Shabbat-O-Gram

 

 

December 1, 2006 – Kislev 11, 5767

 

Rabbi Joshua Hammerman, Temple Beth El, Stamford, Connecticut

 

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THANK YOU TO ALL WHO ARE HOSTING AND PARTICIPATING IN OUR PROGESSIVE DINNER THIS SATURDAY NIGHT

AND GOOD LUCK TO ALL WHO WILL BE PARTICIPATING IN THE

MURDER MYSTERY

 

 

Join your fellow community members and volunteer on Super Sunday,

THIS SUNDAY

(UJF's community phone-a-thon)

on December 3, 2006.

Register now to volunteer

 

Friday is World AIDS Day – if you are receiving this on Thursday, consider joining Cantor Littman and myself at the Interfaith Service tonight at 7 PM. Details in Announcements below

 

 

Our 7th graders planted1000 daffodil bulbs…

 

7th Grade Mitzvah Project Nov 2006 018

 

See the Beth El Cares section below find out about this exciting 7th grade mitzvah project. 

Then check out www.tbe.org for more photos of the event,

plus our extensive library of photo albums,

articles, sermons, info about the temple,

Shabbat-O-Grams and links to the Jewish world.

 

 

 

Contents of the Shabbat O Gram:

(Click to scroll down)

 

Just the Facts (service schedule)  

The Beth El Bar/Bat Mitzvah Commentary (new)

The (Occasionally) Ranting Rabbi

Mitzvah/Tzedakkah Opportunities

Ask the Rabbi

Spiritual Journey on the Web   

Required Reading and Action Items (links to key articles on Israel and Jewish life)

 Announcements (goings on in and around TBE)

TBE Youth Programming

Joke for the Week

 

 

 

Special Blood Drive

in honor of Bobby Silberman

(see details in Mitzvah section below)

 

 

 

                                                             

Synaplex returns!!!!!

 

HAVE YOU SIGNED UP YET FOR NEXT WEEK’S SYNAPLEX FRIDAY NIGHT, CELEBRATING THE SISTERHOOD’S NEW COOKBOOK? 

Download the reservation form NOW at

http://www.tbe.org/site/docs/temp/Invitation_General%20Congregation.pdf

 

Here’s what’s happening: 

 

 Synaplex & Sisterhood Family Shabbat Dinner,

Services and Program

Honoring New Members

December 8, 2006

 

Services 6:30 pm

Please join us in the main sanctuary as we welcome Shabbat together and honor our new members.  There will be a Tot Shabbat for our children starting at the same time with Nurit.

 

Dinner 7:30 pm

 

Share in the Sisterhood’s celebration of the all new (first ever!) TBE cookbook.  Enjoy a dinner made from cookbook recipes that were contributed by our own TBE family.  Hear about the beautiful two-year journey of over 120 Sisterhood members who contributed their hearts and kitchens to create this beautiful keepsake for all to enjoy.

 

If you are interested in purchasing the cookbook, please order using the RSVP (on the opposite side of this page).  The proceeds will be donated to TBE’s kitchen renovation project.

 

Program 8:30 pm

 

We are honored to have Elise Klein, UJF BRIDGES Program Director, join us to share with us how each of us can become part of our TBE community and what we can do to make it stronger.

 

Working together, we will discuss ways in which to create a community that all want to be part of and which all can share in – respecting our differences and celebrating our commonalities.  By strengthening bonds we create a strengthened, enriched community: opening and welcoming to all who wish to be part of TBE’s wonderful congregation.

 

There will be children’s programming at this time, with Nurit here for the younger children and a Scrabble tournament for older ones..

 

Here’s what we’ll be eating:

 

 

         Yom Tov Chicken (Sari Jaffe) – “This is a great dish to make for the New Year or Passover. 

I got the recipe from the late Tish Lilie who was a wonderful cooking demonstrator at a New Canaan food store”.

         Sweet Potato Latkes (Marge Shameer) – “Enjoy”

         Apple Cranberry Relish (Ellen Gordon) – “Great with brisket, turkey, or chicken. 

Vary the fruits added to your preference”.

         Claremont Salad(Loralee Granowitz) – “Enjoy”

         Sharon's Double Chocolate Brownies (Sharon Hittman) – “I usually bake these in foil pans and freeze them without cutting them. 

 I then give them away in the pans uncut or cut them up and present them in individual paper cupcake liners on a tray or in a wicker basket. 

One recipe makes one pan of brownies.  I have made up to 18 times the recipe but you need a gigantic bowl for that much batter.”

 

 

And here are some of the stories behind the recipes…

(we’ll be sharing lots more that night)

 

         “My mom, Mollie, enjoyed cooking for her family, but I don’t remember her owning any cookbooks or having a recipe collection.  I do recall, however, all of the wonderful smells and food coming from our small kitchen”.  Barbara Gold

 

         “This section is dedicated to my grandmother, Beate Yunker, who came from a totally assimilated German home.  Through the ironies of history, she found herself in Parkersburg, West Virginia, in the 1950s – struggling to keep kosher.  This required picking up meat sent monthly from Pittsburgh to the local Greyhound Bus station.  When I was small, I asked her why she did this.  “Because I love my husband,” she replied – an act of commitment to my grandfather Max and to the religion she respected but understood so little of”.  Fran Ginsburg

 

         “It is told that this recipe came from Mrs. Roth, mother of author Philip Roth”.  Kim Hittman

 

         “This recipe was given to me by my wonderful mother-in-law, Muriel Novack.  She had received it from her mother, Marion Jacobson”.  Lynn Villency Cohen. 

 

         “My mother’s finest recipe ever.  No one who has ever had it has ever forgotten the experience”.   Ellen Gordon

 

         “My friend Doi is a great soup maker.  She served this soup at our semi-annual women’s retreat.  Later, I made it for my mom’s 87th birthday celebration”. Caroline Temlock Teichman

 

         “Miriam’s husband, Snekky, believed that you should eat soup after the meal to wash it down”.  Miriam Stosser

 

         Passed down from my mother (a Carolina southerner) to me, now to my children, and to you”.  Jennifer W. Lapine

 

         “This recipe has been in our family for more than 100 years.  It came from Europe and was handed down from mother to daughter”.  Millie Sobel

 

         “My mother made the highest, lightest sponge cakes ever and she made them for everyone (family and friends) at Passover”.  Linda Simon

 

         “This is Steven’s mother’s traditional recipe and an old family favorite”.  Susan Leiterstein

 

 

Quote for the Week

 

On this week of the progressive dinner…

 

“Can you accept the moments of anger and fear as guests,

be willing to receive them with kindness

without feeling obliged to serve them a five-course meal?”

 

-Christina Feldman in 'Compassion: Listening to the Cries of the World'

 

 

JUST THE FACTS

 

Friday Evening 

Candle lighting: 4:09 pm on Friday, 1 December 2006.  For candle lighting times, Havdalah times, other Jewish calendar information, and to download a Jewish calendar to your PDA, click on http://www.hebcal.com/.  To see the festivals of other faiths as well, go to http://www.interfaithcalendar.org/

 

Shabbat Evening service: 6:30 PM – in the chapel

 

Tot Shabbat: 6:45 – in the lobby.

 

Shabbat Morning: 9:30 AMon Shabbat, we celebrate the Bar Mitzvah of David Katz.  Mazal tov to David and to his parents Joan and Sheldon! 

 

FROM DAVID KATZ 
FOOD DRIVE MITZVAH PROJECT
 
Donate Food to Help the Hungry
 
All donations will be taken to the local food bank.
I will personally shelve the food so the more donations you give, the harder I will work!
Boxes will be located in the Hebrew school lobby and at my Bar Mitzvah on 12/2/06.
Thank you.
David Katz

 

Children’s services: 10:30 AM (jr. congregation service in the chapel, Tot Shabbat morning downstairs. 6th and 7th graders are expected to be in the main sanctuary)

 

 

Our Torah Reading for Shabbat Morning

Parashat Vayetzei
פרשת ויצא

 

Genesis 28:10 - 32:3 – Jacob’s Journeys

1: 31:17-21
2:
31:22-24
3:
31:25-35
4:
31:36-42
5:
31:43-45
6:
31:46-50
7:
31:51-32:3
maf:
32:1-3

Haftarah Hosea 12:13 - 14:10

 

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What’s Bothering Rashi (Bonchek) Each week, one example from the parashah is deconstructed. See a weekly commentary from the UJC Rabbinic Cabinet, at www.ujc.org/mekorchaim.  Read the Masorti commentary at http://www.masorti.org/mason/torah/index.asp.  University of Judaism,  JTS commentary is at:
http://www.jtsa.edu/community/parashah/. USCJ Torah Sparks can be found at http://uscj.org/item20_467.html. UAHC Shabbat Table Talk discussions are at http://urj.org/torah/index.cfm Other divrei Torah via the Torahnet home page: http://uahcweb.org/torahnet/. Test your Parasha I.Q.: http://www.ou.org/jewishiq/parsha/default.htm. CLAL’s Torah commentary archive: http://click.topica.com/maaaiRtaaRvQhbV2AtLb/.  World Zionist Organization Education page, including Nehama Liebowitz archives of parsha commentaries: http://www.moreshet.net/web/index.asp?f=1 For a more Kabbalistic/Zionist/Orthodox perspective from Rav Kook, first Chief Rabbi of Israel, go to http://www.geocities.com/m_yericho/ravkook/index.html. For some probing questions and meditations on key verses of the portion, with a liberal kabbalistic bent, go to http://www.jewishealing.com/learning.html or, for Kabbalistic commentaries from the Zohar itself, go to http://www.kabbalah.com/k/index.php/p=zohar/weekly/intro.  Also, try  http://home.utah.edu/~rfs4/jkmfc.htm.  To see the weekly commentary from Hillel, geared to college students and others, go to  http://www.hillel.org/hillel/NewHille.nsf/FCB8259CA861AE57852567D30043BA26/DF7D129F15B3DF0885256AB80058E9C3?OpenDocument. For a Jewish Renewal and feminist approach go to http://rabbishefagold.hypermart.net/Torah1.html .  For a comprehensive Orthodox viewpoint from the Israeli rabbi, Yaakov Fogelman, go to the Torah Outreach Program at http://israelvisit.co.il/top/previous.shtml.  Guided meditations for each portion by Judith Abrams at http://www.maqom.com/kavannah.pdf For online Parsha quizzes from Pardes in Israel, go to  http://www.pardes.org.il/online_learning/parsha_quizzes/ Torah for Kids: http://www.torah4kids.net/  Weekly Lesson of Popular Israeli Rabbi Mordechai Elon: http://www.elon.org/archives/archives.htm - and his parsha sheets: http://www.mibereshit.org/special/download_eng_pdf.htm   From Bar Ilan University: http://www.biu.ac.il/JH/Parasha/eng/; http://www.torahproductions.com/weekly_article.jsp

 

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100 Blessings: Download information about the grace after meals (see Birkat Ha-mazon explained in Wikipedia and in the Jewish Virtual Library)  The actual prayer can be downloaded at Birkat Hamazon [pdf]

 

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