Shabbat-O-Gram

 

 

January 12, 2007– Tevet 23, 5767

 

Rabbi Joshua Hammerman, Temple Beth El, Stamford, Connecticut

 

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Martin Luther King Weekend

 

Dr. King, whose birthday we commemorate this week,

had a close relationship with the Jewish community,

as is shown in the following link:

MLK on Zionism: http://www.internationalwallofprayer.org/A-022-Martin-Luther-King-Zionism.html

 

 

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Sue and Carl Shapiro, with a friend

 

Check out www.tbe.org for many more new pictures of our recent Murder Mystery,

plus our extensive library of photo albums,

articles, sermons, info about the temple,

Shabbat-O-Grams and links to the Jewish world.

 

Did you know that in December, the TBE website had nearly 100,000 hits

(and an average of over 400 unique visits each day), from over 60 countries????

 

 

NEXT WEEK!!!                              Feb. 3

 

 

FULL Synaplex Schedule and Temple Rock Café information below and at our website!

 

The fun begins next Friday night:

SHABBAT UNPLUGGED IS BACK!!!

With Cantor Littman

And Scholar in Residence Benjamin Gampel

Dancing! Singing! Meditation! Celebration!

For all ages, the Spirit of Shabbat

Friday, Jan. 19 @7:30

 

Contents of the Shabbat O Gram:

(Click to scroll down)

 

 

Just the Facts (service schedule)  

The Beth El Bar/Bat Mitzvah Commentary (new)

The (Occasionally) Ranting Rabbi

Mitzvah/Tzedakkah Opportunities

Ask the Rabbi

Spiritual Journey on the Web   

Required Reading and Action Items (links to key articles on Israel and Jewish life)

 Announcements (goings on in and around TBE)

TBE Youth Programming

Joke for the Week

 

 

 

 

Quote for the Week

 


"When I was young, I admired clever people. As I grew old, I came to admire kind people."

-Abraham Joshua Heschel, who marched with Dr. King

 

The Legacy of Abraham Joshua Heschel




 

JUST THE FACTS

 

Friday Evening 

 

Candle lighting: 4:30 pm on Friday, 12 January 2006.  For candle lighting times, Havdalah times, other Jewish calendar information, and to download a Jewish calendar to your PDA, click on http://www.hebcal.com/.  To see the festivals of other faiths as well, go to http://www.interfaithcalendar.org/.  The United Synagogue has updated its candlelighting information. To learn more, click here.

 

Shabbat Evening service: 7:30 PM (note later time)– in the chapel

 

Shabbat Morning: 9:30 AM

 

Children’s services: 10:30 AM (Jr. Congregation service in the chapel, Tot Shabbat morning downstairs. 6th and 7th graders in the main sanctuary)

 

 

Our Torah Reading for Shabbat Morning

Parashat Shemot
פרשת שמות

Exodus 1:1 - 6:1 – the Exodus Saga begins

1: 4:18-20
2:
4:21-26
3:
4:27-31
4:
5:1-5
5:
5:6-9
6:
5:10-14
7:
5:15-6:1
maf:
5:22-6:1

Haftarah: Isaiah 27:6 - 28:13; 29:22 - 29:23

If you liked Storahtelling, you’ll LOVE Storahtelling’s new weekly blog about the Torah portion Find it at http://storahtelling.blogspot.com/.  ORT Navigating the Bible; Rashi in English; BibleGateway: Useful for comparing different translations: Note- this is a Christian site.
What’s Bothering Rashi (Bonchek) Each week, one example from the parashah is deconstructed. See a weekly commentary from the UJC Rabbinic Cabinet, at www.ujc.org/mekorchaim.  Read the Masorti commentary at http://www.masorti.org/mason/torah/index.asp.  University of Judaism,  JTS commentary is at:
http://www.jtsa.edu/community/parashah/. USCJ Torah Sparks can be found at: http://www.uscj.org/Torah_Sparks5689.html UAHC Shabbat Table Talk discussions are at http://urj.org/torah/index.cfm Other divrei Torah via the Torahnet home page: http://uahcweb.org/torahnet/. Test your Parasha I.Q.: http://www.ou.org/jewishiq/parsha/default.htm. CLAL’s Torah commentary archive: http://click.topica.com/maaaiRtaaRvQhbV2AtLb/.  World Zionist Organization Education page, including Nehama Liebowitz archives of parsha commentaries: http://www.moreshet.net/web/index.asp?f=1 For a more Kabbalistic/Zionist/Orthodox perspective from Rav Kook, first Chief Rabbi of Israel, go to http://www.geocities.com/m_yericho/ravkook/index.html. For some probing questions and meditations on key verses of the portion, with a liberal kabbalistic bent, go to http://www.jewishealing.com/learning.html or, for Kabbalistic commentaries from the Zohar itself, go to http://www.kabbalah.com/k/index.php/p=zohar/weekly/intro.  Also, try  http://home.utah.edu/~rfs4/jkmfc.htm.  To see the weekly commentary from Hillel, geared to college students and others, go to  http://www.hillel.org/hillel/NewHille.nsf/FCB8259CA861AE57852567D30043BA26/DF7D129F15B3DF0885256AB80058E9C3?OpenDocument. For a Jewish Renewal and feminist approach go to http://rabbishefagold.hypermart.net/Torah1.html .  For a comprehensive Orthodox viewpoint from the Israeli rabbi, Yaakov Fogelman, go to the Torah Outreach Program at http://israelvisit.co.il/top/previous.shtml.  Guided meditations for each portion by Judith Abrams at http://www.maqom.com/kavannah.pdf For online Parsha quizzes from Pardes in Israel, go to  http://www.pardes.org.il/online_learning/parsha_quizzes/ Torah for Kids: http://www.torah4kids.net/  Weekly Lesson of Popular Israeli Rabbi Mordechai Elon: http://www.elon.org/archives/archives.htm - and his parsha sheets: http://www.mibereshit.org/special/download_eng_pdf.htm   From Bar Ilan University: http://www.biu.ac.il/JH/Parasha/eng/; http://www.torahproductions.com/weekly_article.jsp

 

THE ENTIRE HEBREW BIBLE (AS WELL AS OTHER JEWISH SOURCES) CAN BE FOUND WITH SIDE-BY-SIDE TRANSLATION AT http://www.mechon-mamre.org/

100 Blessings: Download information about the grace after meals (see Birkat Ha-mazon explained in Wikipedia and in the Jewish Virtual Library)  The actual prayer can be downloaded at Birkat Hamazon [pdf]

 

Morning Minyan

7:30 Weekdays, 9:30 Sundays

We’ve had a Guaranteed Minyan request for a yahrzeit on Monday, January 8.  If you can make it, please take a moment to sign up at the Rosner Minyan Maker at www.tbe.org.

 

TO ENSURE A “GUARANTEED MINYAN” FOR THE DAY OF YOUR YAHRZEIT – GO TO THE ROSNER MINYAN MAKER AT WWW.TBE.ORG AND ALSO CONTACT ME AT RABBI@TBE.ORG.

 

We’ve had several people coming lately who are saying kaddish following recent deaths in the family.  We want to make sure we have a minyan each day. Your presence any morning is greatly appreciated!

Please sign up at the Rosner Minyan Maker at www.tbe.org

 

 

The Beth El Bar/Bat Mitzvah Commentary

 

During this lull in the Bar Mitzvah season, we are filling this space with Bar Mitzvah related material rather than speeches.  This week, in honor of Dr King, we focus on ways to add more mitzvah to the bar/bat mitzvah The following suggestions come from the Ziv Tzedakkah Fund: http://www.ziv.org/

MITZVAH KIPPOT

Want to have the most beautiful kippot for your guests? Ones that no one has ever seen before? Brightly colored and beautifully patterned? Call MayaWorks, Kathleen Morkert, 773-506-4905, mayaworks-chi@attbi.com, www.mayaworks.org.

These kipot will not only wow your guests but will also help support the women who make them in remote villages of Guatemala.  (These women are VERY busy—you need to place your order very early.)

WHAT TO DO ABOUT INVITATIONS?

Want a really original invitation to send your family and friends? There are lots of possibilities. First, contact Carol Katzman, 402-397-9935,  ckatzman@jewishomaha.org . She can tell you how she did hers. Or, be in touch with the Jewish Foundation for the Righteous, 888-421-1221, www.jfr.org, jfr@jfr.org. Ziv Tzedakah Fund can also provide you with artwork to be used for original invitations, naomi@ziv.org.

CENTERPIECES

When it comes to your party, there are so many things you can do for centerpieces: 

1. Books, books and books! An arrangement of kids’ books, audio tapes, video tapes and CD’s can then be given away to a deserving organization in your area.

2. Food, food, and food! An arrangement of canned and boxed foods in a basket can then be donated to a local pantry or shelter.

 

3. Want to go the traditional route with flowers or plants? Arrangements of individual plants and flowers can be broken up and distributed to the local hospital, shelter or nursing home, or you can ask your Rabbi or synagogue office to give you the names of congregants who might enjoy some. You can do this with balloons and bima arrangements, too.

 

   

 

4. Speaking of bima arrangements….don’t forget you can make attractive baskets of toys and stuffed animals and distribute them as well.

 

   

5. Are you a sports fanatic? Try collecting sports equipment and arranging it as centerpieces. After the party? Give it away to local shelters where kids may not have their own equipment.

 

   

 

6. Use your imagination! There are hundreds of ways to do this—just keep thinking Mitzvahs!

Got a caterer preparing your party? Make sure you tell them that you want all of the leftovers packed up so that you can bring them to a nearby pantry or shelter after your party. Don’t let them tell you they can’t because they don’t want to be sued. Here is a copy of the Bill Emerson Good Samaritan Food Law (a federal law which states that no one can be held liable for any illness resulting from the donation of food). Many people do not know about this law. It will be your proof if the caterer does not want to cooperate!

Selections from The New Federal Food Donation Law

The “Bill Emerson Good Samaritan Food Donation Act” appears in the Child Nutrition Act of 1966 as 42 U.S.C. 12672.  The legislation essentially states that the donor of food to a non-profit organization to people in need is free of liability.  This act provides uniform coverage for the entire country.  I have italicized the sections that relate to issues of liability:

(c) Liability for damages from donated food and grocery products.

            (1) Liability of person or gleaner.  A person or gleaner shall not* be subject to civil or criminal liability arising from the nature, age, packaging, or condition of apparently whole-some food or an apparently fit grocery product that the person or gleaner donates in good faith to a non-profit organization for ultimate distribution to needy individuals 

OK! You’ve had the service. Everyone was sooo impressed with you! The party could not have been better—everyone had a ball. One thing is left to make this a real Mitzvah Bar or Bat Mitzvah. Are you going to share some of the many gifts you received with others who are less fortunate? There are many programs described on this website that you can choose from. Just go back to the link for the 2004 Annual Report and find one that interests you. Here are some suggestions (but don’t forget to check the others)

 

HAMA-IL and search for the "HAMA-IL" section (II E)
INTRA
www.intra.org.il
Shoes That Fit www.shoesthatfit.org
Books, Bears and Bonnets

 

And don't miss Danny Siegel's 116 Practical Mitzvah Suggestions!

 

 

The

 (occasionally)

Ranting Rabbi

 

 

 

Prayer Circles

    

One of the most powerful uses of the Internet has been the way massive amounts of concern can be generated for those in need of companionship, consolation or healing.  It is with that in mind that I circulate, with the family’s permission, this letter regarding Nancy Leferman, who has inspired all of us with her courage and now faces a new battle.

 

 

 

Dear friends and family:

Our mother's motto has always been..."it takes a village..."  We all know that this village is a strong one and with that we are writing this letter.

As you may recall, our mother first collected socks, and then toys for children in hospitals.  She was featured each time in an article that was printed in the Advocate.  Please find these articles attached to this email if you never had a chance to see them.

Our mom has felt a little burnt out with writing the email updates, and the collections.....but that has seemed to be integral in getting through.  As most of you know she has been going through the "cancer dance" for the 3rd time.

When she recurred for the 1st time about 1 1/2 years ago it was told to us that she had recurrent Ovarian Cancer and that she had some stubborn cancer cells that would not respond to chemo and therefore the cancer would always find a way to return.  Unfortunately, the cancer recurred earlier than anyone would have liked....only a year after she completed the last time.  Stress can be a major contributor and unfortunately she has been under a lot of stress....so here we are....again.

We expected her to "simply" go through the same protocol as last time.....6 infusions of Taxotere, one time every 3 weeks.  We all knew what to expect, although they warned her that each time you go through this it gets harder because your body has a way of remembering.  After 3 infusions her CA 125 (her tumor marker) indicated that the chemotherapy was not working.  Although this is expected....that your body builds up an immunity to a particular protocal, this was a blow.  She had gotten through half of the treatments, only to be back to where she had started from.  The doctors have assured us all that there are plenty of protocols to turn to and we just have to move on to the next.

As this was happening, she came down with Shingles and a ridiculous mouth infection (unrelated to one another but both caused in part to her immune system being compromised.)  And that is more or less where we are now....see where the needing the village comes in?

So with all of this crap....the fighter that she is....needs to pull up her boot straps.....finish dealing with the mouth and shingles and get ready to fight the cancer. 

She first needs to take care of the mouth problem.  This may require pulling one of her teeth.  She is tentatively scheduled for Tuesday...this may or may not throw off the rest of the schedule.

She then needs a port put in in order to reduce certain risks that come along with the new protocol.  She is scheduled to have the surgery for the port on Monday January 15th.  This is a day surgery and she will be ready to start the new chemotherapy on Wednesday January 17th.  This time she will be given the poison, I mean drug, Doxil and the infusion will happen 6 times on the schedule of 1 time per month.

Ok, so here is where we need you all.....Our mom has always had a collection of some sort to channel her energies and focus on something positive.  We feel that having not done this this time has been a mistake and we have decided to start a plan.  Although she has been lucky this time to have at least some of her hair, she has enjoyed wearing hats...mostly baseball hats.  And people with cancer often need hats to help them get through.  So we thought we would start a collection of hats.....some for our mom to wear and some to be donated to different organizations who can give them out to patients who need them. 

We have decided that the more positive energy sent our mother's way the better....so go out get a hat or two....."fill" it with energy and send it her way.....We would appreciate it.   A prayer or two wouldn't hurt either!

Thanks in advance, as always, for your support, prayers and hats!!!!

Love,
Lori and Phil
Randi and Craig
Marc and Susan

 

 

Minimum Wage and Maximum Justice

 

The new Congress took up the minimum wage as one of it’s first concerns.  On this weekend as we recall the legacy of Martin Luther King, and Judaism’s – and America’s - long tradition of caring for those who are weakest, the House this week voted to raise the minimum wage from $5.15 to $7.25.  A new Jewish Social Action umbrella organization has been created: the Jewish Funds For Justice - http://www.jewishjustice.org/

 

Here is the petition that rabbis and rabbinical students have been asked to sign (which I’ve signed as well): 

"You shall not abuse a needy and destitute laborer... but you must pay him his wages on the same day, for he is needy and urgently depends on it."
Deuteronomy 24:14

As rabbis and rabbinical students, guided by religious faith and Jewish ethics, we are deeply concerned about the working poor in this country. The current minimum wage of $5.15 fails to provide a fair opportunity for those who struggle to escape poverty as they labor in full time, low wage jobs. We urge you to pass a clean minimum wage bill that will help ensure dignity for working Americans.

The medieval Jewish scholar Maimonides taught that the highest level of tzedakah (righteousness) is reached when we help someone stand on their own two feet. As religious leaders, we open our hearts and our hands to the poor and ask: How can we create a society that promotes economic self-sufficiency, reflecting this teaching?

A decent minimum wage is a critical tool in the struggle for economic empowerment and against poverty. The minimum wage helps us to honor work by establishing an hourly wage floor beneath which employers cannot pay their workers. It has contributed to a reduction in the exploitation of workers. We empathize with those in our communities who fight everyday to make ends meet against the declining real value of today's minimum wage. It is a disgrace that the minimum wage is worth $3 less in today's dollars than in 1968 and hasn't been raised in almost ten years.

We applaud the stated commitment by the leadership of the 110th Congress to raise the federal minimum wage to $7.25 per hour. We urge you to follow through on this commitment by passing a minimum wage bill without delay and without amendment.

On this MLK weekend, take a moment between sunning, skiing, shopping and football watching to think of the Jewish stake in world repair, tikkun olam, by reading some of these articles linked to the Jewish Funds for Justice website at http://jewishjustice.org/jfsj.php?page=7.2:

Below are links to articles on Judaism and social justice written by JFSJ staff members, board members and friends.

Simon Greer (JFSJ President), Ruth Messinger, and Yossi Prager, “Chesed and Tzedek”  from Sh’ma October 2005

Jeremy Burton, JFSJ, “Philanthropic Responsibility and Obligation” from Sh’ma October 2001

Jeffrey Dekro and Lawrence Bush, JFSJ, “Spiritual Self-Interest” from Tikkun July/August 2001

Jeffrey Dekro, JFSJ, “Through Wealth to Justice”  Keynote address delivered at membership celebration of Jewish Community Action (Minnesota), 1999

Rabbi Jill Jacobs, “Toward a Halakhic Definition of Poverty,” Conservative Judaism Fall 2004

Rabbi Jill Jacobs, “The Living Wage:  a Jewish Approach,” Conservative Judaism Spring 2003

Rabbi Jill Jacobs, “How to Fight Poverty” from myjewishlearning.com

Rabbi Jill Jacobs, “Housing the Homeless” from myjewishlearning.com

Rabbi Jill Jacobs, “For this I went to Rabbinical School?” from Lilith, Winter 2004

Rabbi Jill Jacobs, “From Sukkah to Ma'akeh:  The Halachah of Housing” from Tikkun, September/October 2000

Rabbi Jill Jacobs reviews The Hebrew Prophets: Annotated and Explained by Rami Shapiro from Sh’ma October 2005

Rabbi Mordechai Liebling, JFSJ , “Making Synagogues Vessels of Tikkun Olam” from The Reconstructionist Volume 68, Number 1 (Fall 2003)

Rabbi Mordechai Liebling, “Tzedakah Collectives” from socialaction.com

Rabbi Mordechai Liebling, “Money in Synagogues” from Sh’ma March 2005

Rabbi Mordechai Liebling, “The First Jewish Shareholder Activist Group” from greenmoneyjournal.com

Daniel Sokatch, “Economic Justice” from Sh’ma October 2005