Shabbat-O-Gram

 

 

February 9, 2007– Shevat 22, 5767

 

Rabbi Joshua Hammerman, Temple Beth El, Stamford, Connecticut

 

This Week!                   

                                      

                

 

 

Featuring

Sisterhood Shabbat

Havdalah Unplugged

We welcome Scholar in Residence Rabbi Burton Visotzky

 

Download the complete schedule at

http://www.tbe.org/site/sog/SynaplexscheduleFeb2007.htm

 

A special thank you to all those who have made this weekend possible!

 

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Contents of the Shabbat O Gram:

(Click to scroll down)

 

Just the Facts (service schedule)  

The (Occasionally) Ranting Rabbi

Mitzvah/Tzedakkah Opportunities

Ask the Rabbi Spiritual Journey on the Web   

Required Reading and Action Items (links to key articles on Israel and Jewish life) 

 Announcements (goings on in and around TBE)

TBE Youth Programming

Joke for the Week

 

Five Beth El-Bi Cultural 8th Graders preparing to leave for Israel last Tuesday.

See photos of the first few days of their trip at

http://www.bcds.org/Israel/Israel.htm

 

 

Check out www.tbe.org for our extensive library of photo albums,

articles, sermons, info about the temple,

Shabbat-O-Grams and links to the Jewish world.

 

Here are some photos of 7th graders (and the cantor) wrapping at last weekend’s World Wide Wrap.  Check our website for more, going up soon…

Thanks to Dan Young for taking the pics.

 

 

 

Yashar Koach to our 5th grade,

who collected enough money to donate

400 trees

to JNF

to rebuilt the damaged forests of northern Israel

 

Quote for the Week

 

 

This week’s quote is inspired by Roni Lang’s Synaplex presentation this weekend, on “Dealing with Difficult People.”

 

“If civilization is to survive, we must cultivate the science of human relationships--the ability of all people, of all kinds, to live together, in the same world at peace.”

Franklin D. Roosevelt

 

 

                            

JUST THE FACTS

 

Click HERE for the full Synaplex schedule

for Friday and Shabbat

 

Candle lighting: 5:03 pm on Friday, 9 February 2007.  For candle lighting times, Havdalah times, other Jewish calendar information, and to download a Jewish calendar to your PDA, click on http://www.hebcal.com/.  To see the festivals of other faiths as well, go to http://www.interfaithcalendar.org/.  The United Synagogue has updated its candlelighting information. To learn more, click here.

 

Our Torah Portion for Shabbat Morning

Parashat Yitro

 Exodus 18:1 - 20:23 – The Ten Commandments

1: 18:1-12 (12 p'sukim)
2:
18:13-23 (11 p'sukim)
3:
18:24-27 (4 p'sukim)
4:
19:1-6 (6 p'sukim)
5:
19:7-19 (13 p'sukim)
6:
19:20-20:14 (20 p'sukim)
7:
20:15-23 (9 p'sukim)
maf:
20:19-23 (5 p'sukim)

Haftarah: Isaiah 6:1 - 7:6; 9:5 - 9:6

Haftarah for Sephardim: Isaiah 6:1 - 6:13

 

If you liked Storahtelling, you’ll LOVE Storahtelling’s new weekly blog about the Torah portion Find it at http://storahtelling.blogspot.com/.  ORT Navigating the Bible; Rashi in English; BibleGateway: Useful for comparing different translations: Note- this is a Christian site.
What’s Bothering Rashi (Bonchek) Each week, one example from the parashah is deconstructed. See a weekly commentary from the UJC Rabbinic Cabinet, at www.ujc.org/mekorchaim.  Read the Masorti commentary at http://www.masorti.org/mason/torah/index.asp.  University of Judaism,  JTS commentary is at:
http://www.jtsa.edu/community/parashah/. USCJ Torah Sparks can be found at: http://www.uscj.org/Torah_Sparks5689.html UAHC Shabbat Table Talk discussions are at http://urj.org/torah/index.cfm Other divrei Torah via the Torahnet home page: http://uahcweb.org/torahnet/. Test your Parasha I.Q.: http://www.ou.org/jewishiq/parsha/default.htm. CLAL’s Torah commentary archive: http://click.topica.com/maaaiRtaaRvQhbV2AtLb/.  World Zionist Organization Education page, including Nehama Liebowitz archives of parsha commentaries: http://www.moreshet.net/web/index.asp?f=1 For a more Kabbalistic/Zionist/Orthodox perspective from Rav Kook, first Chief Rabbi of Israel, go to http://www.geocities.com/m_yericho/ravkook/index.html. For some probing questions and meditations on key verses of the portion, with a liberal kabbalistic bent, go to http://www.jewishealing.com/learning.html or, for Kabbalistic commentaries from the Zohar itself, go to http://www.kabbalah.com/k/index.php/p=zohar/weekly/intro.  Also, try  http://home.utah.edu/~rfs4/jkmfc.htm.  To see the weekly commentary from Hillel, geared to college students and others, go to  http://www.hillel.org/hillel/NewHille.nsf/FCB8259CA861AE57852567D30043BA26/DF7D129F15B3DF0885256AB80058E9C3?OpenDocument. For a Jewish Renewal and feminist approach go to http://rabbishefagold.hypermart.net/Torah1.html .  For a comprehensive Orthodox viewpoint from the Israeli rabbi, Yaakov Fogelman, go to the Torah Outreach Program at http://israelvisit.co.il/top/previous.shtml.  Guided meditations for each portion by Judith Abrams at http://www.maqom.com/kavannah.pdf For online Parsha quizzes from Pardes in Israel, go to  http://www.pardes.org.il/online_learning/parsha_quizzes/ Torah for Kids: http://www.torah4kids.net/  Weekly Lesson of Popular Israeli Rabbi Mordechai Elon: http://www.elon.org/archives/archives.htm - and his parsha sheets: http://www.mibereshit.org/special/download_eng_pdf.htm   From Bar Ilan University: http://www.biu.ac.il/JH/Parasha/eng/; http://www.torahproductions.com/weekly_article.jsp

 

THE ENTIRE HEBREW BIBLE (AS WELL AS OTHER JEWISH SOURCES) CAN BE FOUND WITH SIDE-BY-SIDE TRANSLATION AT http://www.mechon-mamre.org/

100 Blessings: Download information about the grace after meals (see Birkat Ha-mazon explained in Wikipedia and in the Jewish Virtual Library)  The actual prayer can be downloaded at Birkat Hamazon [pdf]

Morning Minyan

7:30 Weekdays, 9:30 Sundays

TO ENSURE A “GUARANTEED MINYAN” FOR THE DAY OF YOUR YAHRZEIT – GO TO THE ROSNER MINYAN MAKER AT WWW.TBE.ORG AND ALSO CONTACT ME AT RABBI@TBE.ORG.

 

A Guaranteed Minyan request has been made for this Sunday, Feb. 11. Please click on the date in the Rosner Minyan Maker at our website, www.tbe.org. if you can make it.  Thanks

We’ve had several people coming lately who are saying kaddish following recent deaths in the family.  We want to make sure we have a minyan each day. Your presence any morning is greatly appreciated!

 

 

Winter Weather Advisory

Note that in the case of bad weather, weekday minyan does not take place when Stamford public schools are cancelled OR delayed.  On Sunday, minyan is cancelled if our Religious School sessions are cancelled. Friday evening and Shabbat morning’s main service is never officially cancelled, but use your best judgment in deciding whether to come.  We will endeavor to get proper notification to WSTC radio regarding cancellations, but that may not always be possible for children’s services held on Shabbat.

 

The

 (occasionally)

Ranting Rabbi

 

 

The View from Netanya – From Jan Gaines

Jan, a long time TBE member, lives for half of the year in Netanya, Israel.  She often reports to us on the goings on over there.  Here is her latest letter:

 

Dear Friends,

 

I'm looking at the brown waters of the sea, and the gray skies. We have had 4 days of strong storms, bringing good rain but reflecting the not very peaceful situation here.  I'm waiting for blue skies to return. Sun somehow makes things more hopeful.

 

 The country is in a mess.  The cultural system of protexia and macho male predators has finally caught up with a new reality in Israel and we are in a transition period which is very bumpy.  Our internal strife didn't come at a very good time, but then there rarely is a "good time" these days.

 

You read the news so you know that from the President on down to civil servants in the Tax Authority, there are indictments pending or coming all over the place. At times I feel the police are overly aggressive, not to mention our killer press, but then the Israeli way is not to be quiet.  If we had good leadership at the top I think people would feel more confident but as it is, there is almost zero confidence in either the Knesset or the PM and cabinet.  It seems to go from bad to worse. Most of us are just waiting for the next, or "other shoe to fall". However, Olmert is an expert at the game of politics and is protecting himself at all costs so many people feel we are stuck with him for awhile unless the police can find something with his real estate house deal that is enough to bring an indictment. I doubt it.

 

And since the Arabs/Palestinians see our internal strife, it emboldens them to call for more "resistance".  The Arab Knesset representatives don't hesitate to meet with Syrians or Hizbollah or anyone else they chose and roundly condemn Israel for something or other. They have immunity and they know they will never be charged with treason, which they would be in any other country. The latest call for an Intifada is over the excavation and re-construction of the pedestrian bridge leading to the Temple Mount. The old one was crumbling and unsafe. Those of you who ever visited the Kotel will remember it was almost an earthenware bridge. Anyway, the Waqf is now calling for an Intifada over that. Anything to divert attention from the truly sad situation of the Palestinians who can never seem to take positive steps for their future. 

 

I fear Hamas will win out over Fatah because they are unbending, and we continue to prop up Abbas who is just a nicer looking but weaker Arafat. I keep hoping that Muhammed Dahlan will at some point take control, rather than operate behind the scenes, but he probably wouldn't last a day in the job before being bumped off.  So the West continues to put good money after bad, hoping to stabilize the situation.  But it won't work.

 

So how about the country of Israel APART from politics?  Good news in alot of places.  The economy is chugging along beautifully, fueled by both foreign investment and Israeli tech brain power. Quoting the J Post, the economy will expand "almost 5% this year and the budget deficit  less than forecast" according to Fisher at the Bank of Israel.  Other statistics: tax receipts broke records, there was a surplus of  NIS 17 billion in January;;unemployment is still going down and a new anti-poverty program has just been put in place, and average household income has also risen. There is still poverty and still unemployment among the most vulnerable households.  But at least the govt. has tried to tackle that by trying out the "Wisconsin plan" in different cities with different sub-contractors. The results aren't in yet.

 

Yes, our weakest populations are single family mothers, the elderly and of course the Ethiopians.  However, the private sector is still very active in trying to help, and with the new emphasis by the UJF nationwide,  I think it will make a difference.  I see it in small ways right here in Netanya.  A good friend who runs 3 sewing centers for Ethiopian men, giving them meaningful daily employment, has run on a shoestring for 3 years but now tells me she has funding from New York City UJF and what a big help that is.  My own projects with Forgotten People's Fund, both the vitamins and the expanding Nutrition classes, are doing better financially (thanks to any of you who have helped through the Stamford Endowment)  so that I don't worry from month to month if we have enough to keep the program going for another cycle. I see the new police cars that replaced the broken down vans I used to ride in 5 years ago with the civil patrol and I'm not sure where that money came from but I think it was in response to the 2nd intifada. Yes, it takes time for the money to get here and be put to use, but it's very gratifying to see tangible evidence of its success.

 

However, we're still making sandwiches for school kids, we're still getting calls for help from our ever growing Ethiopian population here in Netanya (over 12,000 which is maybe the largest for any one city in Israel), the nutrition classes are still in demand and now seniors are asking for help as well, and most of all, the need for extra help for Ethiopian school children is very tangible.  I've started working with 12 year old girls once a week at one of the schools (religious) which is predominantly Ethiopian.  Trying to help them with English. Tthey can't read or even recognize basic words, which Sabra kids at their age have already mastered. It's true that this is only ESL, but it is required in the curriculum and if these kids are ever going to get ahead, they must have the basics. It breaks my heart and leaves me frustrated.  I have 3 lovely, loving girls who really want to learn and I'm busy repeating names of colors, numbers, family members and a few common adverbs like "who" and "when" and "why".  And I'm certainly not much of a teacher or have any training in this.  Our group is composed of some women from Herzliyah Pituach, among them the Canadian ambassador's wife who is a real "Jewish doer", and a group from here in Netanya. But once a week for 90 minutes isn't going to do the trick, and the English teacher (who is Russian like so many of them) has her hands full coping with a big class of rambunctious kids. I could go on about the Education system here but that's another story and a very big problem nationwide.

 

I don't want to give you a skewed picture focusing only on problems.  What I see with most Israeli families is still a growing standard of living, a committment to living every day in full and especially enjoying more leisure time on weekends, and a resolve to just shut these problems out, don't talk about them especially on a national level because there's nothing they can do,  and focusing inward on family and friends.  The good old Israeli "help when needed" standards are still much in evidence.  They may argue, disagree violently, come almost to blows, but in a crisis, THEY ARE THERE FOR EACH OTHER.  That is what I see all the time and what keeps me optimistic about this country.  In spite of the disastrous war this summer, what we saw was Israelis closing ranks and pulling together. That exists on an individual, as well as a collective level.  If I'm sick, I will have 3 different people calling to ask if they can shop for me (or bring me chicken soup). That's such a comfort and such an inspiration.

 

The sun is trying to come out now, altho the sea is still muddy from the winds blowing up the sand.  The Kinneret is rising so no one complains about the rain. And I am going to my Ethiopian girls this afternoon, ready for hugs and a few more adjectives- - -maybe we'll make up a little song.

 

LaBriut.  Jan

 

 

 

 

 

Mitzvah/Tzedakkah Opportunties

 

 

Beth El Cares
 
Cathy Satz (968-9191; csscounsel@yahoo.com)
Cheryl Wolff (968-6361; cwolff@optonline.net)
BETH EL CARES co-chairs
 

Pre-Passover Hametz Food Collection


As you clean your cupboards in preparation for Passover, please consider donating unopened boxes, bags and cans of hametz to a local food pantry.  For your convenience, you can deposit those items in a box outside the Helen Golin Gift Shop, from March 22nd to 28th.  We will then deliver the food to a local food pantry.  Check your e-mail for more information.

 
Kosher Meals of Wheels
 
From Matt Greenberg of the JFS
 
Jewish Family Service and Congregation Agudath Sholom, in response to several requests from congregants, 
are exploring the viability of creating a Kosher Meals on Wheels program, 
similar to those found in cities across the country. The purpose would be two-fold. 
1) To provide nutritious meals to people who would otherwise not have them, 
or have trouble finding them and 
2) Provide a weekly visit to those who otherwise would be isolated. 
This could be for the elderly who have difficulty getting out, 
those in need of temporary assistance, or those with maladies that prevent their mobility. 
 
The only way such a program would be viable would be if there were enough people signed up 
to make it worthwhile to a caterer to prepare the meals. 
Agudath Sholom currently has five individuals interested. 
I am wondering if you could find a way to poll your congregants either by email,
 weekly bulletin or Shabbat announcements to determine if there are enough people to make this a reality.
 
Please let me know if you are interested in this – rabbi@tbe.org
 
 
Mitzvah Project – Dog-related Items
 

LINDY FRUITHANDLER WILL BECOME BAT MITZVAH ON MARCH 17.  PLEASE READ THIS NOTE FROM HER REGARDING HER MITZVAH PROJECT:

 

For my mitzvah project I am helping Adopt-A-Dog, a volunteer organization in Greenwich, CT, which helps find good, safe homes for homeless animals.  They have found homes for many Katrina dogs that lost their families in the hurricane.  To help them, I am donating money I have raised, and collecting dog-related items such as toys, collars, bones, and leashes; and cat-related items such as toys, collars, and catnip.  Any crates that your dog or cat no longer use would be greatly appreciated by Adopt-A-Dog   You do not have to be  dog or cat owner to help - Adopt-A-Dog also needs new or used blankets, pillows, soft table cloths, and really anything else that the animals can sleep on.  I can collect some of these items myself, but I need your help to collect enough needed items to make a big difference.

 

I will have a collection box out in the Hebrew School entrance at the temple for any donations. For any items that are too big for the box, please contact me and we will come pick them up at your home.  

 

You can also help Adopt-A-Dog by saving "Weight Circles" from Purina Brand Dog Food.  Adopt-A-Dog receives 8 cents for every pound of weight circles sent in to Purina.  Adopt-A-Dog buys 1,000 pounds of dog food every month!  Each label that you clip and donate from a 20 lb. bag gives them $1.60 towards their food bill.  A 50 lb. bag label means $4.00 in meals for their pooches.  Trust me, it adds up!  Please clip the labels off the side of each bag you buy and place them in the envelope attached to the collection box. 

 

On behalf of all the homeless dogs and cats at Adopt-A-Dog, thanks so much for your help! 

 

Lindy Fruithandler

lindysbatmitzvah@yahoo.com

322-4712

 

To check out Adopt-A-Dog for yourself, please visit their website at www.adoptadog.org.