Shabbat-O-Gram

 

 

October 20, 2006 – Tishrei 29, 5767

 

Rabbi Joshua Hammerman, Temple Beth El, Stamford, Connecticut

 

 

Synaplex is coming – NEXT WEEK!!!!!

 

 

Temple Beth El's Synaplex has something for everyone.

Come for part or all of a new way to spend Shabbat at TBE, BUT BE SURE TO COME!!

 

Friday evening Oct. 27, 2006

7:30 pm       ● Tot Shabbat

                     ● Shabbat Unplugged

Candlelight Oneg and “Rebbe’s Tish” Following services

 

Saturday Oct. 28, 2006

8:45 am        Kabbalistic Yoga (Teens, Adults)

9:00 am       ● Continental Breakfast (All)
                    ●Body-Mind-Spirit Bike Ride (Teens, Adults)
                    ● Study Session  on Heschel’s “The Sabbath” (Adults)

                    ●Babysitting (Tots,Children)      

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       

9:45 am       Traditional Service with Hazzan Rabinowitz (Adults)

 

10:00 am     ●Meditative Service led by Dan Klipper (Adults)

                    ●Tot Shabbat Morning with Nurit (Tots and Parents)

                    ●Teen Service, run by our teens and assisted by Youth Advisor Edoe Cohen (Teens from 8th grade and up)

                    ●Family Learner’s Service, led by Rabbi Hammerman (Children through 7th grade, Parents and other Adults)

 

11:10 am   KIDDUSH           

 

11:20 am   STORAHTELLING, including the celebration of an UFRUF! (All)

                  Performance of Torah portion Noah, with live original music and audience interaction.

12:30 pm   Luncheon (All)

1:30 pm     ●“Backstage with Storahtelling” Learn the art of ritual theater (Teens, Adults)

                  ●Family Communication Workshop with Mara Hammerman and Elissa Stein (Adults)
                  ●“Communication about Medication: Dealing with Doctors and Drugs” with Bob Katz 

                       (the AARP crowd)                   

                   ●Israeli Dancing with Shmulik (Children)

2:30 pm      ● “Backstage with Storahtelling” continues (Teens, Adults)

                   ●Family Scavenger Hunt (Children, Teens, Adults)

                   ●“Rosner Bowl” Touch Football Game (Children, Teens, Adults)

                   ●Israeli Dancing with Shmulik (Teens, Adults)

3:30 pm    Pet Pallooza Pet Show and Blessing over the Animals - Hammermans’ front lawn (All)

 

We thank all our sponsors and supporters, including Jackie Tepper and David Robinov, and Greg and Benjy, who are sponsoring this month’s Shabbat Unplugged, in honor of David and Benjy’s birthdays. We also thank Gary Gladstein in particular for his support of Synaplex and wish him Mazal Tov on the ufruf of Jeff Gladstein and Theresa Eickman on Synaplex Shabbat.  And we thank all our volunteers and participants as well!

 

Yashar Koach to Alison Wolff, who donated her hair to Locks of Love. 

Here she is with Guy Sasson, in the “after” photo.

 

Check our website at www.tbe.org for more photos, the complete Synaplex schedule, along with NEW super photos of our spectacular TBE Sukkah and mp3 files of the High Holidays sermons. 

 

 

 

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Please give generously to our High Holy Day Appeal! 

Thus far the response has far exceeded expectations – we are most grateful to all who have given.  For those who have not as of yet, please give TBE extra consideration this year as we continue to try to bring the spirit of excellence and warmth to our Jewish Village and to service the needs of our congregants.

 

 

Contents of the Shabbat O Gram:

(Click to scroll down)

 

Just the Facts (service schedule)

The (Occasionally) Ranting Rabbi

Mitzvah/Tzedakkah Opportunities

Ask the Rabbi

Spiritual Journey on the Web   

Required Reading and Action Items (links to key articles on Israel and Jewish life)

 Announcements (goings on in and around TBE)

TBE Youth Programming

Joke for the Week

 

 

 

Quote for the Week

 

“The reason a dog has so many friends is that he wags his tail instead of his tongue”

-Anonymous

 

 

 

JUST THE FACTS

 

Friday Evening 

Candle lighting: 5:49pm  pm on Friday, 20 October 2006.  For candle lighting times, other Jewish calendar information, and to download a Jewish calendar to your PDA, click on http://www.hebcal.com/.  To see the festivals of other faiths as well, go to http://www.interfaithcalendar.org/

 

Shabbat service: 6:30 PM– in the chapel

 

Tot Shabbat: 6:45 - in the lobby

 

This week, Tot Shabbat will be hosted by Liam and Forrest Timmons and their parents, Jeanette and Mike.  Liam is 8 and Forrest is 6.  Both attend Westover School.  We will meet at 6:45pm, downstairs in the Main Lobby.  Come join us for Oneg immediately following the service. 

 

For those who can’t get enough of Tot Shabbat, Nurit conducts Tot Shabbat Morning at 10:30am every Saturday morning.

 

Mark your Calendars!!!  On Friday, October 27, all are welcome to attend our first Synaplex Shabbat.   A special Tot Shabbat will be held at 7:30pm that evening.   Please see below for a list of events during our Synaplex Weekend, October 27 and 28.  Hope to see all of you there!  Please bring your friends!

 

Shabbat Morning: 9:30 AM– We celebrate the Bar Mitzvah of Alex Heyison.  Mazal tov to him and to his parents Joe and Leslie. 

 

Children’s services: 10:30 AM Jr. congregation service in the chapel, Tot Shabbat morning downstairs.

 

 

Torah Readings

 

Portion: Beresheet – The Creation Story and what follows…

 

Genesis 1:1 - 6:8

 

We begin reading the third part of the triennial cycle

 

1: 5:1-5
2: 5:6-8
3: 5:9-14
4: 5:15-20
5: 5:21-24
6: 5:25-31
7: 5:32-6:8
maf: 6:5-8

 

Isaiah 42:5 - 43:11

 

See a weekly commentary from the UJC Rabbinic Cabinet, at www.ujc.org/mekorchaim.  Read the Masorti commentary at http://www.masorti.org/mason/torah/index.asp.  University of Judaism,  JTS commentary is at: http://learn.jtsa.edu/topics/parashah/. USCJ Torah Sparks can be found at http://uscj.org/item20_467.html. UAHC Shabbat Table Talk discussions are at http://uahc.org/torah/exodus.shtml. Other divrei Torah via the Torahnet home page: http://uahcweb.org/torahnet/. Test your Parasha I.Q.: http://www.ou.org/jewishiq/parsha/default.htm. CLAL’s Torah commentary archive: http://click.topica.com/maaaiRtaaRvQhbV2AtLb/.  World Zionist Organization Education page, including Nehama Liebowitz archives of parsha commentaries: http://www.moreshet.net/web/index.asp?f=1 For a more Kabbalistic/Zionist/Orthodox perspective from Rav Kook, first Chief Rabbi of Israel, go to http://www.geocities.com/m_yericho/ravkook/index.html. For some probing questions and meditations on key verses of the portion, with a liberal kabbalistic bent, go to http://www.jewishealing.com/learning.html or, for Kabbalistic commentaries from the Zohar itself, go to http://www.kabbalah.com/k/index.php/p=zohar/weekly/intro.  Also, try  http://home.utah.edu/~rfs4/jkmfc.htm.  To see the weekly commentary from Hillel, geared to college students and others, go to  http://www.hillel.org/hillel/NewHille.nsf/FCB8259CA861AE57852567D30043BA26/DF7D129F15B3DF0885256AB80058E9C3?OpenDocument. For a Jewish Renewal and feminist approach go to http://rabbishefagold.hypermart.net/Torah1.html .  For a comprehensive Orthodox viewpoint from the Israeli rabbi, Yaakov Fogelman, go to the Torah Outreach Program at http://israelvisit.co.il/top/previous.shtml.  Guided meditations for each portion by Judith Abrams at http://www.maqom.com/kavannah.pdf

  For online Parsha quizzes from Pardes in Israel, go to  http://www.pardes.org.il/online_learning/parsha_quizzes/ Torah for Kids: http://www.torah4kids.net/  Weekly Lesson of Popular Israeli Rabbi Mordechai Elon: http://www.elon.org/archives/archives.htm - and his parsha sheets: http://www.mibereshit.org/special/download_eng_pdf.htm   From Bar Ilan University: http://www.biu.ac.il/JH/Parasha/eng/; http://www.torahproductions.com/weekly_article.jsp

 

THE ENTIRE HEBREW BIBLE (AS WELL AS OTHER JEWISH SOURCES) CAN BE FOUND WITH SIDE-BY-SIDE TRANSLATION AT

http://www.mechon-mamre.org/

Morning Minyan: Weekdays at 7:30, Sundays at 9:30 AM

TO ENSURE A “GUARANTEED MINYAN” FOR THE DAY OF YOUR YAHRZEIT – GO TO THE ROSNER MINYAN MAKER AT WWW.TBE.ORG AND ALSO CONTACT ME AT RABBI@TBE.ORG.

 

We’ve had several people coming lately who are saying kaddish following recent deaths in the family.  We want to make sure we have a minyan each day. Your presence any morning is greatly appreciated!

Please sign up at the Rosner Minyan Maker at www.tbe.org (for those who have had problems, it’s been fixed).

 

 

 

The

 (occasionally)

Ranting Rabbi

 

 

My Annual World Series Prediction

 

            First of all, my deepest sympathies to all Mets fans. I’ve been there, in 2003 (7th game – lose on last inning homer) and it ‘aint fun.  But it was a great year for the Mets.

 

            Now, onto the Series.  Tigers vs. Cardinals.  I search my Jewish sources for inspiration in making this annual never-wrong prediction.  Tiger in Hebrew is namer “nah-mare” (which also can mean “leopard,”) coming from the root N-M-R meaning “shine” or “gleam.”  Certainly the Tiger’s have been shining lately.  The animal is mentioned in the bible about a half dozen times, the most famous being  Isaiah 11:6: “The wolf will live with the lamb; the namer lie down with the kid; calf, young lion and fattened lamb together, with a little child to lead them.”  If anyone has seen the Tigers’ starting pitching lately, they are almost all “little children,”(with one notable exception).  This utopian prophecy would seem to bode well for the Tigers, unless we take it to mean that they will end up lying down, placid, passive - and pasted by the redbirds.

         

Take a look at Daniel 7:6 : “After this, I looked; and there was another one, like a namer with four bird's wings on its sides. The animal also had four heads, and it was given power to rule.”  Daniel is having a horrible nightmare, with visions of deformed animals.  But if this Tiger was also a winged bird, and there four wings, not two, one would think that the number 4 is significant here: indeed, it takes four victories to win the Series – perhaps this indicates a Detroit sweep. 

 

Of course, you say, Jewish sources have to support the team that once employed the mighty Hank Greenberg, the team that in 1968 came back to win against this same opponent, named for a city beginning with a “Saint,” a team named for a team called “Cardinals,” as if they came straight out of Vatican central casting.  There is a Jewish-born cardinal, BTW: Jean-Marie Lustiger (http://www.888webtoday.com/lustiger.html) who could someday become pope.

 

But there’s another side to this tale.  Apparently there are no cardinals (the bird, not the clergy) in Israel or the Bible.  But there are plenty of biblical references to birds – see http://bible.crosswalk.com/Concordances/NavesTopicalBible/ntb.cgi?number=T829.  Psalm 104:12 even reads like a depiction of the Cardinals’ uniform: “The birds of the air nest by the waters; they sing among the branches.”   The Talmud names about one hundred classes and varieties of birds, but it is extremely difficult to identify them (see http://www.jewishencyclopedia.com/view.jsp?artid=1082&letter=B).  Among Jews, as among most nations (Gubernatis, "Zoological Mythology," on Birds), birds were thought to possess supernatural knowledge, because they soared in the air.  In Psalm 11:1 the soul is compared to a bird: "Flee as a bird to your mountain."  And there even is a Talmudic tractate named for birds, Kinnim.   The name actually means "nests", referring to the tractate's subject matter of errors in bird-offerings.

 

More importantly, the Cards do have a Jewish player, pitcher Jason Marquis. 

 

So let’s see, Hank Greenberg or Jason Marquis?  Gotta go with Hank Greenberg: Baseball's First Jewish Superstar.

 

Tigers in Six.

 

 

Mazal Tov

 

Mazal Tov to TBE’s Denise Greenman, who will be honored at the Connecticut Region Biennial of the USCJ this weekend!  She has helped our congregation in so many ways, as Sisterhood past president, cantorial search chair, bar-bat mitzvah chair, and so much more.  No one could be more deserving of the honor!

 

Joan Katz – the “Bride of Genesis”

 

Last Sunday morning we honored Joan Katz with the first aliyah for Genesis as we began the Torah cycle anew.   Each year we ask our Hatan Torah and Kallat Bereisheet (the Bridegroom of the Torah and Bride of Genesis) to make a statement about their ties to TBE and the importance of volunteering.  Here is Joan’s beautiful statement:

 

 

Thank you so much for this very special honor. 

 

I grew up in Stamford at Agudath Shalom. As far back as I can remember, the adults in my life have always actively volunteered in the Jewish community.  My grandparents were devoted to their synagogue Sisterhood and Men’s Clubs.  They also chaperoned the children’s Shabbat service and my grandmother ran the synagogue gift shop out of her home. My father participated on Agudath Shalom’s board for many years and my mother held numerous Hadassah positions including president.

 

My husband and I have now been members of Temple Beth El for about thirteen years. We initially joined the synagogue because we loved attending the Tot Shabbat service.   As a parent of young children, my first volunteer experiences were as a chaperone at youth and family events.  I also taught Sunday school for a few years. 

 

The turning point of my TBE volunteer “career” was an evening when I attended a Sisterhood book discussion. I had a wonderful time talking about a book with a multi-aged group of women.  While we might have all been Jewish, we held diverse views and life experiences which lead to interesting conversation. Continued book club attendance led to Sisterhood involvement, Sisterhood board positions, chairing Break Fast, leading a group that reorganized the kitchen closets and cabinets and now Youth Commission and Synaplex committee work.

 

I get satisfaction accomplishing tasks through my volunteer work, but I most enjoy meeting new people and making previous acquaintances into friends. I’ve gotten to know so many hard-working volunteers here at Beth El who also deserve recognition.  Like my family, they’ve been great role models.  I’d like to thank them as well.

 

 


Minyans To Go

Last week, we honored, as our Hatan Torah, Peter Weissman, who has been instrumental in sustaining our morning minyan.  His words, recalling the passing of his son Adam, were most moving: 

When Adam passed away eight years ago, I began my attendance at morning minyans and ushering at the holidays.  While these are bittersweet, they provide me with opportunities to think of and talk to Adam as if he were still here, and indeed, in my heart and memory, he will always be here.  So I thank Temple Beth El for the honor of helping at the minyan services and participating in the holiday services.   It is Adam and I who receive these honors, which far exceed what I give in return.

 

Morning Minyan is the time when one sees the true face of TBE, all the caring and concern that go into the creation of a warm, embracing community.  For those who are there, that statement is self evident.  For those who might be reluctant to come, please know that you will be warmly welcomed.  Our new weekday prayer book is pretty easy to follow, but for those who want more background, check out our website’s gude, Minyan Mastery. 

 

If you find yourself elsewhere in the state, know that you will be welcomed at Conservative congregations throughout the state.  The USCJ Connecticut region has put together the following chart of minyan places and times.

 

Please check directly with the synagogue before attending daily minyan, to ensure the time listed here is accurate.

City

Congregation

Mon-Thurs

Fri

Sat

Sun

Public
Holidays

Jewish
Holidays

Bloomfield

Beth Hillel

7:00 am
7:30 pm

7:00 am   8:00 pm
(6:15 pm on Shabbat Dinner nights)

9:30 am, sundown

9:00 am
7:30 pm

x

9:30 am, sundown

Bloomfield

Congregation Tikvoh Chadoshoh

7:30 pm

7:00 pm

9:00 am

7:30 pm

.

9:00 am
pm varies
(call ahead)

Bridgeport

Congregation Rodeph Sholom

The earlier of sunset or 6:00 pm,
includes Shalosh
Regalim

7:10 am
6:00 pm
or sunset
Rosh Hodesh
7:00 am
7:10 am

9:00 am 
and at candle lighting time the prior evening 

8:00 am 6:00 pm

8:00 am 6:00 pm

check web site or call 203-334-0159 for official holidays

9:00 am and same as Saturday Evenings

Cheshire

Kol Ami

Tuesday: 6:00 pm (when school is in session)
Thursday: 8:00 am (followed by breakfast)

7:30 am

9:00 am Torah Study / 10:00 am services

x

x

X

Fairfield

Congregation Beth El

7:30 am

7:30 am
6:00 pm

9:00 am summer
10:00 am winter

8:30 am summer
9:00 am winter

call for schedule
203-374-5544

call for schedule
203-374-5544

Greenfield, MA

Temple Israel

x

5:30 pm (First Friday only Pot Luck Dinner)

10:00 am

x

x

X

Hamden

Temple Beth Sholom

7:15 am
6:45 pm

7:15 am

x

9:00 am

x

X

Holyoke, MA

Sons of Zion

7:30 am
Mon & Thurs incl. holidays

 

10:00 am
Torah service begins at 10:30 am
 

 

 

 

Longmeadow, MA

B'nai Jacob

6:45 am
Mon& Thurs

6:00 pm

9:30 am