Shabbat-O-Gram

 

 

Happy (end of) Hanukkah!

and

 

Happy 2007!

 

December 22 and 29, 2006 – Tevet 2 and 9, 5767

 

Rabbi Joshua Hammerman, Temple Beth El, Stamford, Connecticut

 

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Thank you to all our volunteers who will be helping at homeless shelters and other facilities this weekend, as well as all those who have been visiting nursing homes and hospitals during this holiday season.  Among them were our K-2 students at Brighton gardens, pictured below:

 

 

And thanks also to those who made last weekend’s Hanukkah celebration HERE so special, including our choirs (who have been spreading cheer all over town this week!), volunteers (including our Sisterhood gift shop volunteers, teens, and Board of Ed members, all of whom pitched in big-time), teachers, dreidel spinners (including our champion – by a razor thin margin – Robbie Katz), creative Menorah designers, and last but certainly not least, Eran Vaisben and Cant0r Littman.

 

 

 

Photos of our Primary Grades’ visit to Brighton Gardens

as well as our grand Hanukkah Celebration of last Sunday.

Check out www.tbe.org for lots more pictures of those events, plus

our extensive library of photo albums,

articles, sermons, info about the temple,

Shabbat-O-Grams and links to the Jewish world.

 

http://www.lionetwork.net/images/Hanuka-LH.swf

Click on the candles!

(thanks to Beth Boyer for forwarding this one)

 

 

 

Contents of the Shabbat O Gram:

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Just the Facts (service schedule)  

The Beth El Bar/Bat Mitzvah Commentary (new)

The (Occasionally) Ranting Rabbi

Mitzvah/Tzedakkah Opportunities

Ask the Rabbi

Spiritual Journey on the Web   

Required Reading and Action Items (links to key articles on Israel and Jewish life)

 Announcements (goings on in and around TBE)

TBE Youth Programming

Joke for the Week

 

 

 

Quote for the Week

 

“With blessings of light, of hope, of peace, of spirit—

we bring not might, not power, but the Breath of Life.”

- Rabbi Arthur Waskow

 

 

JUST THE FACTS

 

Friday Evening 

 

Candle lighting: 4:12 pm on Friday, 22 December 2006 and 4:17 on the 29th (yes, it is getting later!)  For candle lighting times, Havdalah times, other Jewish calendar information, and to download a Jewish calendar to your PDA, click on http://www.hebcal.com/.  To see the festivals of other faiths as well, go to http://www.interfaithcalendar.org/

 

Shabbat Evening service: 6:30 PM in the lobby on the 22nd, chapel on the 29th

 

Tot Shabbat: 6:45in the CHAPEL on the 22nd, no Tot Shabbat on the 29th.

 

Shabbat Morning: 9:30 AM

 

Children’s services: 10:30 AM (Jr. Congregation service in the chapel, Tot Shabbat morning downstairs. 6th and 7th graders are expected to be in the main sanctuary. On Dec. 29, there will be no Junior Congregation, though Nurit’s service WILL be held – Jr Cong. kids are most welcome in the main sanctuary)

 

 

Our Torah Reading for Shabbat Morning

Parashat Mikketz
פרשת מקץ

Genesis 37:1 - 40:23– The Joseph story begins

1: 43:16-18
2:
43:19-25
3:
43:26-29
4:
43:30-34
5:
44:1-6
6:
44:7-10
7:
44:11-17

maf:
Numbers 7:54-8:4  (for Hanukkah, 8th day)

Haftarah: Shabbat Chanukah II / I Kings 7:40-50)

If you liked Storahtelling, you’ll LOVE Storahtelling’s new weekly blog about the Torah portion Find it at http://storahtelling.blogspot.com/.  ORT Navigating the Bible; Rashi in English; BibleGateway: Useful for comparing different translations: Note- this is a Christian site.
What’s Bothering Rashi (Bonchek) Each week, one example from the parashah is deconstructed. See a weekly commentary from the UJC Rabbinic Cabinet, at www.ujc.org/mekorchaim.  Read the Masorti commentary at http://www.masorti.org/mason/torah/index.asp.  University of Judaism,  JTS commentary is at:
http://www.jtsa.edu/community/parashah/. USCJ Torah Sparks can be found at: http://www.uscj.org/Torah_Sparks5689.html UAHC Shabbat Table Talk discussions are at http://urj.org/torah/index.cfm Other divrei Torah via the Torahnet home page: http://uahcweb.org/torahnet/. Test your Parasha I.Q.: http://www.ou.org/jewishiq/parsha/default.htm. CLAL’s Torah commentary archive: http://click.topica.com/maaaiRtaaRvQhbV2AtLb/.  World Zionist Organization Education page, including Nehama Liebowitz archives of parsha commentaries: http://www.moreshet.net/web/index.asp?f=1 For a more Kabbalistic/Zionist/Orthodox perspective from Rav Kook, first Chief Rabbi of Israel, go to http://www.geocities.com/m_yericho/ravkook/index.html. For some probing questions and meditations on key verses of the portion, with a liberal kabbalistic bent, go to http://www.jewishealing.com/learning.html or, for Kabbalistic commentaries from the Zohar itself, go to http://www.kabbalah.com/k/index.php/p=zohar/weekly/intro.  Also, try  http://home.utah.edu/~rfs4/jkmfc.htm.  To see the weekly commentary from Hillel, geared to college students and others, go to  http://www.hillel.org/hillel/NewHille.nsf/FCB8259CA861AE57852567D30043BA26/DF7D129F15B3DF0885256AB80058E9C3?OpenDocument. For a Jewish Renewal and feminist approach go to http://rabbishefagold.hypermart.net/Torah1.html .  For a comprehensive Orthodox viewpoint from the Israeli rabbi, Yaakov Fogelman, go to the Torah Outreach Program at http://israelvisit.co.il/top/previous.shtml.  Guided meditations for each portion by Judith Abrams at http://www.maqom.com/kavannah.pdf For online Parsha quizzes from Pardes in Israel, go to  http://www.pardes.org.il/online_learning/parsha_quizzes/ Torah for Kids: http://www.torah4kids.net/  Weekly Lesson of Popular Israeli Rabbi Mordechai Elon: http://www.elon.org/archives/archives.htm - and his parsha sheets: http://www.mibereshit.org/special/download_eng_pdf.htm   From Bar Ilan University: http://www.biu.ac.il/JH/Parasha/eng/; http://www.torahproductions.com/weekly_article.jsp

 

THE ENTIRE HEBREW BIBLE (AS WELL AS OTHER JEWISH SOURCES) CAN BE FOUND WITH SIDE-BY-SIDE TRANSLATION AT http://www.mechon-mamre.org/

100 Blessings: Download information about the grace after meals (see Birkat Ha-mazon explained in Wikipedia and in the Jewish Virtual Library)  The actual prayer can be downloaded at Birkat Hamazon [pdf]

 

Morning Minyan

7:30 Weekdays, 9:30 Sundays

We’ve had Guaranteed Minyan requests (including from me) for yahrzeits on Sunday, December 24.  If you can make it, please take a moment to sign up at the Rosner Minyan Maker at www.tbe.org.

 

TO ENSURE A “GUARANTEED MINYAN” FOR THE DAY OF YOUR YAHRZEIT – GO TO THE ROSNER MINYAN MAKER AT WWW.TBE.ORG AND ALSO CONTACT ME AT RABBI@TBE.ORG.

 

We’ve had several people coming lately who are saying kaddish following recent deaths in the family.  We want to make sure we have a minyan each day. Your presence any morning is greatly appreciated!

Please sign up at the Rosner Minyan Maker at www.tbe.org

 

 

The Beth El Bar/Bat Mitzvah Commentary

 

Samantha Wise’s Commentary of December 16: Parshat Va-Yeshev

 

This is an amazing day. On the same Shabbat, we bring together the three most famous sets of siblings in Jewish history. In the Torah, we read (red) about Joseph and his brothers. On Chanukah, we celebrate the victories of Judah Maccabi and his brothers. And perhaps, more famous than both, on Passover, we always read about the wise child, who questions tradition.  We have with us today, three Wise children: my sisters and me.

 

So it’s natural that I would want to talk about siblings. In the first case, we see Joseph and his 11 brothers constantly fighting. Then, we see Judah and his four brothers all uniting to fight for a higher cause. And finally, we have the Wise family, whom we find somewhere in between.

 

My sisters and I do fight occasionally, although we are usually as united, like the Maccabees.

 

Joseph thought too highly of himself and used to gloat all of the time: his brothers hated him for it. As for the Wises, sometimes we try to 1-up each other, but it’s not nearly as bad as with Joseph and his brothers. Unlike Joseph and his brothers, most of the time when it comes to competition, it’s sort of a joke for us.

 

What else caused Joseph’s family to break down? One problem was tattling. Because it is mentioned before anything else, some commentators believe that it was tattling that caused Joseph’s brothers to hate him the most.

 

In my family, tattling usually works. Each of us knows that if we are the ones to go to our parents, we’ll get to watch the others get in trouble. We also realize that it is not the best way for us to get along, and that we should try to work it out.

 

An even greater concern for Joseph was that Jacob clearly favored him.  Favoritism is a BIG PROBLEM! The great thing about my parents is that they do not favor one of us over the other. This solves many problems before they even start.

 

After Joseph has his dreams, his brothers go north to take care of the flocks. Jacob sends Joseph north to visit them. It is one of the all-time dumb parenting moves. The last thing you do when people are angry is send their foe to visit them on their own turf. It reminds me of the time where my sister invaded my personal space by borrowing my camera without permission. So, I tattled on her, but in this case, it didn’t work. Eventually, I got over it and did not throw her into a pit or sell her to Ishmaelites for some pieces of silver.

 

Unlike Joseph’s brothers, my family has a lot in common with the Maccabees. The Maccabees worked together to defeat the Greeks, who were much greater in number, but weaker in willpower.  Once a year, my family has to take firewood from the backyard to the front door. There are many more logs than there are hands, but we work together and make many trips back and forth. At the end of the day, we’re all warm. In addition, we cheer for each other. No family is louder than us when we are in the stands. During the softball season, we yell like crazy for each other, hoping that the encouragement will stimulate good performance on the field.

 

And one other thing I’ve learned about family is that it can extend well beyond those who are directly related. My bat mitzvah is the last one for my grade. I think now is a great time to reflect on how close we have all become. Now, we are like a huge family, made for trusting, laughing, and sharing. We know now who shares our interests, who will be there for us, and who really understands our personalities. I’m really glad I get to see many of you at Kulanu.

 

Each of us has a little bit of the wise child in us.  But only if we learn the lessons of Judaism’s most famous siblings, the Maccabees and Jacob’s kids, can we all become one wise family.

 

For my bat mitzvah project, I am donating sports equipment to kids in impoverished communities. It is important that my “brothers and sisters” around the world get to play the games we all love. Sports are such a joy for me, and I want every kid to be able to share this feeling.

 

While we are on the topic of charity, I would like to explain the significance of my bema baskets. All of the toys in the baskets are going to be given to patients from newborn to 18 years, through David’s Treasure Tree program. These toys can be used during the patients’ hospital stay or are given to the patients to take home. I think the patients and their families will appreciate these gifts, which will hopefully make their holidays enjoyable, no matter where they celebrate.

 

 

 

 

The

 (occasionally)

Ranting Rabbi

 

 

The Conservative Movement to Provide

“TSEDEK HEKHSHER”

 

New kosher certification would track worker dignity and worker safety

 

Not all the news from the Conservative Movement is about this month’s landmark decision by the Law Committee .  Here’s an item announced this week that speaks of a vibrant, relevant and new approach to Jewish values and halakha.  Let me know what you think! 

 

NEW YORK – A new commission of the Conservative movement of Judaism is exploring the possibility of establishing a “tsedek hekhsher,” a certification that food and meat processors have met a set of standards that determine the social responsibility of kosher food producers, particularly in the area of workers’ rights. 

 

The commission was appointed by the United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism and the Rabbinical Assembly in response to published reports describing alleged unsafe working conditions and worker mistreatment at the nation’s largest kosher meatpacking plant, AgriProcessors, Inc., in Postville, Iowa.  It set out to determine if the charges were accurate, to learn about working conditions at the plant, and to establish next steps, if needed, to help ensure workers’ dignity, safety and rights within the context of Jewish law, values and tradition. 

 

The commission’s overriding objective is to ensure that the American Jewish community can continue to be able to buy kosher meat with full confidence in its integrity as a kosher product and in the presence of Jewish values in the production process.

 

The commission conducted site visits of AgriProcessors’ Postville plant in August and September, 2006, meeting with a wide variety of people in both labor and management, including Rabbi Sholom Mordecai Rubashkin, vice president of AgriProcessors, as well as other community leaders.

 

As a result of their numerous conversations, the commission concluded that there were indeed significant issues of concern at the plant, including those of worker health and safety.

 

Members of the commission subsequently met again with Rabbi Rubashkin in November to review their preliminary recommendations and to explore ways of moving those recommendations forward.  Throughout their three visits, the commission emphasized a commitment to building a trusting relationship with the plant management to solve any problems.

 

In a December letter the commission’s chair, Rabbi Morris Allen, AgriProcessors committed to retaining a consultant to further review employee safety and health procedures and to take specific steps to address the commission’s concerns.

 

Several commission members also toured the Empire Kosher Poultry Plant in Mifflintown, PA.  Overall, the commission found working conditions, safety conditions and general worker welfare and community relations not to be issues of concern at the Empire plant.

 

The commission intends to continue working with these and other kosher food manufacturers to ensure adherence to Jewish values in the production of kosher food and will be conducting other site visits. 

 

As the humane treatment of animals is at the heart of the laws surrounding kosher slaughter, further visits may include assessments of the conditions and treatment of animals.  Additional study may also include an assessment of the effects of their products on the environment by these same and other food processors.

 

The issue of working conditions in the kosher food industry was first reported by the Forward newspaper in May, 2006.

 

For more information contact Richard Lederman (301) 230-0801 ext. 1, Steve Rabinowitz (202) 265-3000, Shira Dicker (212) 663-4643 or Joanne Palmer (212) 533-7800 ext. 2601.

 

And speaking of Jewish ethics and food, check out this new Website in progress:  http://www.jcarrot.org/ - Jews, Food, and Contemporary Issues

It is the brainchild of Nigel Savage, founder of Hazon,

who came here as scholar in residence a few years ago.

 

“The Jew and the Carrot features the intersection between Jews, food and contemporary life.

The Jewish community has an amazingly complex relationship to food. As the rest of the world is waking up to the notion of sustainable agriculture, local foods, and healthy eating, so is the Jewish community in the States and in Israel.

We want to:

  • Raise the quality of discussion about contemporary food issues in the Jewish community.
  • Convey a sense of importance and joy around food.
  • Challenge and inspire participants to think deeply and broadly about their own food choices.

The Jew and the Carrot is a project of Hazon, an organization dedicated to a more healthy and sustainable Jewish community on the road to a more healthy and sustainable world for all.”

 

There you will find more on such fascinating stories as this:

 

Believing is seeing by Sarah Rose

 

The L.A. Times asks why we’re inclined to see the divine in a grilled cheese sandwich?

The word for it is “pareidolia” - perceiving patterns where none are intended.

“There’s a yearning out there for things spiritual; people have a great spiritual hunger.”

 

 

Back to that OTHER issue, for those who would like to read the actual position papers, they are available online at the Rabbinical Assembly Website: