Shabbat-O-Gram

 

 

January 19, 2007– Shevat 1, 5767

 

Rabbi Joshua Hammerman, Temple Beth El, Stamford, Connecticut

 

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FULL Synaplex Schedule and Temple Rock Café information below and at our website!

 

The fun begins Friday night:

SHABBAT UNPLUGGED IS BACK!!!

With Cantor Littman

And Scholar in Residence Benjamin Gampel

Dancing! Singing! Meditation! Celebration!

For all ages, the Spirit of Shabbat

Friday, Jan. 19 @7:30

 

For the full Synaplex Schedule,

click here.

 

With so many events taking place here on a Synaplex Shabbat, it is hard to pick which ones to feature. 

 

Of course we all know how amazing Shabbat Unplugged can be, or how spiritually moving many have found Rabbinic Pastor Dan Kilpper's meditative service.  We'll be able to sample some other special guests this weekend - we'll be able to study the portion of the week with Rabbi Eric Hoffman and hear about Maimonides' Highest Level of Tzedakkah (finding employment) with Donna Sweidan or sharing Elise Klein's sensitive advice on issues related to interfaith families.

 

So many of our topics are about relationships - how we all can get along.  The learner's service I'll be leading, entitled "The Power of the Word," will focus on how our prayers can teach us ways to communicate better with one another - and with God.

 

Mara and Elissa Stein's session was a real hit last time around, and this time they'll be focusing on family systems and how Jewish traditions, rituals and values can strengthen family relationships.

 

As I mentioned in prior e-mails, Arthur White's breakfast session will focus on ways to improve life for seniors, and the "No Hate But Harmony" session for teens (7th grade and up) is generating tremendous buzz.  It's all about relationships.

 

Of course we've also got a traditional service that will be led by David Hirshfield and other congregants, Havdalah Under the Stars at the Nature Center (and, with the forecast for clear and crisp, it's filling up - PLEASE RSVP to cshapiro@optonline.net). Observatory Entrance and parking is ¼ mile up the street from the Nature Center on Scofieldtown Road.

 

Oh yes, there is also, of course, the scholar in residence, Benjamin Gampel, who happens to be a marvelous and entertaining speaker, who will demonstrate how relevant medieval Jewish history can be for our times.

 

For TBE’s Full Synaplex Schedule for the weekend, including lecture topics and times for sessions, go to

http://www.tbe.org/site/docs/temp/2007_Jan_Synaplex.pdf

 

All Shabbat events are free and open to the public – casual dress is encouraged

 

A special thank You to Our Sponsors: Penny & Michael Horowitz for the Scholar-in-Residence presentations, in memory of Bessie Silver & Millie Reiss, Our Anonymous Donor Family for Shabbat Unplugged and Sisterhood for “Havdalah Under the Stars.”

 

Contents of the Shabbat O Gram:

(Click to scroll down)

 

 

Just the Facts (service schedule)  

The Beth El Bar/Bat Mitzvah Commentary (new)

The (Occasionally) Ranting Rabbi

Mitzvah/Tzedakkah Opportunities

Ask the Rabbi

Spiritual Journey on the Web   

Required Reading and Action Items (links to key articles on Israel and Jewish life)

 Announcements (goings on in and around TBE)

TBE Youth Programming

Joke for the Week

 

 

 

 

Quote for the Week

 


"Remember that there is a meaning beyond absurdity. Be sure that every little deed counts, that every word has power. Never forget that you can still do your share to redeem the world in spite of all absurdities and frustrations and disappointments."

 

 -Abraham Joshua Heschel                                        



 

JUST THE FACTS

 

Friday Evening 

 

Candle lighting: 4:38 pm on Friday, 19 January 2006.  For candle lighting times, Havdalah times, other Jewish calendar information, and to download a Jewish calendar to your PDA, click on http://www.hebcal.com/.  To see the festivals of other faiths as well, go to http://www.interfaithcalendar.org/.  The United Synagogue has updated its candlelighting information. To learn more, click here.

 

Tot Shabbat: 6:45 and 7:30 PM

 

Shabbat Evening service: 7:30 PM (note later time)

SHABBAT UNPLUGGED

 

Shabbat Morning: See Synaplex Schedule

 

 

Our Torah Reading for Shabbat Morning

Parashat Va-era

Exodus 6:2 - 9:35– the Ten Plagues (well, seven of them)

1: 8:16-23
2:
8:24-28
3:
9:1-7
4:
9:8-16
5:
9:17-21
6:
9:22-26
7:
9:27-35

Shabbat Rosh Chodesh
maf:
Numbers 28:9-15 (7 p'sukim)

Haftarah: Shabbat Rosh Chodesh / Isaiah 66:1 - 66:24

If you liked Storahtelling, you’ll LOVE Storahtelling’s new weekly blog about the Torah portion Find it at http://storahtelling.blogspot.com/.  ORT Navigating the Bible; Rashi in English; BibleGateway: Useful for comparing different translations: Note- this is a Christian site.
What’s Bothering Rashi (Bonchek) Each week, one example from the parashah is deconstructed. See a weekly commentary from the UJC Rabbinic Cabinet, at www.ujc.org/mekorchaim.  Read the Masorti commentary at http://www.masorti.org/mason/torah/index.asp.  University of Judaism,  JTS commentary is at:
http://www.jtsa.edu/community/parashah/. USCJ Torah Sparks can be found at: http://www.uscj.org/Torah_Sparks5689.html UAHC Shabbat Table Talk discussions are at http://urj.org/torah/index.cfm Other divrei Torah via the Torahnet home page: http://uahcweb.org/torahnet/. Test your Parasha I.Q.: http://www.ou.org/jewishiq/parsha/default.htm. CLAL’s Torah commentary archive: http://click.topica.com/maaaiRtaaRvQhbV2AtLb/.  World Zionist Organization Education page, including Nehama Liebowitz archives of parsha commentaries: http://www.moreshet.net/web/index.asp?f=1 For a more Kabbalistic/Zionist/Orthodox perspective from Rav Kook, first Chief Rabbi of Israel, go to http://www.geocities.com/m_yericho/ravkook/index.html. For some probing questions and meditations on key verses of the portion, with a liberal kabbalistic bent, go to http://www.jewishealing.com/learning.html or, for Kabbalistic commentaries from the Zohar itself, go to http://www.kabbalah.com/k/index.php/p=zohar/weekly/intro.  Also, try  http://home.utah.edu/~rfs4/jkmfc.htm.  To see the weekly commentary from Hillel, geared to college students and others, go to  http://www.hillel.org/hillel/NewHille.nsf/FCB8259CA861AE57852567D30043BA26/DF7D129F15B3DF0885256AB80058E9C3?OpenDocument. For a Jewish Renewal and feminist approach go to http://rabbishefagold.hypermart.net/Torah1.html .  For a comprehensive Orthodox viewpoint from the Israeli rabbi, Yaakov Fogelman, go to the Torah Outreach Program at http://israelvisit.co.il/top/previous.shtml.  Guided meditations for each portion by Judith Abrams at http://www.maqom.com/kavannah.pdf For online Parsha quizzes from Pardes in Israel, go to  http://www.pardes.org.il/online_learning/parsha_quizzes/ Torah for Kids: http://www.torah4kids.net/  Weekly Lesson of Popular Israeli Rabbi Mordechai Elon: http://www.elon.org/archives/archives.htm - and his parsha sheets: http://www.mibereshit.org/special/download_eng_pdf.htm   From Bar Ilan University: http://www.biu.ac.il/JH/Parasha/eng/; http://www.torahproductions.com/weekly_article.jsp

 

THE ENTIRE HEBREW BIBLE (AS WELL AS OTHER JEWISH SOURCES) CAN BE FOUND WITH SIDE-BY-SIDE TRANSLATION AT http://www.mechon-mamre.org/

100 Blessings: Download information about the grace after meals (see Birkat Ha-mazon explained in Wikipedia and in the Jewish Virtual Library)  The actual prayer can be downloaded at Birkat Hamazon [pdf]

 

Morning Minyan

7:30 Weekdays, 9:30 Sundays

We’ve had a Guaranteed Minyan request for a yahrzeit on Monday, January 22.  If you can make it, please take a moment to sign up at the Rosner Minyan Maker at www.tbe.org.

 

TO ENSURE A “GUARANTEED MINYAN” FOR THE DAY OF YOUR YAHRZEIT – GO TO THE ROSNER MINYAN MAKER AT WWW.TBE.ORG AND ALSO CONTACT ME AT RABBI@TBE.ORG.

 

We’ve had several people coming lately who are saying kaddish following recent deaths in the family.  We want to make sure we have a minyan each day. Your presence any morning is greatly appreciated!

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The Beth El Bar/Bat Mitzvah Commentary

 

During this lull in our Bar/Bat Mitzvah schedule, we have a chance to reflect on the deeper meaning of the event.  Here is an account, from the Jewish Virtual Library, of the first Bat Mitzvah EVER… how far we’ve come in so short a time: http://www.jewishvirtuallibrary.org/jsource/Judaism/firstbat.html

The First American Bat Mitzvah

(March 18, 1922)


On Saturday morning, March 18, 1922, twelve-year old Judith Kaplan, the daughter of Rabbi Mordecai M. Kaplan, stepped to the bimah of her father’s synagogue, the Society for the Advancement of Judaism. She recited the preliminary blessing, read a portion of the Torah sidra in Hebrew and English and then intoned the closing blessing. "That was enough to shock a lot of people," she later recalled, "including my own grandparents and aunts and uncles."

The shocking event they had just witnessed, according to historian Paula Hyman, was the first bat mitzvah conducted in the United States. Reflecting on her historic moment, Kaplan observed, "No thunder sounded. No lightning struck." Rather, Judith Kaplan and her father, founder of Reconstructionist Judaism, set the model for what has now become a widespread American Jewish practice.

As Hyman notes, "The bat mitzvah ritual was introduced into American Judaism as both an ethical and pragmatic response to gender divisions in traditional Judaism." In Jewish law, a girl reaches majority at age 12, but until the invention of bat mitzvah there was no ritual ceremony to mark this passage. Mordecai Kaplan intended bat mitzvah to give females equal standing with males and stimulate Jewish education for women so they would be better able to transmit Jewish knowledge to their children.

While it started with Reconstructionism, Hyman attributes the further evolution of bat mitzvah to the American Conservative movement. In the mid-19th century, American Reform began moving away from traditional ceremonies such as male bar mitzvah. Instead, Reform congregations introduced group confirmation ceremonies when the boys and girls in their religious schools completed their education, around age 15. Confirmation, then, was more of a graduation ceremony than a bar mitzvah. Traditional Orthodoxy did not allow women to read the Torah. Thus, if girls of 12 or 13 were to have a coming-of-age ceremony equivalent to bar mitzvah for boys, it fell to the Conservative Movement to define what that ceremony should be.

Change came gradually. As late as the 1930’s, despite Judith Kaplan’s pathbreaking example, only a handful of Conservative synagogues had adopted bat mitzvah. By 1948, however, one-third of Conservative congregations conducted them and, by the 1960s, the ceremony became the norm within Conservatism.

The earliest American bat mitzvot were, ritually, not quite the same as bar mitzvot. They were usually held on Friday nights, when the Torah is not read or, if held on Saturday morning like Judith Kaplan’s, the bat mitzvah girl would read from a printed humash, or book containing the Bible, rather than from the Torah scroll itself.

The first recorded bat mitzvah at a Reform congregation occurred in 1931 but, as with the Conservative movement, the ritual did not catch on right away. By the 1950’s, only one third of Reform congregations conducted them. Since the 1960s, as Reform has placed increasing emphasis on traditional rituals, bat mitzvah has grown to near universality in that movement’s congregations. A number of modern Orthodox congregations have now adopted some form of bat mitzvah as well. Bat mitzvah, an innovation in 1922, is now an American Jewish institution.

The introduction of bat mitzvah, which was originally meant only to mark the passage from Jewish girlhood to Jewish womanhood, raised a series of issues. As Paula Hyman puts it, "How could a girl be called to Torah as a bat mitzvah and then never have such an honor again?" Both Reform and Conservativism grappled with this problem and, by the 1970’s, a majority of congregations in both movements called women to the Torah.

If no thunder sounded when 12-year old Judith Kaplan read at the bimah of the Society for the Advancement of Judaism, Kaplan herself went on to make a joyful noise of her own. A brilliant child who learned to read English at age 2 and Hebrew at age 3, she studied at what is now the Juilliard School of Music from ages 7 to 18. She received her B.A. (1928) and M.A. (1932) in music education from Columbia University Teachers College. In 1934, Kaplan married Ira Eisenstein, then assistant rabbi in her father’s synagogue.

As Judith Eisenstein, she began a distinguished career as a teacher of musical pedagogy and the history of Jewish music at the Jewish Theological Seminary of America’s Teachers Institute. In 1959, at age 50, Eisenstein entered the School of Sacred Music of Hebrew Union College, obtained her Ph.D. and remained as a member of the faculty until 1979. By the time of her death in 1996, she had composed a significant body of original liturgical music, created and broadcast a thirteen-hour radio series on the history of Jewish music and authored a number of books, including the first American Jewish songbook for children (1937).

Of course, her monumental "first" remains her own bat mitzvah.

From: American Jewish Historical Society

 

 

 

The

 (occasionally)

Ranting Rabbi

 

 

 

How Can Conservative Judaism Thrive Again?

 

That’s the question incoming JTS Chancellor Arnold Eisen is going around the country asking these days.  In that spirit, and in light of the recent law committee decisions, the movement sent out a detailed survey recently to rabbis and other assorted leaders.  Read about it, and bloggers’ reactions, at:

JTS Poll Out (Jewish Week)

The survey itself can be found here.

 

Meanwhile, I’ve put together some of my own suggestions for the movement:

 

Some Suggestions for Revitalizing the Conservative Movement

By Joshua Hammerman

 

·        Be “The Movement that Looks Like America

o       Most Americans agonize over complex issues like abortion, capital punishment and sexual orientation. Their religion should, too.  Americans are craving an authentic spiritual alternative to the so-called “moral clarity” of fundamentalism, a few questions to go with all the pat answers.  This muddle in the middle is an uncomfortable place to reside, but it is equally a dynamic one.  So while other movements offer easy responses (which for Reform often is “Why not?” and for Orthodoxy, “No way!”), Conservatives look for the kind of dialectic that has been central to rabbinic Judaism since Talmudic times.

 

·        Embrace Theological Humility and Intellectual Honesty

o       Be the true inheritors of the title” Yisra-El” (those who struggle with God) – questioning truths rather than owning them; embracing science, validating doubt.  There is no such thing as a knee-jerk Conservative response to anything, and that is how it should be, because what people yearn for is a religion based on the humble assumption that no human entity possesses the entirety of Truth.  The strength of Conservative Judaism lies in the creative tension that is at the core of its ideology.  Like most of us, Conservative Judaism lives in a real world of tough questions. It thrives on the unresolved conflicts that force us to confront imperfection: Judaism’s, society’s and our own.
 

·        Advocate “Passionate Centrism” – not Muddy Compromise

o       Being a passionate religious centrist means never being afraid to say “tayku,” while affirming that even diametrically opposing positions can be the words of the living God.

o       Don’t apologize for not being God. That’s a strength, not a weakness.

 

·        Revelation is Here and Now

o       “The classical Jewish view teaches “the decline of the generations” — since Sinai we have grown further from revelation and stand, as a result, on a lower level of holiness. This is not a true covenantal understanding. The covenant does not fade or weaken with time. Our future is as promising as our past is powerful. For the Covenantal Jew, dialogue between the Jewish people and God began in the Bible and continues today.” (Rabbi David Wolpe)

o       Our own self image has impact on our self image as a movement – we’re the movement that is always slouching, the “ever dying people.”  It’s time to straighten up and stop slouching.

 

·        “Apocalypse Later” 

o       If you are planting a tree and the Messiah comes to the gates of the city, finish planting the tree, then go out to greet her.” (Talmud)

o       It makes sense to finish planting the tree, for two reasons.  1) If the Messiah turns out to be Al Gore, you’ll get some real brownie points.  And 2), because in rabbinic Judaism, the Messiah’s actual coming is beside the point.  For the rabbis, the key to waiting for the Messiah was the waiting itself.  They understood how dangerous it is when messianism gets out of hand – that’s why they call it messianism: because things get so messy -- and the Judaism that they created was expressly designed to prevent that from happening.  The early rabbis following the destruction of the second temple had seen the dangers of messianism run amok at least twice in their lifetimes, with the rise of early Christianity and with the Bar Kochba rebellion of the year 132.  But the rabbis didn’t dare eliminate the messianic strain entirely from Jewish tradition.  The belief in some sort of end of days, the ultimate goal of a perfect world, a Nirvana -- is essential to all spiritual quests.  So while we dare not eliminate speculation about the Messiah, nonetheless, authentic rabbinic Judaism falls squarely on the side of Apocalypse Later.

 

·        “They Like Us…They Really Like Us!”  We Need To Capitalize on Judaism’s Popularity

o       …the Wall Street Journal ran a front-page article titled “You Don’t Have to Be Jewish to Want a Bar Mitzvah,” detailing the growing trend of non-Jewish children begging their parents for big bar/bat mitzvah bashes of their own.
When non-Jews can so casually assimilate what has long been the decisive generator of Jewish identity, it makes us wonder what sort of monster we’ve created.  A successful monster, that’s what.  Think about it: Mainstream America is now so completely comfortable with Judaism that it can dabble in overtly Jewish symbols without denying their Jewishness. These kids aren’t clamoring for mere “parties” but for bar mitzvahs. Without batting an eye, they are choosing to live within the framework of Jewish idiom.  All we have to do is add content and stir. Certain Jewish values are already built into even the most secularized and over-the-top bar mitzvah: the love of family, for instance.  But the hard work has already been done. From a marketing perspective, bar mitzvah is becoming the Coca-Cola of American adolescent initiation rites.  The most amazing thing is happening: Non-Jews are teaching Jews how to be Jewish.”  (Joshua Hammerman, “Bar Mitzvah Nation,” the Jewish Week, 5/7/04)

 

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