Shabbat-O-Gram

 

August 9, 2006 – Av 18, 5766

 

Rabbi Joshua Hammerman, Temple Beth El, Stamford, Connecticut

 

This will be the final O-Gram until September…

Enjoy the remainder of your summer

 

 

 

Special Maccabi Edition

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– especially those from Israel

(Including some who will be attending our services

with their host families)

Also

On this Shabbat, we extend special blessings to all freshmen heading off to college over the next few weeks

 

 

 

 

 

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PRAYER FOR ISRAEL

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Contents of the Shabbat O Gram:

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Just the Facts (service schedule)

The (Occasionally) Ranting Rabbi

Mitzvah/Tzedakkah Opportunities

Ask the Rabbi

Spiritual Journey on the Web   

Required Reading and Action Items (links to key articles on Israel and Jewish life)

 Announcements (goings on in and around TBE)

Joke for the Week

 

 

Quote for the Week

 

“In a war of self-defense [literally, an obligatory war] all go out to do battle,

even a groom from his room, and the bride from under the wedding canopy.”

- Mishna, Sotah 8:7

 

As cited in "Jewish Wisdom" by Rabbi Joseph Telushkin. (from Beliefnet.com)

 

 

JUST THE FACTS

 

Friday Evening 

Candle lighting: 7:40 pm on Friday, 11 August 2006,- Havdalah is at 8: 48 pm  on Saturday evening. For candle lighting times, other Jewish calendar information, and to download a Jewish calendar to your PDA, click on http://www.hebcal.com/.  To see the festivals of other faiths as well, go to http://www.interfaithcalendar.org/

 

 

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Shabbat Morning: 9:30 AM – We welcome our guest Maccabi athletes and others visiting. We also will take the opportunity to send off our college freshmen this Shabbat with a special blessing.

 

Children’s services: 10:30

Torah Portion: Eikev   Deuteronomy 7:12 - 11:25

1: 9:4-10
2: 9:11-14
3: 9:15-21
4: 9:22-29
5: 10:1-5
6: 10:6-18:8
7: 10:9-11
maf: 10:9-11

Haftarah Isaiah 49:14 - 51:3

 

See a weekly commentary from the UJC Rabbinic Cabinet, at www.ujc.org/mekorchaim.  Read the Masorti commentary at http://www.masorti.org/mason/torah/index.asp.  University of Judaism,  JTS commentary is at: http://learn.jtsa.edu/topics/parashah/. USCJ Torah Sparks can be found at http://uscj.org/item20_467.html. UAHC Shabbat Table Talk discussions are at http://uahc.org/torah/exodus.shtml. Other divrei Torah via the Torahnet home page: http://uahcweb.org/torahnet/. Test your Parasha I.Q.: http://www.ou.org/jewishiq/parsha/default.htm. CLAL’s Torah commentary archive: http://click.topica.com/maaaiRtaaRvQhbV2AtLb/.  World Zionist Organization Education page, including Nehama Liebowitz archives of parsha commentaries: http://www.moreshet.net/web/index.asp?f=1 For a more Kabbalistic/Zionist/Orthodox perspective from Rav Kook, first Chief Rabbi of Israel, go to http://www.geocities.com/m_yericho/ravkook/index.html. For some probing questions and meditations on key verses of the portion, with a liberal kabbalistic bent, go to http://www.jewishealing.com/learning.html or, for Kabbalistic commentaries from the Zohar itself, go to http://www.kabbalah.com/k/index.php/p=zohar/weekly/intro. To see the weekly commentary from Hillel, geared to college students and others, go to  http://www.hillel.org/hillel/NewHille.nsf/FCB8259CA861AE57852567D30043BA26/DF7D129F15B3DF0885256AB80058E9C3?OpenDocument. For a Jewish Renewal and feminist approach go to http://rabbishefagold.hypermart.net/Torah1.html .  For a comprehensive Orthodox viewpoint from the Israeli rabbi, Yaakov Fogelman, go to the Torah Outreach Program at http://israelvisit.co.il/top/previous.shtml.  Guided meditations for each portion by Judith Abrams at http://www.maqom.com/kavannah.pdf

 For online Parsha quizzes from Pardes in Israel, go to  http://www.pardes.org.il/online_learning/parsha_quizzes/ Torah for Kids: http://www.torah4kids.net/  Weekly Lesson of Popular Israeli Rabbi Mordechai Elon: http://www.elon.org/archives/archives.htm - and his parsha sheets: http://www.mibereshit.org/special/download_eng_pdf.htm   From Bar Ilan University: http://www.biu.ac.il/JH/Parasha/eng/; http://www.torahproductions.com/weekly_article.jsp

 

 

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The

 (occasionally)

Ranting Rabbi

 

 

 

 

Off the Front Pages?

 

It’s amazing how quickly the international media can shift attention from one hot spot to another, and how quickly Israel’s war shifted from the front page to somewhere in the middle.  One second the news anchors are in Metulla, the next they are in London. 

 

Of course they are simply covering different angles of the same story.  Add to it this week’s primary loss for Senator Lieberman, which is ALSO part of the same story.  For there is only one story right now, and it is the clash of civilizations and our response to it.

 

Israel happened to be on the front lines for a while (as it so often is), and thankfully, it has played its role quite well.  We may quibble about tactics or individual incidents, but no one can deny the courage of the Israeli soldiers and the resilience of its citizens.  When all is said and done, Israel’s strategic position should be much improved with a weakened Iran…er, Hezbollah…no longer digging in just across the border.  And while the Iranian…er, proxy…army proved to be better-trained and equipped than expected, the Israelis did not just fold and cower, as Hassan Nasrallah expected.  And Nasrallah himself will now have to look over his shoulder every time he steps out of the Iranian embassy, where he has been holed up these past few weeks.

 

Some might accuse me of a pro-Bush bias in linking all these stories together.  Not true.  I can promise you that the guy has NEVER kissed me (that lipstick on my collar was from when he was flipping veggie burgers at the White House cookout and caught me with a dab of ketchup).  While one might make a plausible claim that the Iraq war was botched, that it was the wrong war at the wrong time and even that there was no direct linkage between Saddam and Islamic radicalism, one cannot deny that the situation is different now.  The situation may well have been misread five years ago to indicate linkage.  But now there is no question as to the fact that the linkage is there.  One could argue that the administration has helped make this a more dangerous world.  But no one can now make a plausible argument that this clash of civilizations is not happening on a world wide scale. The same people that dragged Israel into war on their southern and northern borders this summer, in their various Sunni and Shiite guises, are also responsible for the current civil war in Iraq and the plot uncovered this week in London.  While it might have been a mistake to link them all five years ago, it is a mistake not to link them now. 

 

These radicals do not care about human life – not even the lives of their own co-religionists.  It is noteworthy that nearly half of all the civilian deaths resulting from the rockets and missiles fired at northern Israel have been Israeli Arabs (who, along with the Druze, still are a significant percentage of the population of the Galilee).  The hospitals targeted by the terrorists are staffed by Jews and Arabs, working together, healing Jews and Moslems alike (proving that the problem is not Islam per se).  Call it what you will, and call me simplistic if you will, but what we are facing has a name, and it’s that dreaded “e” word. 

 

No one would love to see Israel to spend some time off the front pages more than I would.  We know that it is not close to happening.  We also know that it is more important than ever for us to take up our own positions on the front lines in this generation’s greatest battle.

 

 

Off to College

 

The United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism has initiated a program whereby incoming college freshmen are given a proper send-off by their congregations.  They are going out into a risk-laden world, filled with opportunity and peril.  The least we can do is collectively tell them how much we love them and that we are there for them.

 

We’ll be sending of our students with a special “Lech Lecha” blessing this Shabbat morning.  Please join us!  And regardless of whether you can make it, please make sure that our office receives each student’s college e-mail address so I can stay in touch.

 

 

 

From Our Sister City of Afula

 

 

The Southern New England Consortium for Partnership 2000

203-322-9227

bunkins@optonline.net

 

 

Dear friends,

 

Yesterday morning (your time) I spoke to Yael and Eitan, the chaperones of our JCC-Maccabi delegation in Stamford.  Their first question was: What's happening in Afula-Gilboa?  Where did the missiles hit?

I understood immediately that when you are half a world away things always seem much worse than they really are.  I tried to calm them and said that things are not all that different than they were when the delegation left on Saturday night, except for a few more air raid sirens and a number of missiles, 6 to be exact, that fell in open fields on the Gilboa. 

I couldn't tell them that it seems that the mood of people in the street….actually, there are no people in the streets.  Optimism is hard to find.  I did not want to be the bearer of bad news again.  Just two days ago Eshel and I had to inform two boys of our Maccabi delegation in Stamford that their youth counselor, Yotam Lotan from Kibbutz Beit HaShitta, who has been working with them on a daily basis, was killed in Lebanon.

There is no relief.  Asaf, my husband, who got an "8 warrant" (Tzav 8) – the army's emergency call up - on Tuesday morning at 5:30 am, calls to tell me that at least 12 reserve soldiers were killed and 6 more are still missing.  In the same breath he adds that he and his unit may be sent in tonight from training into Lebanon, to the heart of the fighting.  I try to hold back the tears and be strong, optimistic… I ask him to call me if that happens before they take his phone away, beg him not to be a hero, and can no longer hold back the tears….

 

So, you ask, what is happening in Afula?  The Home Front Command forbids running day camps or other assemblies, and so the municipality has decided to operate small activity centers in order to provide some relief for the children and keep them off the streets.  Despite everything, we try to keep things in perspective.  After seeing the images and hearing the voices from Kiryat Shmonah, which has been under a constant barrage of rockets since the day this war broke out, it seems that we should be thankful and continue searching for that optimism.

 

I wonder: What do I tell Yael, Eitan and the kids tomorrow?  That everything is as usual?

Who knows what tomorrow will bring?  Whose pictures will be on the front pages of the newspapers and on TV?

What will happen with Asaf?  What will happen to us?  Where is all this leading us??? 

 

Nava

 

 

נאוה חן

 רכזת גשר לקשר

שותפות 2000 עפולה-גלבוע

04-6404289

tamarahb@jazo.org.il

 

 

 

Shalom Friends,

 

Today at 11 AM began a massive rocket attack on northern Israel. Cities throughout the northern region, including Haifa, Afula and Zichron Ya'aakov, were targeted incessantly by dozens of missiles.  By 6 PM 170 missile hits were counted.  The missiles can fall at any time, in any place.  Drivers on the open road are at gravest danger, with no building around and nowhere to hide in case of a rocket attack.  Many drivers have grown accustomed to special driving procedures for day time, such as staying only in the right lane, searching the road ahead for potential hiding places in case of need.

 

At lunchtime today I decided to go out and get something to eat.  Orit, my assistant, joined me.  Driving from our office in Givat HaMoreh to downtown Afula I said to her that I hope no missiles hit while we are on the road since the way is mostly empty of buildings, and that it would be best to eat at the mall where they have safe areas if needed.  We reached the Afula mall and I asked the guard at the door where the safe areas are located.  She pointed us in that direction, and as we walked in we heard that there was a specific immediate warning of a suicide bomber heading to the vicinity of the mall. 5 seconds later the air raid sirens sounded.  We quickly ran with everyone else toward the safe area, since we know that we only have about 30 seconds until the missiles hit. After about 20 seconds we heard several blasts and the ground shook.  We later found out that 6 long-range missiles with 100 kg war heads fell in our area, thankfully in open fields. 

When we returned to the office I found out that Haifa, where I live, was hit as well by a similar missile, which fell in the downtown area.  My son called to say he was okay, since he was in the area were the blast occurred. 

 

Now I am trying to decide at what time and by which route I should leave the office to go home, in order to minimize the risk.

Another "routine" day in times of war.  This is the way 1 million people in Israel live their lives these days.

 

Eshel

 

 

Israel's Emek Medical Center (EMC)

Affiliated with the Rappaport Faculty of Medicine, Technion, Haifa, Israel

 

August 10, 2006

It's not easy to be an Israeli these days ... or any day for that matter.  The news reports of our brothers, fathers, children, friends, relatives and associates who are fighting and falling in Lebanon have enveloped our lives in a choking black cloud of negativity.  I cannot find a face that does not radiate the pain and foreboding that we all are experiencing.  What more can I do other than share with you some of the conversations I've had this day ...

 

With Sinora, a wonderful woman who occupies the office directly across the hall, opposite my own and whose son is now commanding a paratroop unit deep inside Lebanon:

"Any word from your son?"

A grimace and pained body language before she answered, "No contact ... nothing.  It hurts me to say this, but I wish he would break his leg or in some other way be lightly injured ... so he could be brought home ... to be near me."  The pain and fear radiating from her was unbearable.  What could I say to her?  That things will be all right?  Not to worry?

 

With Dr. Blondheim, our CEO, whose youngest son is currently serving in the IDF and daughter & other son have received Tzav 8 (emergency call up orders).  I walked into her office and asked about her children:

For a couple of frozen seconds we looked at each other in silence before she answered, "I hope they're ok."  A shrug of her shoulders and momentary raising of the eyebrows ... gestures expressing the fact that their fate is in hands other than their own.

 

A phone call to Nava, who works in the local Jewish Agency office and who has brought many important visitors to our hospital.  She has an eight month old baby and her husband was called up via Tzav 8 yesterday.  He's a medic serving with a tank unit.  Armored units are being hit hard with advanced Iranian weaponry and suffering many casualties.  She couldn't even complete one sentence without breaking down.  Again ... what could I say?

 

A phone conversation with Eshel Fram, the regional manager of our local Jewish Agency office - and Nava's superior.  Eshel lives on Mt. Carmel in Haifa in a multistory block of flats:

"How are you and your family doing these days in Haifa?"

"Not very good.  Sixty missiles have hit the city and many have fallen so near our home."

"Do you have a security room in your flat?"

"No, only a communal bomb shelter for the building.  We actually have to walk up 15 stairs to get to it as our building is on a hillside."

"Do you have time to get there?"  Rockets travel quickly from Lebanon to Haifa.

"Not really.  If we're dressed and ready to go, we can make it in about 20-25 seconds.  For many alerts my son, wife and I just crowd into our 3 foot wide clothes closet and wait it out.  It's the only place in our home not exposed to any windows."  

 

Benay, who volunteers her services in our ER walked into my office.  She looked dazed and devastated.  She stared blankly ahead and said, "Our next door neighbor's 26 year-old son was killed in Lebanon yesterday.  My daughter was just beginning to deliver invitations to her upcoming wedding ... and now all she can do is cry." 

 

The window in my office faces the foot ramp that leads people from the parking lot to our hospital entrance.  I was watching a family of four a short while ago when they suddenly froze and then began running towards the entrance.  Air raid sirens!  All of us quickly exited our rooms and stood in the long narrow hallway that has eight offices on either side facing one another.  The aimless chatter began.  Blood drained from faces as people nervously shuffled their feet while trying to look comfortable.  We waited.  Would it be a muffled boom meaning a hit several miles away ... or a deafening thunderclap that would shake the foundations on which we stood and disrupt the very air we breathe?  We waited.

 

Please allow me to set the records straight with regards to one central issue of this war.  Hizbullah - schmizbullah!  Israel is at war with Iran.  The aggressive army that is treacherously entrenched in Lebanon is Iranian born, trained, maintained and supplied.  They are no militia.  They are not any para-military group.  They are highly trained Iranian soldiers, indoctrinated with fundamentalist Iranian blood lust and executing Iranian intentions & policy.  Iran, via impotent Syria has dug the bunkers and poured the concrete into the heart of Lebanon.  So, please ... let's at least let's get the name game right.  Israel is at war with Iran.            

 

 

August 8, 2006

Suliman (a Druse resident of the Galilee village of Mrar - that's spelled 'Maghar' as Arabic has an odd letter that falls somewhere between a 'g' and an 'r') and I have known each other for about 18 years.  We once worked together in a local industry and today my old friend holds a key position in receiving & checking the tons of medical supplies and equipment that keep this hospital running.  We talked today about the deadly rocket attacks on his village.  Mrar is home to Druse, Muslim and Christian Arabs and is located about 35 minutes from EMC, between here and Lebanon.  On Friday, August 4th at 2:00 PM another rocket barrage (4 missiles) hit his village.  One neighbor, Bahiya, walked over to her friend's home five minutes before the attack.  A missile landed a direct hit onto Bahiya's home and destroyed it.  Fortunately there was nobody inside at the time.  Next door, a 27 year-old mother heroically cradled her two pre-school children within her protective arms in an inside room after hearing the air raid siren.  She followed the Home Front Command's orders and succeeded in saving her two babies.  However, the blast that destroyed Bahiya's home also sent deadly projectiles in every direction ... with one of them traveling through walls before slamming into the back of the young mother's skull.  She died instantly, covering her children's unharmed bodies with her own.  Many other residents of Mrar were injured in that gruesome attack.  The next day, Suliman's 5 year-old son said to his father about Kanar - his little friend and one of the surviving daughters, "Kanar's mother is gone.  Kanar will not come with her mother to the kindergarden."  

 

August 7, 2006

Once again, I will attempt to share with you life these days in Northern Israel ... yet I want to make a clear distinction. From Afula (the most southern city hit so far) to Metulla (the northernmost town) and from the Mediterranean Sea on the west to the Golan heights on the east, there live approximately 1,500,000 people. Of these, approximately 200,000 Israelis live within range of the 'short range' katyushas that have them suffering day and night in sweltering underground bomb shelters (not to mention their direct exposure to the deafening cacophony of our artillery fire). The other 1,300,000 residents are within range and have been subjected to mid and long range missile attacks. I belong to this second group and it is our reality that I wish to share with you first hand.

Life has changed for us. Our daily routines have been upset and altered. Those of us who can go to work and return home. The drive to and from has become an exercise in fatalistic thinking, as rockets have hit in so many areas along so many routes. There's no use in looking out for them because if one has your name on it, you'll never see it coming. Everything is different about the people I work with and love. Their faces and energy radiate an acceptance of a vulnerability that was not present before July 19th.

It's now 7:50 PM and dusk ... the time we've been targeted the past few days. I hope the local sirens will not send me running downstairs to my little bomb shelter. I can be there in seven seconds.

The context of every conversation has changed dramatically. "So, how are you today?"

"Not so bad. No rockets yesterday evening in our neighborhood."

"Two hit nearby, but nobody was injured."

"Two alerts, but no bombs."

"I guess I'm ok, but those sirens drive me and family crazy. We can't / won't go out. Even to our neighbors. We feel safest in our own home."

And so it goes. We depart, saying things like, "Have a quiet day." "May it soon end."

End? End what ... the incessant attacks? Or the threat? That is the problem, for you as well as us. Our mutual enemies are not uncivilized ... they are anti-civilization. They have learned that their long-range tactics undermine our societies ... the way we live. They have planted deadly seeds in the fertile soil of fundamentalist blind hatred.

Earlier this evening, I sat in my living room watching a TV news update. The report showed Kiryat Shmona during an air raid. The recorded sirens had me running to my shelter ... until I realized my mistake. My heart was again pounding in my chest and I had to laugh at myself for the paranoia that has gripped me. We're all on edge these days. It's difficult to concentrate at work. Food doesn't taste very good. The topics of our conversations are tainted with this despicable war. Daylight, dusk and nighttime have taken on different hues / meanings and look so different to us these days. We're worried about our children, loved ones and friends. We're worried about next year and we're worried about you.

We're also united. All of us. All of Israel. And therein lies our strength.

It's now 8:30 PM. Maybe we'll have a quiet night.

                   

 

Larry Rich

Israel's Emek Medical Center

Director of Development & International Public Relations Afula 18101, Israel

Phone in New York: 646-546-5970   

Phone in Israel: 972-4-649 4417

Mobile: 972-50-5737 641

Fax: 972-4-652 2642

Email:  rich_l@clalit.org.il

www.haemek.co.il

 

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