukkah! (note the 7:30 time on the second week of the month)

 

TOT SHABBAT WILL RETURN NEXT WEEK!

Shabbat Morning: 9:30 AM – Main service

MAZAL TOV TO, Alexander Aflalo, who becomes Bar Mitzvah this Shabbat morning! 

Junior Congregation and Tot Shabbat Morning: 10:30

Special this Shabbat: 11:00: Teen service – BY teens, FOR teens (8th grade and up) in the youth lounge. It will be followed by lunch.

A Bar/Bat Mitzvah Class lunch and learn will take place immediately after services

Torah Portion: Vayetze - Genesis 28:10 - 32:3 – the Jacob story continues

1: 30:14-16
2: 30:17-21
3: 30:22-27
4: 30:28-36
5: 30:37-43
6: 31:1-9
7: 31:10-16
maf: 31:14-16

Haftarah – Hosea 12:13 - 14:10

See a weekly commentary from the UJC Rabbinic Cabinet, at www.ujc.org/mekorchaim.  Read the Masorti commentary at http://www.masorti.org/mason/torah/index.asp.  University of Judaism,  JTS commentary is at: http://learn.jtsa.edu/topics/parashah/. USCJ Torah Sparks can be found at http://uscj.org/item20_467.html. UAHC Shabbat Table Talk discussions are at http://uahc.org/torah/exodus.shtml. Other divrei Torah via the Torahnet home page: http://uahcweb.org/torahnet/. Test your Parasha I.Q.: http://www.ou.org/jewishiq/parsha/default.htm. CLAL’s Torah commentary archive: http://click.topica.com/maaaiRtaaRvQhbV2AtLb/.  World Zionist Organization Education page, including Nehama Liebowitz archives of parsha commentaries: http://www.moreshet.net/web/index.asp?f=1 For a more Kabbalistic/Zionist/Orthodox perspective from Rav Kook, first Chief Rabbi of Israel, go to http://www.geocities.com/m_yericho/ravkook/index.html. For some probing questions and meditations on key verses of the portion, with a liberal kabbalistic bent, go to http://www.jewishealing.com/learning.html or, for Kabbalistic commentaries from the Zohar itself, go to http://www.kabbalah.com/k/index.php/p=zohar/weekly/intro. To see the weekly commentary from Hillel, geared to college students and others, go to  http://www.hillel.org/hillel/NewHille.nsf/FCB8259CA861AE57852567D30043BA26/DF7D129F15B3DF0885256AB80058E9C3?OpenDocument. For a Jewish Renewal and feminist approach go to http://rabbishefagold.hypermart.net/Torah1.html .  For a comprehensive Orthodox viewpoint from the Israeli rabbi, Yaakov Fogelman, go to the Torah Outreach Program at http://israelvisit.co.il/top/previous.shtml.  Guided meditations for each portion by Judith Abrams at http://www.maqom.com/kavannah.pdfFor online Parsha quizzes from Pardes in Israel, go to  http://www.pardes.org.il/online_learning/parsha_quizzes/ Torah for Kids: http://www.torah4kids.net/  Weekly Lesson of Popular Israeli Rabbi Mordechai Elon: http://www.elon.org/archives/archives.htm - and his parsha sheets: http://www.mibereshit.org/special/download_eng_pdf.htm   From Bar Ilan University: http://www.biu.ac.il/JH/Parasha/eng/

 

THE ENTIRE HEBREW BIBLE (AS WELL AS OTHER JEWISH SOURCES) CAN BE FOUND WITH SIDE-BY-SIDE TRANSLATION AT

http://www.mechon-mamre.org/

 

Morning Minyan: Sundays at 9:30 AM (note new time!!!),

Weekdays at 7:30 AM – IN THE CHAPEL

TO ENSURE A “GUARANTEED MINYAN” FOR THE DAY OF YOUR YAHRZEIT – GO TO THE ROSNER MINYAN MAKER AT WWW.TBE.ORG AND ALSO CONTACT ME AT RABBI@TBE.ORG.

 

 

A guaranteed minyan has been requested for Thursday, Dec. 22 and Tuesday, Dec. 27. 

If you can make it, go to www.tbe.org and click on the Rosner Minyan Maker to let us know.

 

The Rabid Rabbi

Missionary Groups on Campus

 

One of our TBE college students sent me this e-mail last week:

 

Hi Rabbi Hammerman-

I have having a debate with some friends, and we are disagreeing. Did the ancient Jews believe that Jesus was God's son? Or not?

That’s my question, thanks so much!

 

Here is my response, which I am sharing because I suspect she is not the only one of our students to confront these types of issues on campus, especially at this time of year.  When we realize that the Southern Baptists have allocated more money for Jewish missionary work than all of American Jewry has allocated for Jewish education, we realize that the obstacles are formidable and serious.

 

Hi ___

 

Great to hear from you!  Anyway, it's an important question.  The earliest Christians were Jews, but by far most Jews refused to believe that Jesus was the Messiah (which really bothered Christian leaders, some to this day, which is why so much emphasis is being placed on converting Jews to Christianity).

 

But most of all, the teachings of ancient Judaism, including the Talmud, were very clear that Jesus was not the son of God.  Judaism believes in a messiah, but that the messiah has not come yet.  That is the main place where Judaism and Christianity differ.  Those groups that try to convince Jews that it is possible to believe in Jesus and still be Jewish are trying to manipulate us into conversion.  These missionary groups are very well funded and they are all over college campuses.

 

A real good website to check if you are looking to respond to what your friends are saying is http://www.outreachjudaism.org/

 

But also feel free to ask me any questions, any time.  I’d be more than happy to help.

 

Happy Hanukkah!

 

Rabbi H

 

A Crossroads for the Red Cross

 

Last week I included in the Shabbat-O-Gram some information on the proposed change that would enable Israel’s version of the Red Cross, the Magen David Adom, to participate, at last, on the international stage with an agreed-upon and recognizable symbol.  A recent article explains the situation:

 

Israel's society will not operate under the cross or crescent. A request for recognition of its red Star of David was rejected in 1949 and Arab countries have since blocked attempts to find an alternative emblem. The new design - a red square standing on one corner, with a blank white interior and a thick red border - would be used by Israeli medics instead of the Star of David.  Magen David Adom could place a red star in the center of the crystal for humanitarian missions at home, or abroad if a host country allowed it.  The red cross symbol was first adopted in 1863, reverses the colors of the neutral Swiss flag, without any religious intent. But most Muslim countries refused to use it and the Ottoman empire used the red crescent instead to protect medical workers in the 1876 Russo-Turkish war.”

 

So last week Israel and the P.A. agreed on a formula that would enable Israeli and Palestinian paramedics to operate unmolested on either side of the Green Line in the West Bank.  Now this week it has been approved, though not unanimously, by the International Red Cross.  This week the hang-up was that Syria wanted a similar arrangement on the Golan Heights, but Israel long ago annexed the Heights and doesn’t consider them disputed territory (although has often stated a willingness to negotiate them away in a real peace treaty).  It’s interesting how a symbol that was supposed to transcend political or religious differences has come to embody them.  For more, see Red Cross approves new emblem (Ha’aretz)

 

Eye on the UN

 

But even as we hear some good news from Geneva, some bad news from the East Side.  Herb Soroca has alerted me to a terrible injustice.  Just as Israel is finally “on the map” at the Red Cross, it has been taken off the map, literally at the UN.  See for yourself at http://www.eyeontheun.org/

 

 

Spielberg and “Munich” / Gibson and then Holocaust

         

Some articles on the next big controversy to hit the big screen – whether Steven Spielberg’s new movie about the 1972 Munich massacre and its aftermath does not reflect accurately the feelings of the Israeli participants who responded to this seminal terrorist act.  You can find also read the Time Magazine Cover Story.  I found the first selection below, the blog from Ha’aretz, to be especially illuminating. 

 

http://www.haaretz.com/hasen/pages/rosnerBlog.jhtml?itemNo=653593&contrassID=25&subContrassID=0&sbSubContrassID=1&listSrc=Y&art=1

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0408306/

http://news.telegraph.co.uk/news/main.jhtml?xml=/news/2005/07/09/wmunich09.xml

http://www.laweekly.com/ink/06/02/deadline-finke.php

 

And after Spielberg’s movie is done, we read that Mel Gibson’s production company will be turning its attention to the Holocaust.  It’s too early to know what the implications of this will be, but I know two things: 1) His father’s beliefs are irrelevant here (he’s a Holocaust denier) and 2) I have visions of Venessa Redgrave in the starring role, then jointly accepting the Oscar with Mel. To be continued…

 

OUR NEW ONLINE DISCUSSION FORUM IS OPEN FOR BUSINESS

 

Now you can use our website to talk about all my rabid rantings, all things TBE and all things Jewish!  Just go to our website at www.tbe.org, log into the discussion forum and follow the simple directions.  If you’ve started a discussion, let me know and I’ll inform the congregation.  Naturally, all participants are expected to adhere to the rules of Internet etiquette and Jewish sensitivity of language.

 

 

 

 

Mitzvah/Tzedakkah Projects

 

 

 

 

 

                                        

MITZVAH MUSIC

 

 

I received this information about a fascinating Mitzvah project, and I share it not only because the music is good, but because it sets a wonderful example of what our own kids might consider doing….

 

 

Hi!  I'm Ben Zauzmer.  For my Bar Mitzvah project, I compiled a professional CD with many popular Jewish singers on it called "Mitzvah Music."  These outstanding performers each graciously donated and gave me full permission to use one of their great songs: Debbie Friedman, Craig Taubman, Dan Nichols, Rick Recht, Cantor Bruce Benson, Rabbi Joe Black, Steve Dropkin, Kol B'seder, Julie Silver, Mah Tovu, Danny Maseng, Judy Caplan Ginsburgh, Mark Bloom, Matt Stamn, the Shabbatones, AND MORE!

 

The proceeds from the CD will go to Camp Dream Street, held at a URJ Camp and sponsored by NFTY.  Kids with physical disabilities come here, free of charge, for a magical week of summer fun where they can just

be kids, away from hospitals and constant reminders of pain.

 

So far, generous people and congregations in over 30 states have bought hundreds of my CD’s to support Camp Dream Street!

 

A complete list of the 18 songs and other information about the CD can be found at www.mitzvahmusic.com, and the CD can be purchased at this website for $18, which includes shipping and taxes.

OR

You can mail a check payable to Mitzvah Music, along with the order

form below, to 1880 Nicole Drive, Dresher, PA 19025.

 

Thank you very much for supporting my mitzvah project,

and I hope you enjoy this fabulous music!

-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

Name: _____________ Address: _______________________________

Number of CD’s you wish to purchase: _____ Total amount included: ______

Telephone number: _____________ E-mail address: _________________

Comments: ________________________________________________

 

All songs used with full permission of the copyright holders. ©2005 Ben Zauzmer. All Rights Reserved.

 

 

The Highest Level of Tzedakkah

 

A congregant who has been doing some home-based franchising wanted to share her ideas with those from the congregation who might be looking for a Plan B – it’s especially for someone finding it difficult making headway in the corporate world right now.  I agreed to give it a shot.  Here is Dara’s blurb:

 

Start 2006 owning your own online franchise and partner with such marqee name retailers like Nordstrom, Sony, Disney and Target!  This at home business features cutting edge goods and services (like VOIP and customized supplements based on your genetic profile) and can be started part time to fit into anyone's lifestyle.  With many 401Ks and pensions sadly a reality of the past, there has never been a more compelling time to work for oneself, especially with a proven business model that is a residual, willable asset. Call or e-mail Dara Tyson at 203-249-3844 or dara@daratyson.com for more info.

 

BETH EL CARES

BACK FOR 2006 - BLOOD DRIVE - APRIL 30th 8:45 a.m.-1:00 p.m.

    Anyone interested in participating on the committee please contact Cheryl Wolff at 968-6361.

 

Spiritual Journey on the Web

 

A Jewish Reading List for the Holidays

         

Looking for gifts to give over the holidays?  Looking for something to read on the beach, on the boat or off the slopes?  (First of all, why didn’t you invite me along?)  Here are some of the best annotated Jewish reading lists to be found online. 

 

Go to the Union of Reform Judaism's Item Browser for an excellent, comprehensive list. Among the books suggested, here are some that I also recommend:


Fabulous Small Jews: Stories

A Tale of Love and Darkness

The Plot Against America : A Novel

Joy Comes in the Morning

Those Who Forget the Past

Foiglman

Natasha and Other Stories

Scattered Among the Peoples: The Jewish Diaspora in Twelve Portraits

American Judaism: A History

The Beggar King and the Secret of Happiness

Fateless

The Israelis: Ordinary People in an Extraordinary Land

A Book of Life: Embracing Judaism as a Spiritual Practice

A Book That Was Lost and Other Stories

A Journey to the End of the Millennium: A Novel of the Middle Ages

As a Driven Leaf

Back to the Sources: Reading the Classic Jewish Texts

Broken Tablets: Restoring the Ten Commandments and Ourselves

Denying the Holocaust: The Growing Assault on Truth and Memory

Everything Is Illuminated

Finding a Spiritual Home: How a New Generation of Jews Can Transform the American Synagogue

Finding God: Selected Responses

God Was In This Place and I, i Did Not Know

Healer of Shattered Hearts

In the Image

Jewish Meditation: A Practical Guide

Jewish Power: Inside the American Jewish Establishment

Jews: The Essence and Character of a People

O Jerusalem!

Pirke Avot: A Modern Commentary on Jewish Ethics

The Amazing Adventures of Kavalier and Clay

The Collected Stories

The Counterlife

The English Disease

The Fixer

The Jewish Moral Virtues and The Book of Jewish Values

The Journey Home: Discovering the Deep Spiritual Wisdom of Jewish Tradition

The Last Kabbalist of Lisbon

The Last of the Just

The Periodic Table

The Pity of It All: A History of Jews in Germany, 1743-1933

The Red Tent

The Rise of David Levinsky

The Sabbath: Its Meaning for Modern Man

The Sunflower

The Talmud and the Internet

Thirst: The Desert Trilogy

Turbulent Souls

Walking the Bible

When I Lived in Modern Times

Who Wrote the Bible -- Student Handout

Who Wrote the Bible?

Yiddish: A Nation of Words

 

 

Rabbi Brad Artson has recently written a Canon of Jewish Literacy for the American Jewish Committee – it is in a pdf file and an excellent guide for the “thoughtful Jewish reader.”

 

The Conservative Movement (USCJ) has a very informative page on Building a Home Library.

 

The most comprehensive, hyperlinked bibliography of Jewish books that I’ve found is at http://www.myjewishlearning.com/xcommon/Hot_Topics/Bibliographies.htm.  Also see their featured articles on literature.

 

 

Nextbook, a “Gateway for Jewish literature, culture and ideas,” has its own extensive list of recommendations, at http://www.nextbook.org/books/title.html.  They also list books by category, including children’s titles.

 

For a more extensive children’s’ book list for grades 4-7, go to Baba Bookz at http://www.jewishfamily.com/lifestyles.html and then go to http://www.jbooks.com/children/index.htm

 

 

For those who are more academically inclined, here are reading lists from Hebrew University:

 

Antiquity: Second Temple-Talmudic / Greco-Roman Period

 

Jews In The Middle Ages

Introduction - General Reading List

Kabbalah, Mysticism and Messianic Reading List

Women and Judaism

 


Of course the guy who wrote the book on Jewish literacy, literally, is Joseph Telushkin.  He will be our scholar in residence on the weekend of March 3-5.  SAVE THE DATE!

 

 

ASK THE RABBI

 

What is the Sigad?

 

Thousands of Ethiopians celebrate Sigad holiday

 

Thanks to Joe Heyison for calling this article to my attention – from Ha’aretz of last Friday.