Shabbat-O-Gram

 

November 9, 2007- Heshvan 28, 5768

KRISTALLNACHT OBSERVANCE

Rabbi Joshua Hammerman, Temple Beth El, Stamford, Connecticut

 

 

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MAZAL TOV TO THIS SHABBAT’S B’NOT MITZVAH, SARAH EHRLCH, DAUGHTER OF FRANCINE AND STEPHEN EHRLICH AND ELANA LEICHTER, DAUGHTER OF BELL-ANN ABRAMS AND JERROLD LEICHTER!

 

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This Shabbat Morning – Our Sanctuary becomes the UN!

No, not that we’ll all yell and scream at each other, as they do at the UN…

We’ll be reenacting the UN Partition Vote of 60 Years Ago…

THE DAY OUR DREAM OF A JEWISH STATE

BEGAN TO COME TO FRUITION…

See below, “Spiritual Journeys on the Web” for more.

 

Contents of the Shabbat O Gram:

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Just the Facts (service schedule)  

The (Occasionally) Ranting Rabbi

Mitzvah/Tzedakkah Opportunities

Ask the Rabbi

 Spiritual Journey on the Web

    The Beth El Bar/Bat Mitzvah Commentary

Required Reading and Action Items (links to key articles on Israel and Jewish life) 

Joke for the Week

 

After last week’s amazing Shabbat, what can we do for an encore????

SYNAPLEX RETURNS Nov. 30 – Dec. 1!!!!

 

For a sneak preview, click on

http://www.tbe.org/site/docs/temp/2007_Dec_Synaplex_Announcement.pdf

 

 

Quote for the Week

(In Honor of Veterans Day)

 

“We often take for granted the very things that most deserve our gratitude.” 

~Cynthia Ozick

 

 

JUST THE FACTS

 

Shabbat Services this evening are at the special time of 7:30. 

The 6th grade will be helping to lead it – and their class dinner takes place at 6:30 PM

 

 

Candle lighting: 4:24 pm on Friday, 9 November 2007.  For Havdalah times, other Jewish calendar information, and to download a Jewish calendar to your PDA, click on http://www.hebcal.com/.  To see the festivals of other faiths as well, go to http://www.interfaithcalendar.org/.  The United Synagogue has updated its candlelighting information. To learn more, click here.

 

THE FULL SERVICE SCHEDULE NOW APPEARS ON THE SEPARATE TBE ANNOUNCEMENTS E-MAIL

Shabbat Services: 7:30 Friday night (NOTE SPECIAL TIME THIS WEEK), 9:30 Shabbat morning, 10:30 children’s services

Morning Minyan:  7:30 Weekdays (including this Monday, Veterans Day), 9:30 Sundays

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Torah Reading For Shabbat Morning

Parashat Toldot
Genesis 25:19 - 28:9

1: 25:19-22
2: 25:23-26
3: 25:27-34
4: 26:1-5
5: 26:6-12
6: 26:13-16
7: 26:17-22
maf: 26:19-22

Haftarah: (Shabbat Machar Chodesh / I Samuel 20:18 - 20:42)

 

 

The

 (occasionally)

Ranting Rabbi

 

 

Regarding this Week’s Board Decision…

I am very pleased by this week’s Board decision to begin negotiations toward a new contract with me.  I will also enter these discussions in the spirit with which they have been initiated, keeping foremost in our thoughts the long term interests of the congregation.  I am especially grateful to all of the Board members for their dedication and extraordinary commitment of time.  I look forward to working with the Board to further our mutual goal of congregational unity.

B’Shalom,

Rabbi Joshua Hammerman

p.s. Now it’s time to roll up our sleeves and focus on the vital work of building the Jewish future and repairing the world.

 

This Just In… 

“Keeping Kids Healthy”

Nationally Syndicated show to include “Learning and Latte” Crew!

Tune into channel Thirteen/WNET on Friday, December 14, at 2:30 pm, and repeated on Saturday morning, December 15, at 6:30 am (that's what Tivos are for...).  It's the second half of a 2-subject show:

 

Premature Babies:  Good Things Come in Small Packages / Circumcision:  Is It Right for Your Child?

 

The program features participants in the “Learning and Latte” monthly dialogue: Rabbi Joshua Hammerman, Rev. Ann Schmidt and Dr. Behjat Syed, as well as Dr. Harry Romanowitz.

 

Here’s the official promotional summary.

 

"When you give birth to a son, in most cases -- depending on your religion – there’s an immediate decision that you have to make:  to circumcise, or not to circumcise.  It’s a choice that’s left up to the parent, but that freedom can be a mixed blessing, because there just aren’t that many clear guidelines from the medical community about what you should do, and a lot of people don’t feel very comfortable pressing their doctors for the answers!  So in this program, we’re going to help you with that tough decision, by bringing together in one place the medical advice and information that will help you decide what’s best for your child.  You’ll meet parents who’ve decided for and against it, you’ll see a discreet demonstration of how the procedure is done, and you’ll find out what the experts, religious communities and leading health organizations have to say about the pros and cons of each approach for your child."

 

The “Keeping Kids Healthy” series is produced by Montefiore Medical Center in association with WNET, channel 13. TBE congregants Susan Berger Sabreen and Richard Sabreen are executive producers of the series.  Their website is http://www.keepingkidshealthy.org/

 

AND DON’T FORGET – LEARNING AND LATTE  RETURNS THIS COMING TUESDAY AT 7:30 PM at BORDERS… THE TOPIC IS WORKPLACE ETHICS

 

More From our Man in Asia, David Rodwin:

 

Dear friends and family,

 

I haven't done a good job of letting anyone know about the blog that I started.  It's at www.davidajws.blogspot.com .  Feel free to give the link to anyone you want.  I'm not using it as a diary, so I don't mind anyone at all reading it.

 

Two India moments of the week:

 

1) A female cobra, head and body arched up like in the Indiana Jones movies, was spotted by my office two days ago.  I didn't see it, but word has it that it was three feet long.

 

2) This morning I opened up the cooler I keep in my room for drinking water and saw dozens of tiny dead ants floating in it.  I laughed.  What else is there to do?

 

Take care,

 

David

 

 

Mitzvah/Tzedakkah Opportunties

 

Beth El Cares:

Inreach and Outreach

 

An Easy Tzedakkah idea for Thanksgiving

Donate your free turkey!

 

My thanks to Lori Ratner for sending this suggestion:

Dear Rabbi,

Today, while grocery shopping, I had a thought. Wouldn't it be nice if I could donate my "free" turkey that I earned shopping directly to the Food Bank of Lower Fairfield County.

I asked the cashier if there was any way that I could directly donate my turkey saving me the hassle of bringing home my 15 lb. frozen turkey, storing it and then delivering it to the Food Bank.

The cashier told me to speak to the office. In all of three seconds, they scanned my price card, saw that I qualified for a free turkey and said that it would be donated. No pain, no sweat.

How many people don't donate their "free" earned turkeys because it is simply too much trouble?

Just think of how many families in need would benefit if you just took a minute and asked to donate your turkey directly to the local food bank.  So if you find that you have earned a "free" turkey that you don't need or want, donate it.

Is there any way that the temple can publicize this?

Thanks,

Lori Ratner

 

UJC LAUNCHES FEDERATION RELIEF FOR SOUTHERN CALIFORNIA WILDFIRES  

United Jewish Communities/the federations of North America today launched a relief effort for victims of the Southern California wildfires, which continue to rage from San Diego to Los Angeles. To donate, go to www.ujc.org/wildfirerelief.

 

A Volunteer Opportunity from Montefiore Hospital

 

(thanks to Susan Berger Sabreen for calling this to our attention)

 

"Doula Visitor Program - The Palliative Care Service is currently recruiting volunteers for a special â  doulaâ   visitor program for patients nearing the end of life. Doulas offer companionship and emotional support for people who are within the last 18 months of life. Volunteers will receive an 8-week training as well as ongoing support. This is a unique and meaningful opportunity for people who would like to make a real difference in a person's life at an important time of transition.

Contact: Ronit Fallek (718) 920-6576 or rfallek@montefiore.org <mailto:rfallek@montefiore.org  "

 

 

Beth El Cares

 

Christmas Eve Dinner:

Our next “official” mitzvah project is the annual preparing of food and serving Christmas Eve Dinner at St. Lukes and Pacific House.  Volunteers are needed to contribute food, pick up flowers/food, transport food to the shelters and serve dinner.  Save the date (Mon. Dec. 24).  Please let me know if you would like to coordinate this project “before” it happens; Cheryl Wolff and Liz Vaisben will be the “house captains” for the actual dinners.

 

Toiletry Collection:

The third grade religious school class will be collecting toiletry items to give to the guests at St. Lukes and Pacific House on Christmas Eve.  These toiletry items are the only holiday gift some of these individuals receive. Clean out your hotel amenity stash and your samples or buy full size items to donate.  Watch for details in December telling you where to drop off the items.

 

Bar/Bat Mitzvah Projects:

 

From ~Shira Durica, who will be setting up a table during Hebrew School to make people aware of her project:


With Hadassah, i am sponsoring JNF's (Jewish National Fund) Program to plant trees in Israel.  While i was searching more about this issue, i found out about the three Israeli soldiers, and are now raising awareness about them, and raising money fore trees. How i am doing this is by selling dog tags with the  names, age and date of captured of all three of the soldiers. They are $10 and when you buy a dog tag, you plant 2 trees!

 

From Dana Gordon

Dear Friends and Family,

 

Part of becoming a Bat Mitzvah means being a mench or doing good deeds for others in need.  Temple Beth El requires kids to do a community service project for their Bnai Mitzvah.  For my mitzvah project, I am collecting new games, crafts, and gift cards (less than $10 in value) to donate to the office of Joseph McNamara, MD of Pediatric Hematology/ Oncology Associates, P.C. where I have been a patient the last 5 years.

Five years ago, I was diagnosed with Auto Immune Thrombocytopenia Purpura (I.T.P).  My body thinks my blood platelets are the enemy and destroys them.  I’m extremely lucky because at Dr. Joe’s office I receive an intravenous treatment to help my body maintain a safe number of blood platelets.  Every time I receive an infusion I see kids of all ages who aren’t as lucky as I am because many of them suffer from pediatric blood cancers.  At the end of your each treatment, you get the joy of choosing a toy from the toy closet.  I would like to be a part of that joy by helping to restock the toy closet at the doctor’s office.  

Please bring new and unwrapped games and toys for donation and place them in the box that is labeled “Dana’s Toy Drive” in front of the office or bring them to services on the morning of December 15, 2007 when I will be called to the Torah as a Bat Mitzvah. 

Thank you very much for your support and generosity.

Sincerely,

 

Dana Gordon

 

For more information about I.T.P., visit the platelet disorder support association at www.pdsa.org

 

The Highest Level of Tzedakkah

Helping someone to find a Job

 

Let me know if you can help in either of these situations –

both involve congregants who are extremely talented and dedicated workers…

 

Senior Financial Professional

Proven track record in managing and leading large projects and business change.  Demonstrated expertise in the

delivery of solid financial business decisions within:

 

bankruptcies                        • forensic accounting              • litigation support                  • valuation

executive compensation      • international finance            • information technology        • restructuring

 

Seeking full-time or consulting opportunities.

 

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PROFILE:    Extensive experience in multiple facets of office administration covering diverse industries, combined with excellent project management skills.

QUALIFICATIONS:            

                                               Highly-focused, with a strict attention to detail and accuracy.

                                               Multi-tasked, contributing to lean and efficient staffing.

                                               Excellent interpersonal skills to address the needs of internal and external customers.

                                               Strong advocate of teamwork, performance excellence and continuous improvement.

 

Job Openings:

From Fairfield Bariatrics:

 

Hi Everyone,

 

I want to first thank all those who responded to the survey that was sent via email several months ago, by our team of consultants.  After their careful review of your comments and suggestions we are now in the process of hiring for several positions.

 

                1. Full-time receptionist for Norwalk office

                2. Full-time receptionist for St. Vincent’s office

                3. A full-time Medical Assistant for Dr. Ehrlich

 

 

Please fax (203-899-0761) or e-mail resumes to the new Practice Administrator at Martha@fcbariatiric.com

 

 

 

ASK THE RABBI

 

What is Kristallnacht and How is it Related to Veteran’s Day?

November 9-10 is the annual commemoration of Kristallnacht, which took place in 1938, and which many believe to be the watershed event that was the true beginning of the Holocaust.  When the world failed to respond to this pogrom against the Jews, Hitler knew that he could get away with much more.  To read more about Kristallnacht, go to http://wlc.ushmm.org/wlc/article.jsp?ModuleId=10005201 and  http://www.ushmm.org/kristallnacht/, both at the site of the US Holocaust Museum, and at the Jewish Virtual Library site, http://www.us-israel.org/jsource/Holocaust/kristallnacht.html. 

 

At http://www.remember.org/fact.fin.kristal.html, we discover that “The term `Kristallnacht' referred to the fact that the shards of glass from the thousands of broken windows glittered like crystal in the streets.  In that way, it has become easy to draw parallels between 11/9 and 9/11, when streets again were littered by the broken glass caused by fanatic hatred run amok.   An interesting twist on this comparison, by a Moslem complaining of groundless hatred toward his co-religionists, can be found at http://www.mediamonitors.net/elmasry30.html. He writes, ‘Analogies are being made to the representation of the Jews in such early twentieth century literature as "Mein Kampf," where gross exaggeration and dehumanization proved to be fatally dangerous for more than six million of them. What, then, could be the parallel consequences for Muslims? German academic Gunther Grass states that such beliefs about Islam in the West and the current climate of hate against it bring us very close to a situation not unlike that which prompted Germany's infamous "Kristallnacht" in 1938. Once "the enemy" has been so dehumanized and portrayed as demonic and parasitical, what further justification is needed to persecute and finally exterminate it?’

 

I have no problem seeing Kristallnacht as a day for all nations to reflect on the dangers of all manners of intolerance, as long as we don’t forget the historical uniqueness of the Holocaust and anti-Semitism. If you go to the United Against Racism web site (stop first at http://www.united.non-profit.nl/pages/info98n9.htm) and check out the November calendar you’ll find that, indeed, November 9 has become an important annual reminder of the fight against fascism.  At http://www.united.non-profit.nl/pages/act02n9.htm you’ll see an extensive list of activities going on throughout Europe this weekend.  To some extent it seems as if November 9 is becoming a secondary Yom Hashoah to Europeans.

This weekend is also Veterans Day.  A comprehensive list of Veterans Day links is found at http://members.aol.com/veterans/warlib69.htm.  At the National Museum for American Jewish Military History, http://www.nmajmh.org/, you can find profiles of Jewish War veterans as part of their new Yahrzeit program.  For today, the site commemorates the Yahrzeit of Irving Anton, Max Paul and Sandford Cohen.  It is a moving, living memorial to these heroes, and a nice way to give renewed meaning to this often neglected holiday. 

Of course, it wasn’t always called Veterans Day.   In 1918, World War I ended on the 11th hour of the 11th day of the 11th month.  An armistice was signed declaring the "war to end all wars" was finally over. The next year, on November 11th, the US called the day Armistice Day.  But this holiday was not recalled fondly in Germany in 1938 – it was a tangible reminder of that nation’s humiliation both in war and at the peace table subsequently at Versailles.  With this humiliation so omnipresent in the German consciousness, it may not have been a complete coincidence for the bloody pogrom of Kristallnacht to have taken place just then.  They could have chosen any pretext at any time.  The time they chose was “erev” (the eve before) November 11.

 

And just as they failed to heed the warnings of Versailles, 1918, the nations of the world failed to heed the warnings of 1938. 

 

 

 

Spiritual Journey on the Web

 

U.N. Partition Vote – 60th Anniversary

          This Shabbat morning we’ll be reenacting the fateful U.N. vote on partition that took place 60 years ago this month (on November 29, 1947).  This vote in effect legalized and made possible the creation of the state of Israel.  Join us for that exciting reenactment.  Meanwhile, to read more about that partition vote check out the following:

Israel’s Ministry of Foreign affairs: http://www.mfa.gov.il/MFA/Peace%20Process/Guide%20to%20the%20Peace%20Process/UN%20General%20Assembly%20Resolution%20181



United Nations General Assembly Resolution 181 called for the partition of the British-ruled Palestine Mandate into a Jewish state and an Arab state. It was approved on November 29, 1947 with 33 votes in favor, 13 against, 10 abstentions and one absent (see list at end of document).

The resolution was accepted by the Jews in Palestine, yet rejected by the Arabs in Palestine and the Arab states.

Listen to UN vote
Official Map prepared by UNSCOP

From Wikipedia:

The 33 countries ( 58% ) that voted in favour of the partition were: Australia, Belgium, Bolivia, Brazil, Byelorussian SSR, Canada, Costa Rica, Czechoslovakia, Denmark, Dominican Republic, Ecuador, France, Guatemala, Haiti, Iceland, Liberia, Luxembourg, Netherlands, New Zealand, Nicaragua, Norway, Panama, Paraguay, Peru, Philippines, Poland, Sweden, South Africa, Ukrainian SSR, United States of America, Union of Soviet Socialist Republics, Uruguay, Venezuela.

The 13 countries ( 23% ) that voted against resolution were: Afghanistan, Cuba, Egypt, Greece, India, Iran, Iraq, Lebanon, Pakistan, Saudi Arabia, Syria, Turkey, Yemen.

The 10 countries ( 17% ) that abstained were: Argentina, Chile, Republic of China, Colombia, El Salvador, Ethiopia, Honduras, Mexico, United Kingdom of Great Britain and Northern Ireland, Yugoslavia.

One state ( 2% )was absent: Thailand

"Just Beginning" – Time magazine’s coverage of the event

http://select.nytimes.com/gst/abstract.html?res=F50811FF3B58147B93C2AA178AD95F438485F9 – New York Times coverage (need to be a premium subscriber to see the entire article)

 

Finally, a website containing all Jewish goings-on in New York City

http://www.jewngle.com/

 

 

The Beth El Bar/Bat Mitzvah Commentary

 

 

 

 

Aaron Katz on Lech Lecha

 

I’ve always been very interested in the environment.  My family has always done a lot outdoors, and I’ve always enjoyed hiking, mountain biking and other outdoor sports and I love observing wildlife.

 

This past summer, my family and I visited Glacier National Park in Montana.  The landscape was beautiful and the wildlife even more impressive.  We saw bears, moose, beavers, big horned sheep and mountain goats that came right up to us.  There also were many more people than I expected, which leads to many dangers, including wildfires.  In fact, huge wildfires happened there just after my family left. 

 

Last year I saw the film “An Inconvenient Truth” and it had a significant impact on me.  I was amaze