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November 30, 2007- Kislev 20, 5768

Rabbi Joshua Hammerman, Temple Beth El, Stamford, Connecticut

 

The 60th anniversary of the UN Partition plan

 

Happy Hanukkah

 

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Contents of the Shabbat O Gram:

(Click to scroll down)

 

Just the Facts    

The (Occasionally) Ranting Rabbi

Mitzvah/Tzedakkah Opportunities

Ask the Rabbiincluding a how-to guide for lighting Hanukkah candles

 Spiritual Journey on the WebHanukkah at Home

    The Beth El Bar/Bat Mitzvah Commentaryfeaturing Jillian Katz and Shira Durica

Required Reading and Action Items (links to key articles on Israel and Jewish life) 

Joke for the Week

 

 

THIS Shabbat!!!

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special message from the rabbi to parents of kids AND teens!!!

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Quote for the Week

 


Darfur activism is a bridge between the secular and religious.

We don’t need to know what one ‘believes’ but rather what one does.”

Harold Schulweis - read more

(from the current Darfur issue of Shma: A Journal of Jewish Responsibility)

www.shma.com

 

 

 

 

JUST THE FACTS

 

 

Candle lighting: 4:09 pm on Friday,  November 30, 2007.  For Havdalah times, other Jewish calendar information, and to download a Jewish calendar to your PDA, click on http://www.hebcal.com/.  To see the festivals of other faiths as well, go to http://www.interfaithcalendar.org/.  The United Synagogue has updated its candlelighting information. To learn more, click here.

 

 

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Torah Reading For Shabbat Morning

Parashat Vayeshev


Genesis 37:1 - 40:23

1: 37:1-3
2: 37:4-7
3: 37:8-11
4: 37:12-17
5: 37:18-22
6: 37:23-28
7: 37:29-36
maf: 37:34-36

Haftarah for Ashkenazim: Hosea 12:13 - 14:10

 

The (occasionally) Ranting Rabbi

Rewriting History on Hanukkah

 

Way back in the second century BCE, the Maccabees achieved one of the most inspiring military triumphs of the ages.  It was a true masterpiece of guerrilla warfare as a small group of Jewish partisans bested the mighty army of Antiochus through a series of well planned ambushes and an intimate knowledge of the hilly terrain.  This military triumph became cause for great celebration, not just then but during subsequent decades, even as the fortunes of the Jews turned sour, and the Greeks gave way to Roman rule. 

 

Add to that the miracle of the fire.  Way back when Moses and Solomon had dedicated their sanctuaries, those celebrations were marked highlighted by the appearance of maracluous fires from heaven.  The Maccabees probably hoped for a similar fire miracle as they prepared to rededicate their recaptured temple.  But it didn’t happen.  The absence of fire from heaven at this time was considered one of the great traumas of second temple history.  The Talmud notes (Yoma 21b) that such a non-miracle was an indicator that the Jewish people had truly entered the post-prophetic period. 

 

The light of menorah was seen as a symbol of divine presence.  But without that miracle from heaven, our ancestors focused more on a secondary marvel:  finding any oil undefiled by the Greeks was itself considered a miracle.  According to the historian Josephus, that idea caught on with the masses, who called the festival Hag Ha-urim (the festival of lights) .  It is likely that ancient fire festivals taking place during the darkest days of the solar calendar also play a role in the growth of this festival.

 

The Talmudic rabbis, who lived a few centuries later and were scarred by subsequent military disasters, chose to focus on this miracle of the oil, but they reinterpreted the story in a manner that wrote back into it a tangible divine presence – not only was there undefiled oil, but a tiny amount lasted for eight days.  This shading was downplayed by the Maccabees, if they ever knew of it at all.  But that’s OK – because by that point in Jewish history the Maccabees and their Hasmonean heirs had become footnotes.  The rabbis were now much more relevant, and history is always written by the winners.

 

Then the rabbis added another twist, by including on Hanukkah the haftarah selection from Zechariah, with the famous quote, “Not by might, nor by power but by My spirit,” says the Lord.”  So now the miracle is not merely about oil, it’s also about spiritual survival of the Jewish people, as opposed to their military prowess.  That interpretation worked very well during two thousand years of powerlessness and exile.

 

Now, ironically, we are rewriting history again.  Modern Zionism has brought with it the reestablishment of Jewish military power and the Maccabees have become role models for the IDF.  This week at Synaplex, our teens will have a chance to relive the Maccabean dream by learning some Israeli basic training skills.  Meanwhile, in a separate session in the morning, I’ll be discussing the changing relationship of Jews and Power by reviewing Ruth Wisse’s fascinating and provocative new book.

 

And so we are left with question as we approach this holiday with a thousand histories… Who will write the history of Hanukkah now?  Who will write the history of Annapolis and Iran?  And in a few centuries from now, what will Hanukkah still be celebrated?  My bet is that it will – and HOW it is celebrated will tell us a lot about the people doing the celebrating, and whether Jewish history will still be written by the winners.

 

HAPPY HANUKKAH TO ALL, from “the Hebrew Hammer” and his family…

 

 “Keeping Kids Healthy”

Nationally Syndicated show to include “Learning and Latte” Crew!

Tune into channel Thirteen/WNET on Friday, December 14, at 2:30 pm, and repeated on Saturday morning, December 15, at 6:30 am (that's what Tivos are for...).  It's the second half of a 2-subject show:

 

Premature Babies:  Good Things Come in Small Packages / Circumcision:  Is It Right for Your Child?

 

The program features participants in the “Learning and Latte” monthly dialogue: Rabbi Joshua Hammerman, Rev. Ann Schmidt and Dr. Behjat Syed, as well as Dr. Harry Romanowitz.

 

Here’s the official promotional summary.

 

"When you give birth to a son, in most cases -- depending on your religion – there’s an immediate decision that you have to make:  to circumcise, or not to circumcise.  It’s a choice that’s left up to the parent, but that freedom can be a mixed blessing, because there just aren’t that many clear guidelines from the medical community about what you should do, and a lot of people don’t feel very comfortable pressing their doctors for the answers!  So in this program, we’re going to help you with that tough decision, by bringing together in one place the medical advice and information that will help you decide what’s best for your child.  You’ll meet parents who’ve decided for and against it, you’ll see a discreet demonstration of how the procedure is done, and you’ll find out what the experts, religious communities and leading health organizations have to say about the pros and cons of each approach for your child."

 

The “Keeping Kids Healthy” series is produced by Montefiore Medical Center in association with WNET, channel 13. TBE congregants Susan Berger Sabreen and Richard Sabreen are executive producers of the series.  Their website is http://www.keepingkidshealthy.org/

 

 

And now, an exclusive report, special to the Shabbat-O-Gram, from Our Man in Asia, David Rodwin

 

What do Indians think about Jews?

 

I don't yet know if I'm really in a position to fully answer this question, but I can write a few anecdotes that may provide some picture.

 

A few weeks ago, I stayed overnight at the village of a coworker.

Everyone in the village was very happy to meet a foreigner, and an American at that.  Some asked if I was Christian, and I said that no, not everyone in America is Christian.  I am Jewish.  One young man who was either in 12th grade or at the beginning of college had been taught a bit about Jewish history.  His English skills were lacking, so he eagerly conveyed the information by saying a key word or two.

 

"Einstein," he said, smiling.

 

"Yes," I answered,  "Einstein was Jewish, too."

 

"Jew all very good mind."

 

"Thank you, but Jews are not smarter than any other people."

 

"Hitler," he said, now frowning.

 

"Yes, Hitler killed many Jews."

 

"Bad."

 

"Yes, it was very bad."

 

"Israel, many Jews," he said, smiling again.

 

"That's true."

 

He (and the crowd that had gathered around us) was curious about Jews, and I explained as best as I could about how we are different from Christians.

 

Another experience that I think is fairly symbolic took place on Eid, the Muslim holiday marking the end of Ramadan, the month of fasting.

I was invited by the director of my organization to the home of a Muslim lawyer frequently employed by the organization.  I had really been looking forward to it, because it would be the first Muslim event in which I could take part.

 

The lawyer, who spoke no English, welcomed us into his house, and we sat in his living room for some time.  A few neighbors stopped by to wish him an "Eid Mubarak" (happy Eid).  Eventually it came up that I was Jewish.  Smiling, the first thing he said (in Gujarati) was, "Islam, Christianity, Judaism—all the same God.  One God."  Instead of my religion being something to mark my difference from him, he used it to mark a similarity.  With the director as a translator, we then had a short discussion on the basic similarities of the religions.

 

There was nothing that seemed to me particularly religious about the lawyer's celebration; there wasn't a single prayer the whole time.

There was, however, a big meal at around 2 or 3 pm, which as I understand is traditional; who wouldn't want a big meal in the middle of the day after you haven't eaten during daylight for a month?

Another lawyer—this one a Hindu—showed up for the food.

 

The Muslim lawyer, smiling and motioning towards me, told the Hindu lawyer, "He's a Jew."

 

"Ahh, a Jew," the Hindu lawyer replied, nodding at me in approval.

"Very nice."

 

After the meal, the director of my organization asked the Muslim lawyer about his head covering; he wanted to know if it was hand woven.  The lawyer answered no, it wasn't, but insisted that the director keep it as a gift.  The director reluctantly accepted.

 

Then the lawyer went downstairs and brought up some more head coverings, two of which he gave to me as a present.  I tried one on, and everyone seemed to like it.  I had brought a yarmulke with me in case I needed to cover my head for some religious practice, and I showed it to the lawyer.  I only have two kippot in India (I keep an extra one for when I take a guest to the synagogue here) and no way of getting more, so I wasn't able to give it to him though I wished I could have.   The lawyer inspected it, and pronounced the design beautiful.

 

I hope these two little stories show something about my experience being a Jew here in India.  I haven't had a single incident of anything that could even be construed as mildly anti-Semitic.  On the contrary, I've encountered a bit of overly enthusiastic pro-Semitism; some people believe that Jews are smarter and more capable than others, and I have to explain that this is not true.  I wish I could write some kind of larger statement about being a Jew here, but since I've only been here for three months, I don't think I can yet.

 

 

Mitzvah/Tzedakkah Opportunties

 

Beth El Cares:

Inreach and Outreach

 

Christmas Eve Dinner:

Our next “official” mitzvah project is the annual preparing of food and serving Christmas Eve Dinner at St. Lukes and Pacific House.  Volunteers are needed to contribute food, pick up flowers/food, transport food to the shelters and serve dinner.  Save the date (Mon. Dec. 24).  Please let me know if you would like to coordinate this project “before” it happens; Cheryl Wolff and Liz Vaisben will be the “house captains” for the actual dinners.

 

Toiletry Collection:

The third grade religious school class will be collecting toiletry items to give to the guests at St. Lukes and Pacific House on Christmas Eve.  These toiletry items are the only holiday gift some of these individuals receive. Clean out your hotel amenity stash and your samples or buy full size items to donate.  Watch for details in December telling you where to drop off the items.

 

UJF Super Sunday and Mitzvah Packages Sign Up

 

From Sherry Shameer Cohen

Anyone who plans to have a baby can register on www.similac.com and www.emanfil.com.  They send free samples.  Ideally, the mother will breast feed, and she can donate the samples to the Food Bank.  If she can't, chances are that the baby will only require one type of formula and the others can go to the Food Bank.  A bonus is that one of these sites offers the new mom a voucher for a free spa treatment (massage, manicure, pedicure, or facial

From the American Jewish World Service, Ruth Messenger

There is no better way to feel the impact of your support than to hear AJWS grantees tell their own stories. Likewise, there is no better to way to understand the difference AJWS volunteers are making on the ground than to hear them talk about their experiences.

I am delighted to announce that, with the launch of the new AJWS Web site, you can now meet some of these people and hear some of their stories; we’ll be adding more clips over the coming weeks and months.

 

Other new features include:

Our new site also provides much more information about the work we’re doing around the world with your support. I invite you explore it.

As Hanukkah approaches, I hope you will join with me in celebrating the holiday by sending an AJWS Hanukkah E-Card to family and friends.

 

A Volunteer Opportunity from Montefiore Hospital

 

(thanks to Susan Berger Sabreen for calling this to our attention)

 

"Doula Visitor Program - The Palliative Care Service is currently recruiting volunteers for a special â  doulaâ   visitor program for patients nearing the end of life. Doulas offer companionship and emotional support for people who are within the last 18 months of life. Volunteers will receive an 8-week training as well as ongoing support. This is a unique and meaningful opportunity for people who would like to make a real difference in a person's life at an important time of transition.

Contact: Ronit Fallek (718) 920-6576 or rfallek@montefiore.org <mailto:rfallek@montefiore.org  "

 

 

Bar/Bat Mitzvah Projects:

 

From Dana Gordon

Dear Friends and Family,

 

Part of becoming a Bat Mitzvah means being a mench or doing good deeds for others in need.  Temple Beth El requires kids to do a community service project for their Bnai Mitzvah.  For my mitzvah project, I am collecting new games, crafts, and gift cards (less than $10 in value) to donate to the office of Joseph McNamara, MD of Pediatric Hematology/ Oncology Associates, P.C. where I have been a patient the last 5 years.

Five years ago, I was diagnosed with Auto Immune Thrombocytopenia Purpura (I.T.P).  My body thinks my blood platelets are the enemy and destroys them.  I’m extremely lucky because at Dr. Joe’s office I receive an intravenous treatment to help my body maintain a safe number of blood platelets.  Every time I receive an infusion I see kids of all ages who aren’t as lucky as I am because many of them suffer from pediatric blood cancers.  At the end of your each treatment, you get the joy of choosing a toy from the toy closet.  I would like to be a part of that joy by helping to restock the toy closet at the doctor’s office.  

Please bring new and unwrapped games and toys for donation and place them in the box that is labeled “Dana’s Toy Drive” in front of the office or bring them to services on the morning of December 15, 2007 when I will be called to the Torah as a Bat Mitzvah. 

Thank you very much for your support and generosity.

Sincerely,

 

Dana Gordon

 

For more information about I.T.P., visit the platelet disorder support association at www.pdsa.org

 

The Highest Level of Tzedakkah

 According to Maimonides’ Eight Levels of Tzedakkah,

the highest level is to provide a person with employment.

 

I received the following from TBE member David Satz, who is currently transitioning.  If you can help him out, please contact him directly.  Thanks in advance for your help!

Technical leader with a proven ability to develop and implement quality solutions through effective management of people, projects and technology.  A dedicated, details-oriented technologist who can lead a project or development team from beginning to end or work as hands-on team member in a developers role.

Here are my strengths:

1.           the ability to be a productive project team member for all aspects of the development lifecycle from gathering requirements to coding to production support

2.           strong background in application development and database design and development

3.           ability to quickly learn new skills: both technical and non-technical

Here are my strongest technical skills:

1.           Web development with ColdFusion, including HTML, CSS and JavaScript

2.           Database design, development and administration with Microsoft SQL Server and Oracle.

3.           Documentum development and administration for Webtop and Web Publisher.

For my information, please see my online resume at http://www.geocities.com/davidsatz or my LinkedIn profile at http://www.linkedin.com/in/davidsatz

 

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ASK THE RABBI

 

How Do I “Do” Hanukkah at Home?

Here is a concise how-to guide for the lighting:

 

 

1) Candle holders should be of equal height, except the one for the shamash (the candle used to light all others) which is either taller or shorter than the rest.

2) The tradition is to light the hanukkiyah in front of the window (preferably one facing the street) in order to publicize the miracle (pirsum haneis) of Hanukkah. 

3) HOW TO DO IT

 

-- Load your hanukkiyah the way you read Hebrew, right to left.

-- Light only the shamash.

-- Early in the evening, but after dark, get the family together, stand and sing (or recite, if you don't know the tune):

 

Barukh atah Adonai, Eloheinu melekh ha’olam, asher kidishanu bemitzvotav, vitzivanu lehadlik ner shel Hanukkah.

 

Praised are You, Adonai, who rules the Universe, Who makes us holy through mitzvot and has given us the mitzvah of lighting the Hanukkah candle.

 

Barukh atah Adonai, Eloheinu melekh ha’olam, she’asah nissim la’avoteinu bayamim haheim, bazeman hazeh.

 

Praised are You, Adonai, who rules the Universe, Who made miracles for our ancestors, long ago, and continues to make them today.

 

4) On the first night continue with the following— On other nights, continue with:

 

Barukh atah Adonai, Eloheinu melekh ha’olam, shehehiyanu, vekiyimanu, vehigi’anu, lazeman hazeh.

 

Praised are you, Adonai, who rules the Universe, Who has granted us life, sustained us, and has let  us witness this precious moment.

 

5) Light the candles, as you would read English, left to right.

 

6) Wish everyone a Hag Hanukkah Same’ah—A Happy Hanukkah—give everyone a Hanukkah kiss and you are now ready to exchange gifts.

 

The following are suggestions as to ways we can make the time of lighting for meaningful.

 The first is courtesy of the MJCCybershul and second from B'nai Jeshurun in New York:

 

1) Dedicate each night:

 

A HANUKKAH IN HONOR OF

 

This year, when lighting the hanukkiyah, try lighting each candle in honor of someone or something special.  For example:

 

Candle #1:      In honor of the youngest member of your family;

 

Candle #2:      In honor of the senior most member of the family;

 

Candle #3:      In honor of our eternal connection with Eretz Yisrael, the land of Israel.  Serve hummus, felafel, and an Israeli/Jewish Hanukkah favorite: sufganiyot or doughnuts.

 

Candle #4:      In honor of laughter.  Tonight’s gift is everyone must be prepared to tell a good joke.

 

Candle #5:      In honor of good health (the whole family must dance to an aerobics video tonight);

 

Candle #6:      In honor of your favorite Bible hero or heroine (read that section of the Bible as everyone listens and noshes on latkahs);

 

Candle #7:      In honor of your favorite charity.  Take a family vote.  Determine which tzedakah or charity the family should collect money for this year.  Don’t have a tzedakah box?  Use Pringle potato chip cans to make fun tzedakah containers.

 

Candle #8:      In honor of your friends.  Invite some special friends over to the house to light the hanukkiyah, have dinner, and play scrabble, monopoly, trivial pursuits, or whatever else can get the big and the little people together playing with each other.

 

 

2) Kavvanot (meditations) for each night:

 

 

First Night: To Believe

 

In the book of Maccabees we learn of the great story of Judah the Maccabee. He was a warrior who fought against the Greek armies of Antiochus. Judah, along with his army, liberated Jerusalem and regained the Temple. It was at this point that Judah entered the Temple, looking for a cruse of oil to light the menorah. Alas, he and his forces could only find one cruse of oil, just enough for one night, but when they lit the menorah with it, a miracle happened and it remained lit for eight days. Hanukkah marks the reclaiming of the Temple, the courage of the Maccabees and the great miracle of the oil.

 

 

What does the story of the miracle of oil represent?

What role does belief or faith play in this story?

Have you experienced miracles in your life?

How does this story connect miracles with God?

 

Second Night: Increasing Holiness

 

In the Talmud, tractate Shabbat 21b, the schools of Hillel and Shammai have a disagreement about how to light the menorah. The school of Shammai says: On the first night eight lights are lit and each subsequent night, they are gradually reduced; but the school of Hillel says: On the first night one light is lit and on each subsequent night the lights are progressively increased. Our custom is to follow the teaching of the school of Hillel and so we increase the lights with each night. The Talmud tells us that the reason the school of Hillel practiced lighting this way was to symbolize an increase in holiness with each additional light; that we should increase holiness, not decrease.

 

In the darkest time of year, why might it be important to increase light rather than to decrease light?

How do you find holiness in your own life?

How do you bring holiness into the world?

 

 

Third Night: Hanukkah ­ Dedication

 

The word Hanukkah means dedication, and among other things, the holiday commemorates the re-dedication of the Temple in Jerusalem after it had been desecrated for three years with idolatrous worship services. After purifying the altar, it was immediately put to use with ritual sacrifices for eight days of celebration. Curiously, our tradition commemorates this moment of re-dedication though it does not include a holiday memorializing the original dedications of the first or second temples.

 

What might we learn from the fact that Judaism marks the re-dedication rather than the original dedication of the Temple?

If you were to dedicate, or re-dedicate yourself to something in this season, what would it be?

In order to dedicate yourself in this way, would there need to be any purification process first in order to prepare for the transformation ahead?

What kind of actions could you take to sustain this change?

 

 

Fourth Night: Miraculous Fires

 

In a little-known passage in the second book of Maccabees, the Judean leaders describe another miracle of light that happened centuries earlier when the community that had been exiled to Babylonia returned to rededicate the Temple in 516 BCE. At that time, according to Maccabees II (1:1, 18-22, 30-32, 36), Nehemia ordered the priests to dig up a secret hidden fire, which had been taken from the altar and buried when the first Temple was destroyed. When they attempted to find the hidden fire, all they found was muddied water. Undaunted, Nehemia had them sprinkle the water on the newly prepared alter, and it sprang into flames.

 

What similarities do you see between this story and the story of the miracle of the oil on Hanukkah?

What differences?

How do both of these stories link the new dedication of the Temple to the past?

How and why is the symbol of fire used in these stories?

 

 

Fifth Night: Celebration & Joy

 

Hanukkah is a time of great joy. For eight days, we are encouraged to play games with spinning tops (dreidels) and chocolate coins (gelt). We indulge in culinary delicacies fried in oil (latkes) and filled with jam donuts (sufganiyot). We give gifts. We sing songs.

There is another eight day festival that demands joy: Sukkot. The Torah commands us, "You shall have nothing but joy." (Deuteronomy 16:13,15) There is even a connection between Sukkot and Hanukkah in the Second Book of Maccabees:

 

And they celebrated Hanukkah for eight days with gladness like the Camping Out festival [Sukkot], and recalled how a little while before, during the Camping Out festival they had been wandering in the mountains and caverns like wild animals."

 

During Sukkot, we experienced both a sense of vulnerability and a sense of thankfulness at our good fortune. So too with Hanukkah, we recount the instability of our lives and the precariousness of our 'freedoms'; we also recognize the blessings we are granted each day and the miracles that may lurk in the corners of each of our lives.

 

 

How is Hanukkah similar to other Jewish holidays?

What are the common values or themes found through the Jewish year?

What traditions do you add to create more joy?

 

 

Sixth Night: Of Heroes and Heroines...

 

There are several models of heroism in the stories surrounding Hanukkah in the books of Maccabees and the Book of Judith (all associated with the holiday). Mattathias defied the king, refusing to bow to an idol. Judah won military victories. Hannah gave up her children to martyrdom, and Judith seduced and beheaded an army general.

 

 

What is heroism and where does courage come from?

Who are your heroes and why?

Which of these models is most appealing and most problematic to you?

What arenas of heroism are available to men and what arenas are available to women?

What situations in your life right now call for courage, and what would that courage look like?

 

 

Seventh Night: Going Public

 

One of the customs of Hanukkah is to place the menorah in a window that faces the street or someplace where the lights can be seen by the public. The idea behind this custom is to glorify the miracle of Hanukkah as much as possible. In Israel, particularly in the Old City in Jerusalem, one can walk through the streets and see hundreds of lights as menorahs are placed in windows and in courtyards outside of homes.

 

This public custom brings interesting questions for one who lives outside of Israel. How does it feel to publicize a holiday?

How does it feel to bring what is usually private into the public sphere?

What parts of your Jewish identity are you most comfortable publicizing?

Are there pieces of your identity or the Jewish communal identity you would not want to publicize?

Why or why not?

 

 

Eighth Night: Memory & History

 

We are fortunate to have thematic choice when we celebrate Hanukkah. We can commemorate the oil that was meant to last one day, but instead lasted eight; the historic victory of the Maccabees over their oppressors; or the battle for religious freedom and pluralism, to name but a few of the myriad possibilities. Of course, what we choose reveals something about our lives – our values, our interests, our questions. Our ancestors also chose themes that suited their needs; the Book of Maccabees favored the details of battle and triumph. The Rabbis were concerned about spiritual risk:

"In this case of Purim, the people were in physical danger; and therefore... they ordained Purim as a holiday of physical rejoicing and feasting. In the case of Hanukkah, on the other hand, the danger was primarily spiritual, and therefore, Hanukkah was ordained as a time of spiritual thanksgiving." [Shulchan Aruch]

In many ways, our history and identity are built on what we choose to remember. What memories do you have of past Hanukkah celebrations?

 

What stories and traditions were you taught?

What do you hope the next generation will learn?

My best wishes for a festival filled with light and joy!

 

Helping with Hebrew…

How Can I Follow the Prayers?

I received an e-mail from a Hebrew School parent wanting to help her child learn some of the prayers, but needing Hebrew transliteration to do so.  I have found an excellent site that provides word for word transliteration and an excellent translation as well, from a Conservative perspective: http://www.kakatuv.com/conservative.html.  The home page also points you toward Orthodox and Reform versions of the prayers.  And check out this Phonetic Transliterated siddur for users of Siddur Sim Shalom. Each page of this HPLS siddur has a cross-reference to the corresponding page number in Siddur Sim Shalom.  It’s at  http://HebrewPrayersLearningSeries.com

People also often ask me about what prayers to say when visiting a cemetery.  Again, a site offers some good transliteration, this time of the traditional memorial prayers.  Find it at http://www.mtsinaicemetery.com/mtsinai/mooffanka/?doc=25.  You can click there on the 23rd Psalm, El Maleh Rachamim for a man or a woman, and the Mourner’s Kaddish. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Spiritual Journey on the Web

 

 

Hanukkah at Home

From www.myjewishlearnnig.com

 

The Talmud describes Hanukkah as a holiday of "praise and thanksgiving" in commemoration of the miraculous overthrow of the Syrian Greeks, the rededication of the Temple in Jerusalem, and the single cruse of oil that lasted eight days. Hanukkah's festive atmosphere derives almost entirely from home ritual and customs and is dominated by light as a metaphor for spiritual freedom. This is emphasized by special holiday songs, games, and foods.

 

The defining act of Hanukkah is to kindle the lights of the hanukkiyah, the eight-branched candelabrum. These lights, which can either be candles or tiny oil cups with floating wicks, grow in strength during the eight days of Hanukkah, with the addition of one candle or lighted wick each night. One light is added each night to fulfill the concept of lo moridim ba-kodesh (one does not decrease in holiness). Because the purpose of these Hanukkah lights is the public proclamation of the Hanukkah miracle, the hanukkiyah is traditionally lit in a place where the candles can be seen from out of doors, near a window or a doorway. If, however, this public placement of the hanukkiyah constitutes a danger, either from fire or anti-Semitism, the lights may be kindled elsewhere in the house. 

FOR MORE OF THIS ARTICLE, GO TO : http://www.myjewishlearning.com/holidays/Hanukkah/TO_Hanukkah_Home.htm

See also: History

Candlelighting

Dreidel

Hanukkah Foods

Hanukkah for Families

Themes & Theology

 

Hanukkah:

Holiday of Hearth and Home

By Prof. Moshe Benovitz

 

In Memory of Munir Murdoch z"l, who transformed the Schechter Institute into a Home

 

Traditionally, Hanukkah celebrates two distinct events: the victory of the Maccabees and the restoration of the Temple after its desecration. The military victory is stressed in the Al Hanissim prayer, while the Talmudic passage concerning Hanukkah (Shabbat 21b) emphasizes the rededication and the related miracle of the oil. Another motif was apparently added to the festival during the reign of Herod: the kindling of the Hanukkah lights in ascending order, in honor of the winter solstice, which marks the lengthening of the daylight hours (see Moshe Benovitz, "Hordos veHanukkah", Zion 68 (2003), pp. 5-40).

 

It would seem, however, that the collective consciousness of the Jewish people has associated yet another motif with Hanukkah. In addition to all the above reasons for celebration, many of us naturally celebrate Hanukkah as the festival of hearth and home, of "coziness" and family, blessings for which we are especially grateful as winter sets in. It is true that families gather together at home on other Jewish holidays, especially on Passover, but then the emphasis is on food and on discussion, learning and ritual that center around the dining room table. What is unique about Hanukkah is that its candle lighting ritual celebrates the very gathering of the family under one roof: the ritual takes place in the living room, not necessarily at the dining table. Lighting the Hanukkah lights is one of the few Jewish home rituals that are not conducted at the dining room table. Hanukkah has come to symbolize the importance of shelter and the warmth of the family and the home as winter begins.

 

This motif may seem contemporary, but it is not unique to our generation. Not only is the connection between Hanukkah and the home alluded to in traditional sources; it is alluded to in sources from three different periods in the history of Hanukkah. Allusions to this theme can be found in the basic law regarding the kindling of the Hanukkah lights as formulated in the Talmud, in the way in which the Hanukkah lights were customarily kindled from medieval times onward, and the way in which Hanukkah was celebrated by the Hasmoneans themselves, according to the earliest extant record of specific rituals: the sixth chapter of the second book of Maccabees.

 

I. Talmudic Halakhah: "A single candle for the individual and his home"

Most Jewish rituals are of the type known as hovat gavra, "personal obligation"; they are meant to be performed by each and every individual. This is true both of commandments mandated by Scripture, such as wearing tefillin and eating matzah at the Passover seder, and of practices ordained by the Rabbis, such as washing hands before a meal or hearing the Megillah reading on Purim. Lighting the Hanukkah candles is an exception. Even though many Jews today make it their business to light the candles themselves each night or to be present when a member of the family lights them in order to "fulfill the obligation", this is strictly speaking unnecessary. Hanukkah candles are a hovat habayit, "an obligation incumbent on the home", and not the individual; in the words of the Talmud: "The Hanukkah commandment is a single candle for the individual and his home" (Shabbat 21b). A person who is not home on any given evening of Hanukkah, or even one who is away from home the entire festival week, is not required to light candles or participate in a candle lighting ceremony elsewhere, so long as "they are lighting for him at home" (Shabbat 23a). In this sense, the mitzvah of Hanukkah candles is akin to that of mezuzah: every Jewish home must have a mezuzah, but the individuals living in that home need not be present when the mezuzah is affixed. Similarly, every Jewish home must publicize the Hanukkah miracle to passers-by by lighting candles, but the participation of each individual in this mitzvah is not required.

 

As a matter of fact, the Talmud associates the Hanukkah lights with the mezuzah explicitly: Hanukkah candles were originally lit in front of the house, and according to the Talmud (Shabbat 22a) they were to be kindled on the left side of the doorway, so that the doorway is surrounded with mitzvot – the candles on the left and the mezuzah on the right.

 

Now mezuzah is by nature a "home" ritual: scriptural verses are to be written "on the doorposts of your house" (Deuteronomy 6:9). By contrast, Hanukkah candles are reminiscent of other holiday rituals, and other holiday rituals - such as eating matzah on Passover, hearing the shofar on Rosh Hashanah, and hearing the Megillah on Purim - are personal obligations which devolve upon the individual. Why should the Hanukkah candles be different from these other festival rituals? The central rituals of Hanukkah and Purim – the candles on Hanukkah and the Megillah on Purim – are especially similar: both festivals were instituted during the Second Temple period, and both the candles and the Megillah reading were designed to "publicize the miracles" of Purim and Hanukkah respectively (Megillah 3b, Shabbat 23b). However, while the mitzvah to publicize the miracle of Purim by participating in the Megillah reading as either reader or listener is incumbent upon every individual, the mitzvah to publicize the miracle of Hanukkah by kindling lights is incumbent upon the household as a whole, and individuals need not even trouble themselves to be present at the ritual as observers, as long as some member of the household is lighting at home. Why is that?

 

The only plausible explanation is that there is an innate connection between Hanukkah candles and the home. The home is responsible for lighting Hanukkah candles, because Hanukkah is a celebration of the home. At least subconsciously, the Sages seemed to have realized that the lighting of candles in front of the home on Hanukkah represents, among other things, the shelter and warmth provided by the home in the face of the oncoming winter, and therefore they ordained the Hanukkah lights as the responsibility of the household, not of the individual.

 

II. From Medieval Times Onward: "For Members of the Household Only"

As we have seen, the Talmud ordains that each household light Hanukkah candles in front of the home to publicize the miracle in front of passers-by. In Talmudic times, the candles were not lit indoors except in times of danger, when the gentile authorities forbade the public kindling of Hanukkah candles (Shabbat 21b). In our day, this ruling regarding times of danger has become the norm: Hanukkah candles are lit indoors as a matter of course. It would seem that this development occurred in Medieval Ashkenaz (see Tosafot Shabbat 21b, s.v. de'i la adliq; Rosh ad loc., section 3). The reason for this is unclear, but a number of possibilities suggest themselves: it may be that the Jews of medieval France and Germany faced an actual threat from their gentile neighbors, or perhaps the European winter made it impossible to light the candles outdoors. Another possibility is that the houses of medieval European Jews were laid out in such a manner that candles lit in front of the house would in any case not be visible to passers-by. Nor should we rule out the possibility that the lighting the Hanukkah candles indoors was influenced by Christmas customs.

 

Whatever the original reason, common practice has become to light the Hanukkah candles indoors rather than in front of the house. This change in practice led to another change in halakhah: according to the Talmud, the Hanukkah lights must be lit "from sunset until the people are gone from the marketplace" (Shabbat 21b), in order to publicize the miracle to passers-by. However the Tosafot and the halakhic authorities who followed the Tosafot ruled that nowadays there is no time limit, and the Hanukkah lights can be lit any time during the night, so long as someone is home awake, because nowadays the candles are lit indoors and are meant to be seen and appreciated "by members of the household only" (Tosafot and Rosh, ibid.). Lighting the candles in the context of the family has become a unique ritual, in which the family gathers in religious celebration without sitting down to a meal. When, in accordance with post-Talmudic practice, the family huddles under a single roof around a candelabrum blazing with light and fire at the beginning of winter, the "home" motif is paramount. Hanukkah has become the holiday of hearth and home not only in the theoretical sense, that the ritual of candle lighting is incumbent upon the household and not the individual; it is actually practiced inside the home in the presence of family members, who publicize the miracle of Hanukkah to one another by lighting candles.

 

III. Hanukkah in II Maccabees: "Barracks-style"

The earliest and clearest expression of Hanukkah as the holiday of the home is found in II Maccabees. Both books of Maccabees were written in Hasmonean times, and both tell of the way in which Hanukkah was celebrated in those days. But while the reference to the Hanukkah celebration is couched in most general terms in I Maccabees, "that these days of the dedication of the altar be celebrated on time each year for eight days, from the twenty-fifth day of Kislev, in joy and gladness (4:58), II Maccabees 10:6-7 tells of specific rituals. These verses are normally translated: "(6) They celebrated for eight days in the manner of Tabernacles (skenomaton tropon; literally: 'barracks-style'), remembering that a short time earlier, on the festival of Tabernacles, they were grazing in the hills and caves like beasts of the field. (7) Therefore, with thyrsoi and seasonal branches and dates in their hands they sang praise before him who granted them success in purifying his place".

 

The phrase skenomaton tropon is usually translated "in the manner of Tabernacles", in the manner of the festival of Sukkot. Having been prevented from celebrating Sukkot two months earlier while living in the hills and practicing guerilla warfare "like wild beasts", the Jews celebrated a delayed Sukkot on Hanukkah, singing Hallel and carrying plants for eight days. But this explanation is problematic, for the following reasons:

 

1.         What did this delayed observance of Sukkot accomplish? If Sukkot is not celebrated on the correct date, of what value is its observance on another date? Moreover, if the Maccabees did think they could "make up" missed festivals, why didn't they make up other festivals as well? They spent three years in the mountains, and thus missed each holiday three times over. They ought to have "made up" Passover and Rosh Hashanah as well by eating matzah for seven days and blowing the shofar one day!

2.         Why did they find it impossible to celebrate Sukkot in the mountains and caves? It is precisely guerilla fighters living away from home in the mountains like "beasts of the field" who can, and indeed must, build temporary shelters! And it is they who have the most direct access to the four species that must be taken up on Sukkot!

3.         The word "Tabernacles" appears twice in the translation of II Maccabees 10:6 provided above, once in the phrase "in the manner of Tabernacles" (skenomaton tropon) and once in the phrase "on the festival of Tabernacles" (ton skenon heorten). However, while the second phrase, derived from skene, "tent, booth, tabernacle", is the normal Greek term for "the festival of Sukkot", the first phrase employs another variant of the word, skenoma, which is usually reserved for barracks and tents in which soldiers dwell, and is never used in the sense of a sukkah constructed for the festival of Sukkot. It should thus be translated "barracks-style" rather than "in the manner of Tabernacles".

4.         According to the usual interpretation, the Hasmoneans celebrated Hanukkah "in the manner of Tabernacles" not by building sukkot, but by taking up the four species. However, the three items mentioned in verse 7 are not the four species of Sukkot, and scholars have established that the branches and fruit mentioned in this verse was typical of Hellenistic victory festivals (see David Sperber, "Mitsvat 'ulqahtem' behag haSukkot", Sidra 15 (1999), pp. 167-179).

 

It would seem therefore that Hanukkah was celebrated in Jerusalem after the Temple was purified and rededicated not "in the manner of Sukkot", but "barracks-style", by constructing the type of barracks used by soldiers. They celebrated Hanukkah by building barracks-style buildings, remembering how they had just completed a three-year period of guerilla warfare, living outdoors, in mountains and caves, like the beasts of the field. They especially remembered the recent celebration of Sukkot in the mountains, during which the festival tabernacle took on special poignancy, since they were already living outdoors. The sukkot of Hanukkah were not an attempt to make up a missed holiday, but a recollection of the booths or barracks that were actually built in the mountains, which were especially appropriate on Sukkot, but which were also an expression of their daily lives as guerilla fighters.

 

The Maccabees remembered the temporary shelters in which they dwelt in the mountains, which were similar to festival sukkot, and in commemoration of their experience they built sukkot when they returned to Jerusalem on Hanukkah, and celebrated Hanukkah, barracks-style. In addition to commemorating their recent experience, the building of barracks also was a means of expressing gratitude to God for providing them once again with permanent shelter as the winter set in. In a sense, the rededication of the Temple, the "tabernacle of Salem" (Psalm 76:3), and the complementary construction of barracks both symbolized the need for shelter, for the Divine Presence and for people. It is interesting that Josephus, writing in Greek, like the author of II Maccabees, explains the original commandment to construct booths on Sukkot as a symbol of the human need for shelter as winter approaches (Antiquities III, 244).

 

Hanukkah was thus originally celebrated with the building of shelters, barracks, homes. Even after this ritual was replaced with the candle lighting ceremony, the Rabbis understood that Hanukkah was the festival of the home, and insisted that the mitzvah of lighting Hanukkah candles is the responsibility of the home or household, and not of the individual. Medieval Jews took this a step further, and brought the Hanukkah candles indoors, establishing that the lighting of the candles is not only the way in which each household publicizes the miracle, but that the family, household or home is the audience before whom the miracle is publicized. This turned Hanukkah into the holiday of hearth and home – the festive occasion on which the family thanks God for his miracles of yore, but also his miracles that are with us daily, including allowing the family to gather under one roof as winter sets in.

 

Moshe Benovitz is a Professor of Talmud and Jewish Law at the Schechter Institute of Jewish Studies in Jerusalem.


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For the Sports Fan who has everything…

How about Hebrew t-shirts for Hanukkah – Check out the selection at

 

 

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The Beth El Bar/Bat Mitzvah Commentary

 

Shira Durica on Vayishlach

 

In the beginning…. As I began to study for my bat mitzvah, I started to have the strangest dreams. In my dream, which repeated over several nights. I was standing in a synagogue, I looked out and the rows of chairs went out forever. But instead of people, there were shadows. I couldn’t make them out. I look down for my siddur, and there was nothing to read off of. And then I looked out into the chairs and around me for the rabbi and cantor, and they vanished. The bima disintegrated into shadows, and the walls of the sanctuary toppled onto me. I was in a dark tunnel, then there was nothing, then there was… my pillow.

 

As a girl who loves to write and think, and…dream, I have noticed that dreaming is a major contributor toward building a creative mind. And I dream a lot, remember most of them, and some of them are, shall we say….strange. Like the Penguins! I can vividly remember in first grade, I worried about moving to a new school, and entering a new community. So one night I dreamed that I was with penguins, and they were all jumping into the water. It was as if I was invisible to them. They would push past me to slide into the icy water. And then, one penguin stood next to me, and nodded. We jumped in together. I remember that sting of cold water, but then warm slippery fins on my shoulder. But I wondered what this meant. Diving into a community? Or how important it is to be different. I was human, the rest were penguins

 

Genesis is filled with dreams, like the one in my portion…. Is it a dream…or not? Late at night, the long suspenseful night in which Jacob was waiting to meet his brother Esau after 20 years. Jacob comes to a river, and crosses it to return to his homeland of Caanan. The river’s name was Jabbok, which if your move a couple of letters is Jacob. It is almost a dreamlike coincidence.

 

His wrestling match was with someone called a man, but later on a divine being, also like an unknown dream because he was a mystery, a man, an angel, himself, his brother, or maybe even God?

 

I think Jacob was wrestling with himself because that is what we do in dreams, which help us try to resolve a conflict, or decode a message we need to know. What Jacob needed to know was not to be afraid of his brother. As much as Esau wanted to kill Jacob years before, in the end, they came together and hugged.

 

Now I understand what my recent dream meant. My inner self didn’t want me to be afraid of today. It didn’t want me to give up on myself, to reach until I grabbed the prize.  

 

Just as Jacob the dreamer became Israel in my portion, so has the state of Israel always dreamed of peace. Right now Israelis await the safe return of three captive soldiers. For my mitzvah project, I sold dog tags with the soldiers’ names on it; the money will go toward growing trees in Israel. So far I have planted a whole grove.

 

(In the my charge to Shira, I cited a story written by one of the captive Israeli soldiers, Gilad Shalit, when he was in 5th grade, about a shark and fish who became friends. Find it at http://www.habanim.org/en/gilad_story_en.html)

 

 

Jillian Katz on Vayeshev

 

(And Yashar Koach to Jillian for reading Torah at morning minyan on Thursday and at our traditional service on Synaplex Shabbat!)

 

My portion, Vayeshev, includes many well known figures, such as Jacob, Joseph and his brothers.  Although they are important, perhaps the most significant character of them all does not even have a name. 

           

When Joseph was sent by Jacob to check on his brothers in the north, he got lost.  The Torah tells us that he encountered a man – in Hebrew, “Eesh,” who gave him directions to the place where his brothers were shepherding.  Without these directions, Joseph would never have found his brothers, they would never have sold him into slavery, he would not have gone down to Egypt, where he was thrown into jail, and rose to become second to the Pharaoh.  Eventually, that led to his brothers and father joining him there and settling down.  That led to their becoming slaves and ultimately being freed, crossing the Red Sea, and receiving the Torah.  Without these simple directions, none if this would ever have happened. 

           

Sometimes, even people who appear insignificant are the ones who make the greatest impact.  There is another example in my portion.  While Joseph is in jail, he interprets the dreams of two of Pharaoh’s servants, a butler and a baker.  He foresees that the butler will return to Pharaoh’s service, but the baker will die.  He asks the butler one simple favor, that when he starts working for Pharaoh again, he will tell him about Joseph.  Unfortunately, the butler forgets, but later on, when Pharaoh has disturbing dreams, he remembers.  But you’ll have to tune in to next week’s portion to get the rest of the story.

           

I can think of some examples from my own life of insignificant people making a big difference.  This past shavout, when I was in Philadelphia with my family, we were walking aimlessly through a park, looking for a place to eat.  We were hoping we would stumble upon something on our own, but had no luck.  Suddenly, a woman walking a dog appeared.  We stopped to pet the dog and struck up a brief conversation.  We also found out that she was Jewish and that her kids had gone to a Hebrew Day School, just like me!  She generously walked us to her favorite local restaurant.  She left us there, walked on; we never even learned her name.  She randomly walked in and out of my life, but in a brief time, she made a big difference.  The meal was delicious!  She played the same role as the “Eesh.”

           

Now I can come to realize that there are LOTS of people like that in my life.  Several weeks ago, my class went to nature’s classroom at Greenkill New York.  One of our teachers pointed out to us how many people work behind the scenes to make our experience possible.  I never met most of them, but their hard work made a difference in my experience.

           

There’s one other person that I’d like to mention, who has made a difference in my life.  Although I know her name, she has changed my life all the same.  Her name is Jesse and she has RETTS Syndrome, a rare genetic disorder found only in girls. RETTS syndrome is a neuro developmental disorder that can be characterized by normal early development followed by the loss of purposeful use of the hands, distinctive hand movements, slow brain or head growth, seizures, and mental retardation. Perhaps the most disabling feature of  RETTS syndrome is the inability to perform most motor functions. This interferes with every movement, from muscle to speech. The symptoms of RETTS syndrome often vary from child to child.

           

Scientists have now identified the gene and are working to make a cure or treatment. This is a big step towards finding a cure. While a woman is pregnant, their baby can be tested to find out if they may or may not have RETTS. Since RETTS syndrome appears in all racial and ethical groups worldwide, any girl baby can have it.

           

My mitzvah project is to spread awareness and help the RETTS foundation get closer to a cure. I am going to donate a portion of my Bat Mitzvah money to the RETTS foundation.  I hope my contribution can make a difference in some other girl’s life.

           

Jesse has become my “eesh” because she’s helped to give my life direction.  She has inspired me to help other girls and not take simple things for granted.

           

Now that I am bat mitzvah, I understand that there are many people that will pass quickly through my life and change everything before I realize it, or have the chance to thank them.  On this Thanksgiving weekend, I want to thank them all, even of they don’t know it!  In the same way, as a bat mitzvah I now can represent the “Eesh” in others’ lives.  That can even be taking place at this very moment.

 

 

Required Reading and Action Items

 

From www.myjewishlearing.com  on the 60th anniversary of the UN Partition plan

 

On November 29th, 1947, the United Nations passed a plan to partition Palestine into an Arab State and a Jewish state, bringing about the birth of Israel in May 1948.  

Two Peoples, Two States

The U.N. and the Partition Plan 

The Partition Plan Clash of Nationalisms, By Scott Copeland

 

 

Israel Broadcasting Authority’s Daily English News

 

 

Some GOOD NEWS from Israel 21c, www.isrealli.org,

 and other sources

 

FAQs on American Jews: U.S. Community Population Estimates is based upon comparative data initially compiled by Dr. Ira M. Sheskin in his Jewish community study reports. The tables are based on studies available at the Mandell L. Berman Institute - North American Jewish Data Bank. Drs. Dashefsky, Sheskin and Miller have revised these tables as needed for this online publication, which will be updated as new Jewish community studies are completed.

2006 American Jewish Population article by DB Board MemberIra Sheskin and DB Director Arnold Dashefsky, published in AJC's American Jewish Year Book.

http://www.bnaibrith.org/magazine/2007SpringBBM/2007_spring_BBM_main.html - Interesting article on Jews in Sports… and did you know that this year’s NL Rookie of the Year, Ryan Braun, is half Jewish?  They call him “The Hebrew Hammer.” And then there’s Kevin Youkilis, Gold Glove winner.

http://www.tjctv.com/

Peres hosts Seinfeld at Beit Hanassi - Recalling that first visit as a teen, Seinfeld told Peres that as an adult he was no less excited to be coming back to tour both the holy and the scenic sites. Like most Jews who meet with any of Israel's leadership, Seinfeld wanted to know straight from the horse's mouth exactly what the situation is in Israel. He was equally interested to know the secret of Peres's good health, unflagging optimism and long life. The secret to good health and long life said Peres, was to let the mind govern the body, to eat properly, to continue to work energetically, and to read as much as possible. It must have been obvious to Seinfeld when Peres quizzed him about the film, its plot and the computerization techniques that part the secret of Peres's longevity is that Peres remains eternally young in spirit, ever curious about innovations and those things that he does not yet know about. He is always looking forward to tomorrow with greater enthusiasm than he looks back at yesterday.

A new breed of Israeli filmmaker  
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Prime source: Daily Alert of the Jerusalem Center for Public Affairs

 

Olmert: Israel Not Committed to Any Deadline - Herb Keinon
Speaking with reporters following his final meeting with President Bush at the White House on Wednesday, Prime Minister Olmert said Israel had not committed itself to any deadline whatsoever to reach an agreement with the Palestinians. He also stressed that it was completely clear to all parties that the agreement would not be implemented until all the Palestinian requirements under the road map - including dismantling the terrorist infrastructure - are fulfilled. He emphasized that this included both the West Bank and Gaza. (Jerusalem Post)

Arab Representatives in U.S. Shun Israeli Foreign Minister - Herb Keinon
Foreign Minister Tzipi Livni failed in attempts to set up meetings in Annapolis or Washington with colleagues from the Arab world, even though the summit was designed to show international support for Israeli-Palestinian negotiations. Israeli officials interpreted this as evidence that the Arab world had not changed its fundamental policy that there would be no warming of relations with Israel until after a deal, and that normalization was one of the Arab world's major bargaining chips. (Jerusalem Post)

Palestinians Fire 20 Mortar Shells at Israel from Gaza on Wednesday
Palestinians in Gaza fired 20 mortars at southern Israel on Wednesday, Israel Radio reported. (Jerusalem Post)

Sixty Palestinians Hurt in Fatah-Hamas Clashes - Khaled Abu Toameh
Thousands of Hamas and Hizb al-Tahrir supporters participated in the funeral on Wednesday of Hisham al-Baradi, who was shot dead by PA security forces during protests against the Annapolis peace conference that erupted in Hebron on Tuesday. The mourners hurled bottles and stones at Palestinian policemen waiting outside the mosque, who responded by opening fire. For nearly 60 minutes, the area outside the mosque was turned into a battlefield. By the end of the day, residents said at least 60 people were injured, half of them policemen.
    Hizb al-Tahrir spokesman Maher Ja'bari said Abbas was on his way to losing control over the West Bank. He added: "When we talk about occupied Palestine, we mean the land from the river to the sea, not only the West Bank and Gaza. There is no room for the State of Israel. When they move out of all of Palestine as a state, there can be peace." (Jerusalem Post)
    See also The Palestinians After the Summit - Zvi Bar'el
Fatah's violent dispersal of the Hamas rally against the Annapolis summit in Hebron attests to Mahmoud Abbas' determination to seal every crack Hamas might slip through. At the same time, it illustrates that the PA chairman is dealing with a time bomb. It is clear to Abbas and Washington that an all-out war by Fatah on Hamas is impossible without massive military intervention by Israel. However, if Abbas enlists Israeli help for such a cause, he would undermine his own legitimacy. (Ha'aretz)

After Annapolis - Editorial
How do the so-called moderate Palestinians expect Israel to cede territory when they'll cede nothing on the right of Israel simply to exist? The U.S. is in no realistic position to force peace on people unwilling or unable to make it - to get Abbas to reclaim the Gaza Strip, for instance, or prevent Hamas from raining rockets on Israel. Nor can the Administration decently ask Israelis to compromise their security for the sake of a "peace process" that exists more in the minds of Western diplomats than it does among the human beings living in harm's way. Bush and Rice run the risk of repeating the mistakes of the Clinton Administration, which made a fetish of photo-ops, left the hard issues to the end, and tried to substitute atmospherics for substance. (Wall Street Journal)

Indyk: Bush Seemed Uninvolved in His Own Peace Conference - Bernard Gwertzman
In an interview, Martin S. Indyk, Director of the Saban Center for Middle East Policy at the Brookings Institution, said: "The secretary of state, unlike the president, is very committed to trying to reach a final status agreement. It was her heavy lifting that got the powers to Annapolis in the first place....Each step of the way, she's had to bring the president along. She got him to commit to the international meeting....You get the sense that he'll turn up...but in terms of wanting to roll up his sleeves actively and get involved in the negotiations in order to achieve an agreement by the end of his administration, which is a goal that he has now embraced, I think that is questionable. You didn't get the sense in any of his words or his body language yesterday that there's a real commitment to that." (Council on Foreign Relations)

Why Should the Annapolis Summit Be Any Different? - Peter Philipp
It is odd that, without even trying to get to the real core issues in the Middle East conflict, peace is now supposed to be possible - more so than in the past. Declarations of intention alone do not suffice. Otherwise, we would have had a pacified, free and democratic Iraq as a role model for the rest of the Arab world long ago. (Deutsche Welle-Germany)

Sixty Years of Arab Rejection - Salim Mansur (Toronto Sun)

·         Sixty years ago on November 29, 1947, the UN passed the resolution on partitioning Palestine, held by Britain under the League of Nations mandate, into two states: One Arab and one Jewish.

·         At any time during the years since then, the Arab states could have acknowledged the rights of Jews to a state in Palestine, accepted the UN resolution on partition, negotiated the details of coexistence, assisted the Palestinians with their state, and received support of the great powers, including the U.S., in meeting the needs of their people and bringing prosperity to the region given the resources available.

·         But the Arab position was a resounding "three nos" as duly spelled out after the June 1967 war: No peace and no negotiation with and no recognition of Israel.

·         The great lie repeatedly told in the Mideast, and swallowed whole or in part in the West, is that the U.S.' unconditional support for Israel stands in the way of just peace in the region.

·         What is implicit in this lie is the meaning of just peace. For the Arab and Muslim supporters of Hamas, Hizbullah, al-Qaeda and the Iranian acolytes of the late Ayatollah Khomeini, just peace requires the rollback of Israel and returning Jews to the secondary status of "dhimmi" (protected people) as provided by Islamic laws when Arabs were empire builders.

Israel's Right to Defensible Borders: 40 Years After UN Resolution 242  - A Conference in Jerusalem - 4 June 2007  - On November 22, 1967, the UN Security Council adopted Resolution 242, which decades later provided the main agreed basis for all of Israel's peace agreements with Egypt, Jordan, and the Palestinian Authority. In the summer of 2007, the Jerusalem Center for Public Affairs and the Konrad Adenauer Foundation held a conference commemorating the adoption of Resolution 242 and its establishment of Israel's right to "secure and recognized borders."
    See and hear the following English presentations:
    Ambassador Yehuda Blum
    Ambassador Meir Rosenne
    Prof. Ruth Lapidot
    Prof. Alan Dershowitz
    Ambassador Richard Holbrooke
    (Hear Hebrew presentations.)

Oasis or Mirage? - Thomas L. Friedman
The Middle East is experiencing something we haven't seen in a long, long time: moderates getting their act together a little, taking tentative stands and pushing back on the bad guys. If all that sounds kind of, sort of, maybe, qualified, well ... it is. But in a region in which extremists go all the way and the moderates usually just go away, it's the first good news in years - an oasis in a desert of despair.
    The Saudi foreign minister, Prince Saud al-Faisal, announced even before he got to Annapolis that there would be no handshakes with any Israelis. Too bad. A surprising gesture of humanity, like a simple handshake from a Saudi leader to an Israeli leader, would actually go a long way toward convincing Israelis that there is something new here, that it's not just about the Arabs being afraid of Iran, but that they're actually willing to coexist with Israel. (New York Times)

Gathering Israelis and Arabs May Have Been the Real Feat - Michael Abramowitz
Some experts suggested that getting 16 senior Arab officials into the same room as the Israeli leader might have been the signal achievement of Tuesday's peace conference. The conference's joint paper skirted the toughest issues and essentially codified existing efforts by Olmert and Abbas to negotiate the contours of a Palestinian state. "The meeting was the message," said Martin S. Indyk of the Brookings Institution's Saban Center for Middle East Policy. The last time such a large number of Arab officials appeared with their Israeli counterparts was at the 1991 Madrid peace conference.
    "We've seen plenty of promising initial discussions regarding progress between the Israelis and Palestinians. The devil is in the details, and every process has broken down. So it's very dangerous to read too much into these processes too early," said David Rothkopf of the Carnegie Endowment for International Peace. (Washington Post)
    See also The Day after Annapolis - Dennis Ross
There is value in having a show of international support for the resumption of an Israeli-Palestinian peace process. And that is what Annapolis is about. After nearly seven years of no peace process, this is a welcome development. (USA Today)

Peace Parks and Pipedreams - Dan Diker
Quartet envoy Tony Blair has announced a major initiative to create thousands of jobs for unemployed Palestinians. However, since Oslo's inception in 1993, the often naive enthusiasm for these types of economic projects undertaken on behalf of the Palestinians has killed most of the projects while they were still on the drawing board. Other forms of economic cooperation have frequently ended up enriching local business warlords and terror groups. For example, Israeli business magnate Stef Wertheimer's multi-million dollar project in the mid-1990s to develop an industrial park near Rafiah in southern Gaza crashed and burned when Arafat's local financial warlords got involved demanding their share of the action. Other Israeli-led initiatives between 1995 and 2000 to build industrial parks in West Bank cities such as Tulkarm and Kalkilya also failed.
    The idea of Israeli and international investment and ownership and cheap Palestinian labor has been a fatal flaw. This master-servant business structure reinforces a Palestinian sense that Israel is creating a New Middle East by "conquering" the Palestinian economy and creating an economic "occupation" in the name of the peace process. Finally, Hamas and Fatah's Aksa Martyrs Brigade will not accede to Israeli- and Western-owned factories or businesses operating in the Palestinian areas. Hamas and Fatah's destruction of the Erez and Karni industrial zones in Gaza illustrate their intentions. (Jerusalem Post)

The Challenge of Annapolis - David Horovitz (Jerusalem Post)

·         PA Prime Minister Salaam Fayad is regarded as a sober, worldly and professional leader of a standard quite unlike any previous Palestinian politician. But the Palestinian public is more extreme than it was seven years ago.

·         That Secretary of State Rice believed, in the earlier Annapolis planning stages, that it might be possible to make dramatic progress on the core final-status issues in the weeks preceding the summit is dismaying testament to American misassessment of the Palestinian mood and the room for maneuver of its leadership.

·         Those around Fayad believe the summit is premature. Fatah is not reformed. The PA cannot provide effective security in the West Bank. The Palestinian public is in no mood for concessions, and even raising final-status issues is playing with fire. These voices are talking about the need to supplant whole generations raised on a diet of hatred and martyrdom.

·         There is a second line of thinking - among Palestinians who discern a pattern of unilateral concession from Israel and see no incentive or imperative to compromise at all. Israel has left Gaza. It is talking about leaving all of the West Bank, albeit with settlement bloc adjustments. It is talking about unprecedented concessions in east Jerusalem. It is finding no answer to rocket attacks from Gaza and proved vulnerable to attack from south Lebanon. So why hurry, they ask, to compromise on the refugee issue and other maximalist demands?

Olmert at Annapolis: We Want Peace; We Demand an End to Terror, Incitement and Hatred
Prime Minister Olmert said Tuesday at Annapolis: "I came here today from Jerusalem on behalf of the people of Israel and the State of Israel to extend a hand in peace to the Palestinian people and to our neighboring Arab states."
    "The memory of the failures of the near and distant past weighs heavy on us. The dreadful terrorism perpetrated by Palestinian terrorist organizations has affected thousands of Israeli citizens....The continued shooting of Kassam rockets against tens of thousands of residents in the south of Israel, particularly in the city of Sderot, serves as a warning sign - one which cannot be overlooked. The...rule of Hamas in Gaza, the ongoing activity of murderous organizations throughout all the territories of the Palestinian Authority...are factors which deter us from moving forward too hastily."
    "The negotiations will be based on previous agreements between us, UN Security Council Resolutions 242 and 338, the Roadmap, and the April 14, 2004, letter of President Bush to the Prime Minister of Israel."
    "There is not a single Arab state in the north, east or south with which we do not seek peace. There is no Muslim state with which we do not want to establish diplomatic relations. Anyone who wants peace with us, we say to them, from the bottom of our hearts: welcome!" (Israel Ministry of Foreign Affairs)

Israel to Set Up 14 Negotiating Teams for Talks with PA - Barak Ravid
The Israeli cabinet is expected to approve shortly the establishment of a "negotiations administration" that will include 14 working groups, before negotiations start on December 12. (Ha'aretz)

Saudis: No Normalization Until Israel "Meets All the Conditions" - Lydia Georgi
Saudi participation in a U.S.-hosted peace meeting does not mean that Riyadh is normalizing relations, Saudi analysts said on Monday. It was natural that Saudi Arabia should attend Tuesday's conference at Annapolis since it was the author of the Arab peace plan serving as one of the bases of the meeting, the pundits said. Normalization will come only after peace negotiations are completed, but at the same time Riyadh's attendance alongside more than a dozen Arab countries "will show the Israeli side that we are ready for normalization if (Israel) meets all the conditions," said Anwar Eshki, who heads a Jeddah-based private think tank. (Kuwait Times)

Getting From Annapolis to Permanent Status

Israel may find it beneficial to consider the 2nd Phase of the Roadmap which calls for the establishment of a Palestinian State with Provisional Borders before a Permanent Status Agreement. Israel can already prepare the groundwork for a Palestinian State, in parallel to negotiations. Read more...

·         What is Israel's 'organizing logic' vis-à-vis Gaza?

·         The Palestinian State and the Issue of Self-Determination

·         The influence of the Palestinian Constitution on the Israeli-Palestinian relationship

·         The One State Solution: From the Margins into the Center?

·         Who Controls the PLO?

Stemming the Tide of Violence Against Israeli Women

 

 

Israel: Myths and Facts

MYTH #282

"No state in the world connects its national identity to a religious identity."

FACT

Just as the parties were preparing for peace talks in Annapolis, the Palestine Authority’s chief negotiator, Saeb Erekat, said the Palestinians would not recognize Israel as a Jewish state. This latest effort by a Palestinian official to delegitimize Israel was accompanied by Erekat’s startling statement that “no state in the world connects its national identity to a religious identity” (Haaretz, November 12, 2007).

Apparently Erekat has not read the draft constitution for the future state he envisions in Palestine or the PA’s Basic Law, which declare Islam the state religion of Palestine. He also conveniently overlooks the following nations that have established Islam as their state religion: Afghanistan, Algeria, Azerbaijan, Bahrain, Bangladesh, Brunei, Iran, Iraq, Jordan, Kuwait, Maldives, Mauritania, Morocco, Oman, Pakistan, Qatar, Saudi Arabia, Tunisia, Yemen, United Arab Emirates.

Nations with predominantly Muslim populations are not the only ones to link their national and religious identity. These nations constitutionally recognize Christianity or Catholicism as their state religion: Argentina, Armenia, Bolivia, Costa Rica, Denmark, El Salvador, Finland, Greece, Iceland, Lichtenstein, Malta, Monaco, Norway and the United Kingdom. Bhutan and Cambodia are officially Buddhist nations (2006 State Department Report on International Religious Freedom).

Israel has no official state religion. Freedom of worship is guaranteed to all. It is, however, the homeland of the Jewish people and was established and recognized internationally as a Jewish state by the United Nations in the partition resolution.

This article can be found at http://www.jewishvirtuallibrary.org/jsource/myths2/exclusives.html#a81

See also Mitchell Bard's blog: http://blogs.britannica.com/blog/main/author/mbard

Source: Myths & Facts Online -- A Guide to the Arab-Israeli Conflict by Mitchell G. Bard.

 

Joke for the Week

 

My mother once gave me two sweaters for Hanukkah. The next
time we visited, I made sure to wear one. As we entered her home,
instead of the expected smile, she said, "What's the matter? You
didn't, like the other one?"

 

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